Online Codependency therapists in London, England ENG, United Kingdom UK
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Ulrike Nau-Debor
Psychologist, CPsychol, AFBPsS, HCPC registered
Over the years, I’ve observed that many of us have aspects of codependency within us. Addressing our habitual focus on other people's needs and learning to be authentic again is incredibly rewarding. We often fear losing connection with others, but by embracing authenticity, we can balance our need for connection with our true selves.
Many of us have learned to prioritize attachment over authenticity out of necessity, leading to lives that feel less vibrant and exciting because they are driven by fear. Embracing authenticity doesn't mean becoming self-centered; rather, it allows us to set boundaries and limits without the inner stress or resentment that can arise from feeling obligated to fulfill others' needs without acknowledgment or reciprocity.
By learning to stop feeling responsible for others' emotions, we can feel safer and more relaxed around people, recognizing that this is a game we cannot win. This process helps you become grounded in yourself, present, and in touch with your adult self.
22 Years Experience
Online in London, ENG (Online Only)
Donna Collins
Registered Psychotherapist, BSc (hons), PGDip, SupervisionDip
Codependency is something that many people struggle with in relationships. This can promote feelings of helplessness and fear. It is possible to move from this experience to one of inner strength and independence within a relationship and I am able to support you in your journey towards this.
11 Years Experience
Online in London, ENG
Ummayah Sidhu
Counsellor/Therapist, Ummayah Sidhu | BACP Accredited Psychotherapist | Identity & Heritage Specialist
If you find yourself constantly 'fixing' others at the expense of your own needs, we can work together to establish healthy boundaries. We’ll focus on rediscovering your own identity and building balanced, mutual relationships.
10 Years Experience
Online in London, ENG (Online Only)
Jason Fletcher Hypnotherapy and Coaching
Hypnotherapist, FNCIP SQHP
Codependency often involves patterns of over-responsibility, people-pleasing, or losing a sense of self in relationships. I support people in exploring how these patterns developed and how they affect emotional wellbeing and boundaries. Codependency work focuses on building healthier autonomy, emotional stability, and more balanced relationships.
23 Years Experience
Online in London, ENG
Mandy Randall-Gavin MBACP, UKATA
Counsellor/Therapist, BA Hons, Dip TA Prac: UKATA
If you are codependent, this can seep into every aspect of your life, not necessarily healthily. A codependent relationship can make you feel like you're giving everything of yourself, until there's nothing left to give. Many people don't realize they're in a codependent relationship cycle until the exhaustion and resentment issues become overwhelming and are too much to ignore. Even then, they may not recognize that codependency is the culprit. At its core, codependency means losing touch with your own needs while over-investing in the needs of others. Even if it feels familiar and comfortable, it's not a sustainable way to live.
14 Years Experience
Online in London, ENG
James Darby
Registered Psychotherapist, Postgraduate Diploma Core Process Psychotherapy, DCHyp, ABSCH, MBA
Co-dependency often involves deeply ingrained patterns of self-sacrifice, emotional dependency, and a lack of personal boundaries, rooted in unresolved emotional wounds from childhood development and relational dynamics. I can help individuals to explore and understand these patterns by helping people to understand how unmet needs from the past can be unconsciously reenacted in their current adult relationships. The intention being that with such understanding the clients I work with can begin to move towards healthier, more boundaried, collaborative and interdependent relationships with their friends and loved ones.
21 Years Experience
Online in London, ENG
Saffron Marriner
Counsellor/Therapist, MBACP (Accred)
The way that I often work with clients in relation to codependency is by integrating a humanistic approach with the use of somatic approaches which focus on the body's role in storing and expressing trauma. These techniques help clients release trapped energy and build a sense of safety within their own bodies. Methods include:
- Body awareness exercises that help clients tune into physical sensations and identify areas of tension or discomfort.
- Breathwork and grounding techniques to regulate the nervous system and promote relaxation.
I work with codependent clients to help you recognise and change unhealthy relational patterns by:
- Exploring the origins of your codependent behaviours and the unmet needs driving them. We may use parts work if this feels helpful to you.
- Teaching assertiveness and communication skills to enable clients to express your needs and set healthy boundaries.
- Supporting clients in gradually shifting your focus from external validation to internal self-worth.
With integrating a Trauma-Informed Practice:
A trauma-informed approach ensures that therapy is sensitive to the impacts of trauma and prioritises the client's safety and empowerment. Key principles include:
- Recognizing the widespread impact of trauma and understanding its signs and symptoms.
- Avoiding re-traumatisation by being mindful of triggers and respecting the client's pace.
- Collaborating with clients to set goals and involve you actively in your healing process.
Working with codependent clients through an integrative humanistic and somatic trauma-informed approach offers a compassionate and effective pathway to healing. By addressing the deep-seated roots of codependency in trauma, therapists can help clients build healthier relationships, develop a stronger sense of self, and ultimately lead more fulfilling lives.
22 Years Experience
Online in London, ENG
Birgit Schreiber Dr
Psychologist, PhD and MA in Psychology
This is a very interesting area as many of us depend on others, but when it becomes detrimental and we find ourselves in a relationship that is causing us much harm or worry, then it is useful to examine why we struggle to change something.
26 Years Experience
Online in London, ENG (Online Only)
Jonathan Livingstone Therapy & Coaching
Psychologist, MSc, MA, PGCE, GMBPsS
Every therapeutic problem will find an expression in the person's most significant relationship - that is, the relationship with the person's partner. Codependency is therefore an almost inevitable consequence of therapeutic problems in the individual. I will help you to resolve these problems by finding and resolving the causes of them in your past.
28 Years Experience
Online in London, ENG
Dr George Booty. The PsychoTRAUMA Clinic (Convergence College of Psychotherapy)
Registered Psychotherapist, Dr, DPsych, MA Couns, MA Psych, PG Dip Spvn
I deal with Codependency especially to help sufferers to stop rescuing unnecessarily and to uncover Love Avoidant Addicts and Love Seeker Addicts to gain a healthier lifestyle and to enjoy fuller healthier relationships with others.
31 Years Experience
Online in London, ENG
Adima Hawkes
Counsellor/Therapist, Psychotherapist, Spiritual Teacher, Gene Keys Guide, Trainer Tibetan Acupressure & Iridology
Spiritually speaking, we're all dependent on each other for our natural needs and according to the cosmic laws. Down to earth speaking, most of us experience dependencies with others in our daily life as limiting to our personal freedom. I invite you to find out what freedom really is or means. This enables us to discern the difference between an unavoidable natural dependency and a personal dream or even power trip. Above all, we need to learn to see our own blind spots! Not those of the other, which is always the easier thing to do.
30 Years Experience
Online in London, ENG
Valentina Olper
Therapist, MSc
Reclaim your self-contained power. Codependency is often a seeking of the source outside oneself. We nurture the parts of you that feel tender and in need of attention, rebuilding your boundaries so you can model wholeness and love without compromising your inner peace.
10 Years Experience
Online in London, ENG
Emma Poxon
Counsellor/Therapist, MA Person-Centred Experiential Counselling
Codependency can feel completely overwhelming, like there's no way out and you cannot exist without the person, animal, or item you are bonded to. As your therapist I am here to be with you, reminding you that you are not alone. We can explore how codependency feels for you, when it is at its worst, and help you to gain more of a sense of control over this. You are not a problem to be fixed, my aim as your therapist is to try to provide the right conditions to allow you to explore whatever you want to bring to therapy to support your growth. This isn't a therapeutic approach wherein I will set a treatment plan or tell you what to do. We will work together as a partnership rather than me taking away your autonomy. I absolutely love the work I do, it is the biggest privilege being let into people’s personal worlds and seeing the immense growth of my clients. I hope to hear from you soon!
7 Years Experience
Online in London, ENG (Online Only)
Lulu AlRashdi
Life Coach
Codependency is often the attempt to meet, through adult relationships, emotional needs that were not fully met in childhood. The goal is not to become independent from everyone, but to develop relationships based on mutual respect, healthy boundaries, and genuine connection rather than unmet childhood needs.
3 Years Experience
Online in London, ENG (Online Only)
Kat Pachana-Pereira
Registered Psychotherapist, Integrative Therapist (CBT), Couples Therapist, EMDR Therapist
We will work on understanding causes of codependency and strengthening a sense of of self
9 Years Experience
Online in London, ENG
Delphine Marina Psychotherapy and Counselling
Registered Psychotherapist, Diploma Soul Centred Psychotherapy; MA(R.es) Cultural Studies; GradDip IT & Politics; BA(Hons)Human
Supporting you to break free from people-pleasing, self-abandonment, and patterns of overgiving.
Exploring the roots of co-dependency and reclaiming your voice, boundaries, and inner worth.
16 Years Experience
Online in London, ENG
Jade at We Tackle Trauma
Counsellor/Therapist, MAASW, MSW, QTS, BSc (Hons)
Hey there, I combine lived experience with professional knowledge to help you unpick how codependency is impacted your life and how to address this. Whether you are seeking to explore the impacts of your early relationships and how these may have impacted you, or you are aiming to set clearer boundaries in your adult relationships, or just to select better relationships; I am here and happy to help.
I also have the skillset to explore with you, how embodied trauma may contribute to codependency, and how to move the body through trauma; through the use of somatic practices. Consults are free and instantly bookable on the We Tackle Trauma website, I look forward to meeting you- Jade Evelyn Gayle
20 Years Experience
Online in London, ENG
Sudeva Hawkes
Registered Psychotherapist, Registered Clinical Counsellor, B.Couns., MNCPS Accred. , PACFA Reg.
Together we'll create a safe space to explore the patterns of codependency and revitalise your sense of self. My approach combines clinical expertience with trauma-informed techniques, incorporating mindfulness to help you establish healthy boundaries and cultivate self-worth. We'll work together on breaking free from unhealthy dynamics, fostering independence and emotional resilience. My goal is to empower you to find balance and strength, and to assist in realising and expressing your true potential.
29 Years Experience
Online in London, ENG (Online Only)
Leonie M Dippenaar
Counsellor/Therapist, (BWRT) Master Coach, (CHT )Certified Hypnotherapist (EPP) Ethno Psychology Practitioner
Let go of the root cause of codependency and find your way back to your own power
18 Years Experience
Online in London, ENG (Online Only)
James Hitchen - I Am James Therapy & Coaching
Therapist, Psychotherapeutic counselling (level 5), MBACP, AdV member Addiction Professionals, MNCPS accred. National Centre For Eating Disorders
I am member of the International Stress Management Association, am and advanced member of Addiction Professionals registration body and am a member of the Complex Trauma Institute. I am an addictions and eating disorder specialist as well as working with other issues such as anxiety, depression, trauma, ADHA, self harm, self esteem, loneliness and other disorders. I offer a range of services from 1:1 and group counselling/coaching sessions. I trained at Richmond College and am strongly informed by 12 step philosophy as well as helping clients to look after their mental, physical, spiritual and emotional health to thrive in life.
9 Years Experience
Online in London, ENG
London's scale, pace, and cost of living create a high-pressure environment where therapists are in strong demand for burnout, anxiety, work-life imbalance, and the social isolation that can accompany life in a global megacity. The city's extraordinary diversity means therapists with cross-cultural competence and multilingual capability are particularly sought after, especially for communities navigating immigration stress, identity, and belonging. The NHS offers mental health services through its IAPT programme, though many Londoners seek private therapy for greater continuity of care and therapist choice. London's therapy community is one of the largest and most professionally diverse in the world, with practitioners trained across psychodynamic, CBT, integrative, and humanistic traditions.
Codependency therapists in London, England, United Kingdom Statistics
Codependency therapists in London, England, United Kingdom average 16 years of experience and charge around ¤135 per session. 100% offer online sessions. The most commonly treated issues are Codependency (100%), Anxiety or Fears (84%), and Depression (78%).
Average years in practice
16 Years Experience
Average cost per session
¤135
Gender ID
| 76% |
Female |
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| 22% |
Male |
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| 2% |
Non-Binary |
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Session Type
| 68% |
In Person and Online |
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| 32% |
Online Only |
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Top Specialties
| 100% | Codependency |
| 84% | Anxiety or Fears |
| 78% | Depression |
| 76% | Stress |
| 74% | Self Esteem |
| 62% | Social Anxiety |
| 60% | Loss or Grief |