Online Infidelity therapists in Winnetka, Illinois IL
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Cultivate Your Essence
Registered Psychotherapist, LPC, LCPC, MFT
The discovery of infidelity can create profound emotional pain, confusion, and loss of trust. At Cultivate Your Essence, we support individuals and couples navigating betrayal trauma, relationship repair, and difficult decisions about the future. Our goal is to provide a safe space for healing, communication, and emotional restoration.
8 Years Experience
Online in Winnetka, IL (Online Only)
Mind Lodge
Therapist, LCPC
Infidelity can shake the foundation of trust in a relationship, but recovery is possible. We help individuals and couples process the pain, rebuild communication, and work toward healing and understanding.
21 Years Experience
Online in Winnetka, IL
Tim Jenkins
Counselor/Therapist, LCPC
Through the twenty year private practice career as a counselor, I have had a special interest in helping couples that were on the brink of divorce or separation. Many of them found themselves here due to infidelity. It is a special thing to help people to first understand infidelity; why it happens and what to do about it. Primarily, partners often feel that infidelity is their fault: that they did not do something well enough or that they are not attractive, pretty or handsome enough. That is the furthest thing from the truth. Infidelity most often happens due to sexual addiction, or due to the lack of feeling happy with one's self. When another shines their warm light of attention on you, and pays you lots of compliments, it can be very addictive to achieve that dopamine rush. There is also the element of the Coolidge effect. There is a biological thing that happens in animals. Males, (and to some extent females of the species) experience renewed sexual interest whenever a new partner is introduced.
This phenomenon comes about from an anecdote about Calvin Coolidge when he was President. The President and Mrs. Coolidge were being shown around an experimental government farm walking with two separate groups of reporters. When the first lady, whom was known to have a lot of moxie, came to the chicken yard she noticed that a rooster was mating very frequently. She asked the attendant how often that happened and was told, "Dozens of times each day." Mrs. Coolidge said, "Tell that to the President when he comes by." Upon being told this, President Coolidge asked, "Same hen every time?" The reply was, "Oh, no, Mr. President, a different hen every time." President: "Tell that to Mrs. Coolidge."
26 Years Experience
Online in Winnetka, IL
Be BOLD Psychology and Consulting
Psychologist, Ph.D
Infidelity can shake the foundation of any relationship — bringing up pain, confusion, anger, and grief for everyone involved. Whether you’re trying to rebuild trust, process betrayal, or decide what comes next, we offer a supportive and honest space to sort through the aftermath of infidelity. We work with individuals and partners of all genders and relationship structures (monogamous, polyamorous, open, etc.) to understand what happened, navigate emotions, and move toward clarity and healing — whatever that looks like for you.
8 Years Experience
Online in Winnetka, IL
Dr Janice Caudill - Intensive Recovery Healing
Psychologist, PhD, CSAT-S, CCPS-S, CPTT-S, IAT, SEP
Infidelity, especially in the context of sexual or pornography addiction, is a major focus of Intensive Recovery Healing. Our team has specialty training in working with betrayers and the betrayed party. Our team includes CSATs, APSATS, Help.Her.Heal, and ERCEM professionals.
26 Years Experience
Online in Winnetka, IL
Richard Scott, Ph.D.
Psychologist, Ph.D.
Infidelity can create depression, anxiety, and negatively impact mental health. Whether you have experienced the pain of learning about infidelity of your significant other or you are struggling with guilt, shame, and regret related to infidelity, it can be detrimental to your well-being. Therapy can be a great place to get help, support, and learn tools to recover. If I can help you, please don’t hesitate to reach out.
20 Years Experience
Online in Winnetka, IL
Merrisa Dawn Santos
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC, NCC, CCTMHP, CCTP
In supporting individuals dealing with infidelity in their relationship or marriage, I provide a compassionate and nonjudgmental space for them to process their emotions and navigate the complexities of their situation. Through therapy, we explore the underlying factors contributing to the infidelity, such as communication issues, unmet needs, or underlying relationship problems. I offer strategies to cope with intense emotions such as anger, betrayal, or grief, and facilitate open and honest communication between partners. Additionally, we work on rebuilding trust, setting boundaries, and exploring the possibility of forgiveness and reconciliation if desired. My goal is to support individuals in making informed decisions about their relationship and ultimately finding healing and resolution, whether that involves rebuilding the relationship or moving forward separately.
5 Years Experience
Online in Winnetka, IL (Online Only)
Bloom Behavioral Health Ptrs
Treatment Center, Psy'D, LPC, LMSW, CAADC, CCS
We help individuals and couples navigate the emotional impact of infidelity with compassion and honesty. We provide support for rebuilding trust, improving communication, processing betrayal, and exploring healing and relationship repair.
14 Years Experience
Online in Winnetka, IL
Dr. Lindsay Perrin
Psychologist, Ph.D.
Infidelity can profoundly affect trust, self-esteem, and a person's sense of security within a relationship. I have extensive experience helping individuals navigate the emotional aftermath of betrayal, whether they are considering rebuilding the relationship, deciding whether to move forward separately, or simply trying to make sense of what has happened. While couples therapy can be an important part of the healing process, individual therapy offers a space to process your own emotions, clarify your needs and values, and make thoughtful decisions about the future of your relationship.
14 Years Experience
Online in Winnetka, IL (Online Only)
Dr. Evelyn Comber
Psychologist, L.C.P.C., Ph.D., M.A., M.P.C., M.H.S., B.G.S.
Breaking trust is a major injury to relationships. Whether that relationship is a marriage, couple, friendship, parent/child, coworker - you need someone who will not be judgmental, someone who is safe to talk to about infidelity. Call me to discuss your situation.
31 Years Experience
Online in Winnetka, IL (Online Only)
Alan Brandis, Ph.D.
Psychologist, Ph.D., Licensed Psychologist
I have worked with many couples where this has been an issue. The first thing that must be handled, if the partner who was cheated on wants the relationship to continue, is to determine if there is real commitment on both sides, and if both are willing and able to have real, meaningful discussions about what was not working for each of them prior to the affair.
36 Years Experience
Online in Winnetka, IL
Bergen Counseling Collective
Counselor/Therapist, LCPC
The discovery changes everything. Trust that took years to build is shattered in a moment, and now you're both trying to figure out what comes next. Whether you're the one who was betrayed or the one who strayed, the path forward is painful and confusing. Can this be repaired? Should it be? How do you even begin? Our Gottman-trained clinicians specialize in helping couples navigate the aftermath of infidelity. We won't rush you toward forgiveness or push you toward divorce. We'll help you understand what happened, process the pain honestly, and make a clear-eyed decision about your future. Telehealth throughout Illinois. BCBS PPO and Aetna accepted.
20 Years Experience
Online in Winnetka, IL
Eric Olsen
Life Coach, PTSD, Trauma Triage, BSc Social Sciences, DoD Career Councilor, SARC, DAPA, Pre Licensed Human Intelligence / Psychology, Life Coach. | Professional Support: LSSBB, PgM, Bluestone PMP,
We look at your infidelity concerns or issues and find the root cause for them and help you recover.
17 Years Experience
Online in Winnetka, IL (Online Only)
Fatima Mohammad, Avec Counselling
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
I support individuals and couples navigating the impact of infidelity with compassion and honesty. Together, we work to process betrayal, rebuild trust, improve communication, and create clarity around what healing and moving forward can look like.
5 Years Experience
Online in Winnetka, IL (Online Only)
Arroyo Psychological Services
Psychologist
We help couples and individuals process the pain of infidelity and rebuild trust, communication, and self-understanding. Therapy provides guidance for healing and clarity in determining the best path forward.
9 Years Experience
Online in Winnetka, IL
Online Therapy for Anxiety, Burnout & Life Transitions -AZ, IL, OH
Counselor/Therapist, LPC, LCPC
My approach blends Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) with emotionally attuned, values‑based guidance to help you understand the patterns that contributed to the rupture, manage overwhelming emotions, and develop healthier communication. For clients who desire it, I also integrate Christian Counseling, offering faith centered support, prayerful reflection, and biblically aligned tools for forgiveness, restoration, and discernment.
9 Years Experience
Online in Winnetka, IL (Online Only)
Dr. Tracy Mallett
Psychologist, Psy.D., L.M.F.T., Licensed Psychologist
Infidelity can be one of the most painful and destabilizing experiences a couple can face. The discovery of an affair often brings intense emotions—shock, anger, sadness, guilt, confusion—and leaves both partners questioning what is real, what went wrong, and whether repair is possible.
I specialize in helping individuals and couples navigate the emotional aftermath of infidelity with honesty, compassion, and structure. Therapy provides a safe space to slow down the chaos, understand the deeper dynamics that contributed to the rupture, and begin to rebuild a sense of safety and clarity.
For couples seeking reconciliation, our work may include establishing emotional transparency, rebuilding trust through consistent and verifiable actions, and learning new ways to communicate about pain and vulnerability without escalating conflict. For those uncertain about the future of their relationship, therapy can help clarify each partner’s needs and boundaries, and support respectful decision-making about next steps.
For individuals recovering from infidelity—whether betrayed or betraying—therapy focuses on understanding emotional patterns, rebuilding self-worth, and making sense of the experience in a way that fosters growth rather than lasting shame or resentment.
My approach integrates cognitive-behavioral and attachment-based strategies to address both the emotional and practical aspects of recovery. Together, we work toward healing, accountability, and—when possible—renewed trust and intimacy built on a stronger foundation than before.
22 Years Experience
Online in Winnetka, IL (Online Only)
Dr. Ryan Kitts Schallon
Psychologist, PsyD
Infidelity breaks the story a couple has been telling about themselves. That is what makes it devastating — not just the betrayal, but the revelation that the relationship you thought you were in was not the one that was actually happening. For the person who was betrayed, the ground disappears. For the person who strayed, there is usually something they went looking for that they could not name inside the marriage, and sometimes could not name at all. Therapy after infidelity is not about deciding whether to stay or leave. It is about telling the truth — finally, fully — about what the relationship was, what it wasn't, and whether both people are willing to build something honest on what remains.
3 Years Experience
Online in Winnetka, IL
Nostos Psychotherapy
Psychologist, PsyD
We work with individuals and couples to help them be able to work through the pain of infidelity and work towards rebuilding a sense of trust and connection within the relationship.
12 Years Experience
Online in Winnetka, IL
Angela Nguyen
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
Infidelity ruptures the trust, safety, and connection in a relationship. Injuries and conflicts, being as painful and shocking as they are, are also opportunities for deeper intimacy when we put in the work to heal, repair, understand. I've helped a lot of couples better understand and re-build after emotional and physical affairs, and I can definitely be a supportive detective for your difficult situation too.
6 Years Experience
Online in Winnetka, IL (Online Only)
Infidelity therapists in Winnetka, Illinois Statistics
Infidelity therapists in Winnetka, Illinois average 18 years of experience and charge around $205 per session. 100% offer online sessions. The most commonly treated issues are Infidelity (100%), Anxiety or Fears (82%), and Relationship and Marriage Counseling (78%).
Average years in practice
18 Years Experience
Average cost per session
$205
Gender ID
| 56% |
Female |
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| 43% |
Male |
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| 1% |
Gender Fluid |
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Session Type
| 62% |
In Person and Online |
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| 38% |
Online Only |
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Top Specialties
| 100% | Infidelity |
| 82% | Anxiety or Fears |
| 78% | Relationship and Marriage Counseling |
| 77% | Depression |
| 77% | Divorce |
| 71% | Loss or Grief |
| 69% | Self Esteem |