Online Self Esteem therapists in Upminster, England ENG, United Kingdom UK
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Gemma Autumn
Counsellor/Therapist, Integrative Adult and Adolescent Counsellor Cert, PgDip, MBACP Accredited
I work with those going through issues related to self-esteem.
10 Years Experience
Online in Upminster, ENG
Irene Valis
Registered Psychotherapist, PACFA certified Gestalt therapist, Counsellor, Life Coach
My holistic, relational approach to therapy helps women to identify negative or limiting self-beliefs about themselves in a safe, non-judgemental space. This involves parts-work where individuals develop the capability to embrace and integrate all parts of self - helping to move from self-criticism and aversion; to self-compassion and acceptance. This restored sense of awareness and wholeness awakens the calm, clarity and confidence that is already within and awaits you.
5 Years Experience
Online in Upminster, ENG
Patchouli Therapy
Counsellor/Therapist, Prof. Adv. Dip. PC, Dip. Hyp, Dip. CBT/REBT, Dip. EFT, Dip. SBA, MA Psychosynthesis Psychology
I am a Psycho-Spiritual Counsellor offering bespoke services using a combination of holistic and complementary intervention to help promote your sense of Self as an individual being. I work with your beliefs and mindsets, and the perception of your worth.
13 Years Experience
Online in Upminster, ENG (Online Only)
Iva Taylor Hypnosisbloom Hypnotherapy
Hypnotherapist, CHt. Certified Hypnotherapist, Life Coach
"Low self-esteem can hold you back from living your fullest life. I specialize in helping individuals cultivate unshakeable self-worth and confidence. Together, we'll uncover the root causes of self-doubt, challenge negative self-beliefs, and build a strong foundation of self-acceptance and inner strength. You'll learn practical tools to silence your inner critic and step into your power with courage and authenticity.
2 Years Experience
Online in Upminster, ENG (Online Only)
Dr Grenville Major
Therapist, MBchB, MRCpsych, MSc psychological therapies
How do you begin to feel good enough about yourself? With the help of psychotherapy there is a route to feel better. I would like to meet with you to see what can be done to help you. This will enable us to get to know each other and see if we can work together. It’s important for you to work with someone you trust and feel safe with.
45 Years Experience
Online in Upminster, ENG
Jayne LESLEY Allen
Therapist, MIBWRT(AC and Coach, TFT DX, NLP Practioner and Coach, Hypnotherapist
Low self-esteem can quietly shape every area of life—how you see yourself, the choices you make, and the relationships you keep. Together, we’ll explore and gently release the old beliefs, patterns, or experiences that have held you back. Using neuroscience-based coaching, BWRT®, and therapeutic tools, I help you rewire the inner story you tell yourself and build a stronger, kinder sense of self. Alongside this, mindfulness and energy practices can support you in feeling more grounded, resilient, and confident. The aim is not just to “feel better,” but to truly step into your worth and create a life that reflects who you really are.
16 Years Experience
Online in Upminster, ENG
Louise Perry
Registered Psychotherapist, IFS UKCP HCCP BAAT
I work with adults who struggle with low self-esteem, including persistent self-doubt, harsh self-criticism, and a tendency to hold back in relationships or opportunities. Difficulties with self-esteem often develop over time in response to early experiences, expectations, and the roles people have learned to occupy.
My work draws on Integrative Art Psychotherapy and Internal Family Systems (IFS), offering ways to understand how these inner patterns are organised and what they may be protecting. Rather than trying to build confidence directly, the focus is on exploring how different parts relate to one another and how beliefs about self-worth have formed. Sessions may involve conversation, creative exploration, or a combination of both, depending on what feels most useful.
8 Years Experience
Online in Upminster, ENG
Julie Jenner
Counsellor/Therapist, BA(Hons), NCS Senior Accredited
Self-esteem, and confidence, can be so fragile and we can allow it to be taken from us without knowing we have a choice. If you hear a version of yourself often enough, eventually you believe it. Positive attention throughout our childhood can carry us a long way, just as unhealthy attention can be just as far reaching. We live in a society that thrusts expectation in front of us nearly constantly, and trying to live up to it can be painful and demoralising. How would you like to be able to know who you are and start living your life how you want it? Through questioning your self-beliefs, and where they come from, you can begin to feel better with who you are. By not trying to live up to standards and expectations set by others, you can find strength in doing it your way. Is low self-esteem about not being good enough, or about you trying to be somebody or something that you are not?
10 Years Experience
Online in Upminster, ENG (Online Only)
Empowered Wellbeing, Decolonizing Intersectional and Integrative Complex Trauma & Dissociation Recovery Support
Life Coach, view my credentials online at: www.recoveringfromwithin.com/credentialslongform
Amazing topic! Our approach is self actualization driven as an amalgam of student directed pedagogies, neurodevelopmental applications or care, attachment/belonging circuit work, polyvagal based, parts work based, intersectional/contextual based...It's an in-house recipe for how we arrive at this, the science is generally working from context/orientation> existential> attachment based>trauma work>situational and relational and adding integrative, functional or bio/neurofeedback care (sometimes administered by others) along the way. With a CPTSD focus, it's about building inner harmony with the parts or different layers of the psyche. We may also honor and work from eastern meditation principles, nature and support for the intuitive.
15 Years Experience
Online in Upminster, ENG (Online Only)
Birgit Schreiber Dr
Psychologist, PhD and MA in Psychology
Self-esteem is at the core of what we do in life: in our relationships, at work, in our families, and so on. Building self-esteem is a personal path that is essential for all of us.
26 Years Experience
Online in Upminster, ENG (Online Only)
Gordon Wax BA HONS MBACP
Counsellor/Therapist, Psychoanalytic Psychotherapist
We think we need many things to feel stronger. In therapy we learn why this is sometimes the case.
13 Years Experience
Online in Upminster, ENG
Will Salter - Connected Man Counselling
Counsellor/Therapist, ACA member, L2 IFS trained, Diploma of Counselling
Struggling with self-esteem can show up in many ways—doubting yourself, feeling not good enough, or constantly comparing yourself to others. These patterns can make it hard to fully enjoy relationships, work, or even your own accomplishments. We can explore where these feelings come from and begin to build a more grounded sense of confidence and self-worth. You don’t have to keep battling with self-doubt on your own—I’m here to help you reconnect with your strengths and feel more at ease in who you are
6 Years Experience
Online in Upminster, ENG (Online Only)
Dr Jacob Ellwood
Psychologist, PsychD, Cpsychol
I use a compassionate, solution-focused approach to help my clients boost their self-esteem.
14 Years Experience
Online in Upminster, ENG
Well on the Way
Therapist, Reichian Therapy (Character Analysis & Bodywork), Ecotherpay, Family Constellations, Touch for Health Kinesioogy, Natural Healing, Accredited facilitator of the Work that Reconnects
Paul Shepard wrote; “The grief and sense of loss that we often attribute to a failure in our personality, is actually a feeling of emptiness where a beautiful and strange otherness should have been encountered.”
Ecotherapy and contact with nature aims to fill the void.
44 Years Experience
Online in Upminster, ENG
Dr Paul Garden
Psychologist, Doctorate in Psychology, DPsych, MSc with Distinction, BSc First Class Honours.
People's relationship towards themselves is central to my approach to therapy. I am highly specialised in working with experiences of low self esteem, low self worth, self-hatred, and a struggle to value and love yourself.
11 Years Experience
Online in Upminster, ENG
James Skinner - YouBeYou Therapy
Counsellor/Therapist, Psychotherapist, PACFA, NLP Practitioner
You are not your inner critic. Together, we’ll explore the unconscious beliefs shaping how you see yourself and shift them from the root. You deserve to feel confident in who you are, not just on the surface, but deep within. Let’s start building that foundation today.
6 Years Experience
Online in Upminster, ENG (Online Only)
Georgie Gee
Registered Psychotherapist, Masters in Child and Adolescent Psychotherapy
I think it is helpful to work on an individuals relationship to the self and how one can have misconceptions about how you are seen in the world and how to develop a better appreciation and understanding of the self. If you feel rejected or marginalized by society do you continue to put yourself down or do we learn how to engage in a different kinder relationship with the self? This is the premise that I try to develop in my work.
19 Years Experience
Online in Upminster, ENG
Jimi Katsis
Registered Psychotherapist, MA psych, Dip SW
Low self-esteem isn't about lacking confidence. It's about carrying a deep sense that something's fundamentally wrong with you. You might be good at your job, have people who love you, tick all the boxes—but inside, you're convinced you're not enough. That if people really knew you, they'd see through the performance.
This feeling didn't come from nowhere. Somewhere along the line, you learned that who you are isn't acceptable. Maybe you were criticized, dismissed, or had to earn approval that should have been freely given. Your nervous system learned: "I have to be perfect/invisible/useful to be okay."
We work to understand where that belief got installed and why it's still running. Not through affirmations or telling you you're great—that doesn't work because you won't believe it. Instead, we look at what happened that taught you to see yourself this way, and then we start dismantling it.
Real self-worth isn't built through positive thinking. It's built through understanding why you learned to reject yourself, then slowly learning you don't have to anymore.
27 Years Experience
Online in Upminster, ENG (Online Only)
Saffron Marriner
Counsellor/Therapist, MBACP (Accred)
I work with clients regarding building self esteem both in a person centred way, feeling heard and validated, as well as at times using CBT in order to reframe thoughts in order to change feelings and work towards more empowering behaviours. These behaviours in turn encourage more supportive and compassionate self talk which enables the client to feel better about themselves.
22 Years Experience
Online in Upminster, ENG
Sudeva Hawkes
Registered Psychotherapist, Registered Clinical Counsellor, B.Couns., MNCPS Accred. , PACFA Reg.
When things go wrong, it’s easy to blame yourself. With compassionate guidance, we’ll explore self-acceptance and honesty, helping you rebuild confidence and self-worth at your own pace.
29 Years Experience
Online in Upminster, ENG (Online Only)
Self Esteem therapists in Upminster, England, United Kingdom Statistics
Self Esteem therapists in Upminster, England, United Kingdom average 14 years of experience and charge around ¤118 per session. 100% offer online sessions. The most commonly treated issues are Self Esteem (100%), Anxiety or Fears (90%), and Stress (82%).
Average years in practice
14 Years Experience
Average cost per session
¤118
Gender ID
| 67% |
Female |
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| 31% |
Male |
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| 1% |
Non-Binary |
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| 1% |
Gender Fluid |
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Session Type
| 60% |
In Person and Online |
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| 40% |
Online Only |
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Top Specialties
| 100% | Self Esteem |
| 90% | Anxiety or Fears |
| 82% | Stress |
| 80% | Depression |
| 69% | Social Anxiety |
| 68% | Trauma and PTSD |
| 59% | Loss or Grief |