Online Codependency therapists in Shirley, New York NY
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Codependency
Dr. Ingrid Solano
Psychologist, PhD
I provide couples/family/relational therapy for adolescents and adults both in the context of their relationships as well as through relationship-focused therapy for individuals who want to improve their interpersonal lives. Our relationships impact our thoughts, our feelings, and our behaviors. Relationships can be supportive, or they can weigh us down. How our relationships impact us can be obvious to us and everyone around us, or they can be insidious and live in the pit of our stomachs-- creeping up on us as feelings we can’t put the right words to. ...and anywhere in between… It can be difficult to understand and connect how these feelings slowly change what we do and who we are. ‘Relational’ therapy with more than one client aims to help improve interactions with each other, achieve relational goals, and cultivate value and meaning together.
15 Years Experience
Online in Shirley, NY
Codependency
Susana Scotti, Journey Psychotherapy
Psychologist, PhD
Struggling with codependency can leave you feeling emotionally exhausted, stuck in unhealthy relationship patterns, and unsure of your own needs or boundaries. You may find yourself prioritizing others at the expense of your well-being, feeling responsible for fixing or rescuing those around you, or experiencing guilt when you try to put yourself first. As a licensed psychologist with expertise in trauma, addiction, and mood disorders, I understand how codependent patterns often develop as a way to cope with past experiences and relational wounds. In therapy, we work together to uncover these underlying dynamics, build self-awareness, and strengthen your sense of identity and self-worth.
My approach is compassionate, collaborative, and grounded in evidence-based practices. I help clients develop healthier boundaries, improve communication, and learn how to engage in relationships from a place of balance rather than obligation or fear. Whether codependency is connected to past trauma, substance use, or ongoing anxiety or depression, our work will focus on helping you create more fulfilling, stable, and authentic connections, starting with the relationship you have with yourself.
13 Years Experience
Online in Shirley, NY (Online Only)
Codependency
Manhattan Mental Health Counseling
Counselor/Therapist, LMHC
Our compassionate therapists specialize in relationship issues including codependency.
18 Years Experience
Online in Shirley, NY
Codependency
Mary Knoblock, DNH
Hypnotherapist, DNH, RTT Practitioner, Hypnotist, Holistic Naturopath Practitioner, Spiritual Counselor
I can help you work through codependency issues with a lot of different tools, specifically RTT, Emotion Code and many more.
11 Years Experience
Online in Shirley, NY (Online Only)
Codependency
Louise Perry
Registered Psychotherapist, IFS UKCP HCCP BAAT
I work with adults who struggle with patterns often described as codependence, including over-responsibility for others, people-pleasing, difficulty setting boundaries, and a sense of self that becomes organised around relationships. These patterns are usually adaptive responses developed over time, rather than personal failings.
My work draws on Integrative Art Psychotherapy and Internal Family Systems (IFS), offering ways to understand how these relational strategies developed and what they may be protecting. Sessions focus on increasing clarity about needs, limits, and patterns of attachment, allowing different ways of relating to emerge. We may work through conversation, creative exploration, or a combination of both, depending on what feels most useful.
8 Years Experience
Online in Shirley, NY
Codependency
Wayne Ayers
Psychologist, PhD
We review education materials on codependency and addiction and work toward specific interpersonal goals of independence. 12 step programs and ongoing daily awareness of interpersonal interaction are often key to coming to understand the role & effect of codependency in ones life.
33 Years Experience
Online in Shirley, NY
Codependency
Creative Now Therapy, Cris Maria Fort Garcés
Registered Psychotherapist, LCAT, ATR-BC, Gestalt Psychotherapy Certified, Developmental Somatic Psychotherapy Certified, Hakomi Somatic Practitioner
If you feel responsible for everyone else’s emotions, say yes when you mean no, or lose yourself in relationships, you may be experiencing codependent patterns. I help women and queer adults set boundaries, build self-trust, and reconnect with their own needs. Using somatic therapy and intuitive tools, we gently unwind these patterns in the body and create space for a life rooted in clarity, care, and self-respect.
18 Years Experience
Online in Shirley, NY (Online Only)
Codependency
Dr. L A McCrae
Licensed Professional Counselor, LCADC, FOT, CCTP, CCTSA
In our work on Codependency, we investigate the attachment wounds and systemic pressures that make "self-sacrifice" feel like survival. We use relational liberation tools to help you establish boundaries that protect your spirit while maintaining connection. Our goal is to move you from reactive caretaking to proactive, autonomous partnership.
7 Years Experience
Online in Shirley, NY
Codependency
Robert dos Santos Teixeira
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, SMF, MPIA, MA, MSW, LCSW
A measure of codependency exists in ever kind or type of human relationship.
22 Years Experience
Online in Shirley, NY
Codependency
Dr. Erica Gardner-Schuster
Psychologist, PhD
Are you struggling with codependency? If so, Group Therapy may help.
16 Years Experience
Online in Shirley, NY (Online Only)
Codependency
Gregg Unterberger
Licensed Professional Counselor, M.Ed., LPC
John Lee once said, "Recovery from codependency is like kicking heroin, only harder." Our need to please, to fix, to control can take us to the brink of insanity & drive everyone around us crazy, too! But we can learn new ways to think & feel about ourselves so we can step back from enmeshment.
28 Years Experience
Online in Shirley, NY
Codependency
Mind Body Connections
Counselor/Therapist
As an underlying issue that so many individuals struggle with, education around this is imperative followed by psychoeducation around how to set healthy boundaries with others.
28 Years Experience
Online in Shirley, NY
Codependency
Mona Lee Yousef
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW-R, CASAC-2, CADC, CCDC, MAC
Psychoanalyst with 33 years experience working with those grappling with the experience of being partnered with and/or family members of people with various forms of addictive/compulsive disorders.
35 Years Experience
Online in Shirley, NY
Codependency
Nadira Jackson - TherapyWithDira
Licensed Mental Health Counselor, LMHC
If you often feel responsible for other people’s emotions or lose sight of your own needs in relationships, you may be struggling with codependent patterns. Together, we’ll explore where these dynamics began, what they protect, and how to create healthier boundaries that honor both connection and self-respect. My approach supports you in finding balance, learning to love others without abandoning yourself.
5 Years Experience
Online in Shirley, NY (Online Only)
Codependency
Brielle Layden
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
Working on codependancy begins with learning about anxiety and attachment styles. I am passionate about helping people recognize unhelpful, attachment-based behaviors. I will help you foster a more positive sense of self, develop appropriate boundaries, and identify healthy relationship dynamics.
11 Years Experience
Online in Shirley, NY
Codependency
Candace Plattor
Drug and Alcohol Counselor, M.A. in Counselling Psychology from Adler University
When we keep trying to put other people's needs ahead of our own, we lose ourselves in terms of our self-care and our self-respect. Often families do this with the addicts they love - and it creates a lose-lose situation for everyone concerned,
35 Years Experience
Online in Shirley, NY (Online Only)
Codependency
Greta Klaber
Marriage and Family Therapist, Ma, LMFT
When working with codependency, I often start by helping clients shift their attention inward—especially if they’ve spent much of their lives attuned to others' needs at the expense of their own. Codependent patterns can make it hard to locate a sense of self, to understand boundaries, or even to recognize one’s own desires and emotional cues. In our work, we slow down and begin to rebuild that connection to your internal experience. Through somatic awareness, parts work, and a focus on early relational dynamics, we explore how these patterns developed and gently begin to create space for a more grounded, self-connected way of relating to yourself and others.
9 Years Experience
Online in Shirley, NY
Codependency
Rose Snyder, EdM, PsyD, LLC
Psychologist, PsyD
Many of my clients find themselves in codependent relationships as a result of their lifelong attachment styles. Together we will look at these patterns and I will support you in gently shifting these patterns away from codependence towards effective interdependence. It is not about learning to be totally self-reliant either—it is more about having a secure attachment within yourself as a primary source of stability, and then reaching out for connection with others from a whole/healthy place. We are social creatures and we need one another, but we feel better when we can relate with others from a place of sturdiness as much as possible too. From that place, we can ask for our needs to be met and connection to be fulfilled, knowing deeply that we have the right to ask and deserve to be attuned to and met by those closest to us. And we can also learn to self-soothe in the moments that that is not available or possible with our loved ones.
23 Years Experience
Online in Shirley, NY
Codependency
Staci Des Rault
Licensed Mental Health Counselor, LMHC. M.Div
I have over 18 years of experience in counseling for codependency.
14 Years Experience
Online in Shirley, NY (Online Only)
Codependency
Dr. Lyndsay Elliott
Psychologist, PsyD.
Codependency often develops so gradually that most people don't recognize it until they are completely exhausted — emotionally drained by relationships that consistently prioritize everyone else's needs over their own. As a licensed clinical psychologist with 20+ years of experience, I help adults identify and break codependent relationship patterns, rebuild healthy boundaries, and develop a stronger, more secure sense of self. Using cognitive-behavioral therapy, psychodynamic insight, and trauma-informed care, I work with clients to untangle the deep-rooted beliefs driving codependent behavior and build genuinely healthier relationships. Telehealth therapy for codependency available across 40+ states.
21 Years Experience
Online in Shirley, NY (Online Only)
Codependency therapists in Shirley, New York Statistics
Codependency therapists in Shirley, New York average 15 years of experience and charge around $192 per session. 100% offer online sessions. The most commonly treated issues are Codependency (100%), Depression (93%), and Anxiety or Fears (93%).
Average years in practice
15 Years Experience
Average cost per session
$192
Gender ID
| 59% |
Female |
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| 27% |
Male |
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| 9% |
Non-Binary |
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| 5% |
Gender Fluid |
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Session Type
| 57% |
In Person and Online |
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| 43% |
Online Only |
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Top Specialties
| 100% | Codependency |
| 93% | Depression |
| 93% | Anxiety or Fears |
| 69% | Stress |
| 67% | Self Esteem |
| 66% | Trauma and PTSD |
| 64% | Women's Issues |