Online Codependency therapists in Havelock, North Carolina NC
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Codependency
Dr. Elizabeth Coldren
Psychologist, PSYD, PSYPACT
I work with young adults and adults who have learned to orient themselves around other people’s needs, emotions, or expectations at the expense of their own. This can look like being the reliable one, the steady one, the person others turn to, while privately feeling depleted, unseen, or unsure where your own preferences begin. Many people I see have spent years managing relationships, smoothing conflict, or carrying more than their share because it felt safer than disappointing someone or risking disconnection.
Codependent patterns often develop in situations where you had to stay attuned to others to keep the peace, where your worth was tied to being helpful or accommodating, or where expressing your own needs led to tension, withdrawal, or criticism. Over time, this can make it hard to trust your internal signals, set boundaries without guilt, or believe that your needs matter as much as anyone else’s.
In our work together, we look at how these patterns formed, what they have protected you from, and how they show up in your relationships today. We make space for the part of you that learned to stay small, agreeable, or over responsible in order to feel safe, and for the part of you that is tired of doing so much emotional labor. From there, we explore what it means to move through relationships with more clarity, self‑respect, and choice, without abandoning the parts of you that have worked so hard to keep things stable. Supporting people who have organized themselves around others for a long time is central to my practice, and I have deep respect for how much you have carried.
26 Years Experience
Online in Havelock, NC
Codependency
Tamara McCord
Licensed Professional Counselor, LMHC, LCAC
Codependency can result in poor boundaries and shame, among other things. I've witnessed clients feel more self-confident, self-loving, and hold loving boundaries for themselves and others through using IFS and EMDR.
25 Years Experience
Online in Havelock, NC (Online Only)
Codependency
Lynette Cisneros
Counselor/Therapist, LCMHC, LMHC
Primary areas of treatment in my practice include boundaries and assertive communication. Often those who struggle with codependency struggle to understand their own boundaries and how to assertively communicate and enforce those boundaries. We work to increase your belief in self to make your own choices while decreasing the over reliance and/or validation seeking from others (parent, friends, partners). We recognize that preserving some relationships are important and will identify which communication approaches may fit with specific dynamics so as not to alienate others that you do value. If implementing space is the healthiest way forward we will identify steps to approach that with care.
25 Years Experience
Online in Havelock, NC (Online Only)
Codependency
Molly Halbrooks
Counselor/Therapist, LMFT
Good boundaries allow you to show up well in your relationships without resentment, and equip you to remain emotionally grounded even when those around you are struggling. We will work together to define what healthy boundaries are for you, and how you can begin to implement them in your life.
13 Years Experience
Online in Havelock, NC
Codependency
Peter C. Jackson, PsyD
Psychologist, PsyD
If you find yourself consistently prioritizing others' needs over your own, struggling with boundaries, or seeking external validation, you may be experiencing patterns of codependency. My approach offers a clear path to reclaiming your authentic self. We will work to identify these ingrained dynamics, fostering a deeper connection to your inner wisdom and personal truth. The goal is to empower you to navigate relationships with greater clarity, strengthen your sense of self, and build truly balanced and fulfilling connection.s
33 Years Experience
Online in Havelock, NC
Codependency
Dr. Stéphanie Gamache, PhD
Hypnotherapist, PhD
Codependency often reflects early relational patterns in which emotional needs, boundaries, and self-worth became entangled with the needs of others. My work integrates psychoanalytic exploration and somatic awareness to understand how these patterns continue to shape adult relationships. Together, we work toward greater emotional autonomy, clarity, and the capacity to remain connected to oneself while being close to others.
7 Years Experience
Online in Havelock, NC (Online Only)
Codependency
Emily Stone
Marriage and Family Therapist, MA, MDiv, PhD, LMFT-S
Co-Dependency: From Self-Sacrifice to Self-Sovereignty
Untangling Your Identity from the Needs of Others
Co-dependency is often the "noble" struggle. It is the exhaustion that comes from being the primary emotional caretaker, the peacekeeper, and the one who anticipates everyone else’s needs while ignoring your own. In my practice, we view co-dependent patterns as deeply ingrained attachment strategies—behaviors that were likely necessary for safety in the past but are now leading to burnout, resentment, and a loss of self.
Recognizing the Systemic Loop
Co-dependency doesn't happen in a vacuum; it is a relational "dance" that we explore through a systemic lens:
The Caretaker’s Burnout: Addressing the physical and emotional collapse that occurs when your "worth" is tied to your "usefulness."
Fear of Disconnection: Understanding the roots of the anxiety that arises when you try to set a boundary or say "no."
Emotional Enmeshment: Moving from a state where you "feel" the emotions of others more intensely than your own, toward a healthy, defined sense of self.
The Path to Relational Freedom
Using over 20 years of experience and specialized training in Attachment Theory and Systems Theory, I help you navigate the transition from enmeshment to autonomy:
Attachment Repair: We look at the "why" behind the "need to be needed," using EFT to help you develop a secure attachment to yourself first.
Internal Family Systems (IFS): We get curious about the "Protector" parts of you that believe you must be "perfect" or "helpful" to be loved.
Somatic Boundary Work: We learn to listen to the body’s signals of overwhelm and resentment, using them as a compass for where a boundary needs to be drawn.
Reclaiming Your Narrative
Whether you are navigating a relationship with a partner, a parent, or a child, the goal is not to stop caring—it is to care from a place of choice rather than a place of fear. Together, we work to build a life where you are no longer a "supporting character" in someone else’s story, but the conscious author of your own.
21 Years Experience
Online in Havelock, NC (Online Only)
Codependency
Ning Tang
Psychologist, Ph.D.
Dr. Tang helps clients break free from patterns of people-pleasing and self-sacrifice by developing boundaries, emotional awareness, and self-trust. Using ACT, DBT, and compassion-based interventions, she helps clients create healthier relationships rooted in mutual respect and authentic connection.
1 Years Experience
Online in Havelock, NC
Codependency
Dina Hijazi
Psychologist, PhD, CSAT
I help individuals break free from codependent patterns by fostering healthy boundaries, self-worth, and emotional independence. Using a blend of relational therapy, attachment-focused work, and psychoeducation, I support clients in understanding the roots of their codependency—often tied to early family dynamics or trauma—and guide them toward more balanced, fulfilling relationships. My goal is to help you reconnect with your own needs, values, and voice in a supportive, nonjudgmental space.
35 Years Experience
Online in Havelock, NC
Codependency
Tal Brafford
Licensed Mental Health Counselor, LCMHC-A
From one people pleaser to another...I get it. At some point we learned that love had to be earned. We got skilled in the art of "reading the room" and anticipating others' needs. Growing up this way can be so isolating and lonely. It tears apart self-trust and reinforces masking. We often lose sight of who we are and what we need to focus on the needs and comfort of others. I will walk with you as you discover what's underneath the mask. Sometimes this means learning about your capacity or bringing in support systems. Other times, we may work on boundaries and listening to your body tell you what it needs. It's almost always sitting with you in some grief and self-forgiveness. It can feel scary to think about what you need, much less give it to yourself. I'll do it with you.
0 Years Experience
Online in Havelock, NC
Codependency
Peaceful Minds NC,LLC
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSWA
I help adults recognize and address patterns of codependency in relationships, creating a safe, nonjudgmental space to explore your needs, boundaries, and emotions. Together, we work on building healthier relationships, developing self-awareness, and strengthening your confidence to prioritize your well-being.
4 Years Experience
Online in Havelock, NC (Online Only)
Codependency
Ross Kellogg, LMFT
Marriage and Family Therapist, Licensed Individual, Marriage, and Family Therapist (LMFT)
Codependents often report exhaustion and identity fusion (also called fragmentation). I have extensive experience and training to address codependent compulsions and help you find a consistent and confident sense of self.
12 Years Experience
Online in Havelock, NC (Online Only)
Codependency
Jason Holland
Psychologist, Ph.D.
Codependency often involves over-functioning, people-pleasing, or feeling responsible for other people’s emotions and choices. We will sort through where these patterns came from, what they have cost you, and why they have been so hard to change. I help clients build healthier boundaries, stronger self-trust, and more balanced relationships that do not depend on guilt, fear, or over-responsibility.
25 Years Experience
Online in Havelock, NC
Codependency
Wildflower Therapy Group
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW, C-IAYT
At Wildflower Therapy Group, we help clients explore codependency patterns with compassion and without judgment. Therapy can support clients in understanding relational wounds, building healthier boundaries, reconnecting with their own needs, and developing a stronger sense of self within relationships.
6 Years Experience
Online in Havelock, NC
Codependency
Kelli Hall
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW
I work with individuals who find themselves over-functioning or over-accommodating in relationships.
This often includes difficulty saying no, feeling responsible for others, or prioritizing others’ needs over your own.
Together, we focus on developing boundaries, clarifying needs, and building more balanced, authentic relationships.
13 Years Experience
Online in Havelock, NC (Online Only)
Codependency
Erika Gray
Psychologist, Psy.D
If you have trouble differentiating yourself from others, if your needs are way down on the list of priorities...maybe we should talk.
15 Years Experience
Online in Havelock, NC (Online Only)
Codependency
Sarah Eisenhauer Counseling
Counselor/Therapist, LCMHC, LCPC, LPC, AADC
Relationships are tricky, since our relational blueprints are made when we are very young. We will work to understand the underlying beliefs and emotions that maintain relationship patterns and dynamics that are no longer working for you, utilizing behavioral techniques (CBT, DBT, ACT) as well as a depth, psychodynamic approach.
17 Years Experience
Online in Havelock, NC
Codependency
Dr. Jillian Mahatha
Licensed Mental Health Counselor, Ph.D., LCMHC, NCC, ACS, CCTP
I specialize in supporting children, adolescents, and adults who experience challenges related to codependency. I help clients develop healthier relationship patterns, strengthen boundaries, increase self-awareness, and build confidence in their ability to prioritize their own emotional well-being.
14 Years Experience
Online in Havelock, NC (Online Only)
Codependency
Dr. Walter J. Matweychuk
Psychologist, Ph.D.
My approach teaches you to depend on yourself and to be self-directed. You can learn to help yourself if you improve your discomfort tolerance for doing things for yourself, taking calculated risks, and accept yourself even when you fail.
36 Years Experience
Online in Havelock, NC
Codependency
South Psychology
Psychologist, PhD
Are you caught in a cycle of codependency, where your well-being is entangled with others? At South Psychology, we specialize in providing compassionate mental health services to break free from these patterns and foster healthier relationships.
Our Approach:
Understanding Codependency: Our experienced therapists recognize the signs of codependency. We explore the roots of these behaviors and guide you toward healthier dynamics.
Individualized Treatment: We tailor our interventions to your unique needs. Whether you’re struggling with boundary-setting, low self-esteem, or caretaking tendencies, we’re here to support you.
Holistic Healing: Our holistic approach considers emotional, psychological, and relational aspects. We empower you to reclaim your identity and build resilience.
How We Can Help:
Therapy for Codependency: Through evidence-based therapy, we address distorted relationship dynamics, self-worth issues, and dependency patterns.
Skills Building: Learn healthy communication, assertiveness, and self-care techniques. Break free from the cycle of over-giving and neglecting your own needs.
Supportive Environment: South Psychology provides a safe space to explore vulnerabilities, heal past wounds, and create healthier connections.
8 Years Experience
Online in Havelock, NC
Codependency therapists in Havelock, North Carolina Statistics
Codependency therapists in Havelock, North Carolina average 16 years of experience and charge around $195 per session. 100% offer online sessions. The most commonly treated issues are Codependency (100%), Anxiety or Fears (92%), and Depression (84%).
Average years in practice
16 Years Experience
Average cost per session
$195
Gender ID
| 63% |
Female |
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| 30% |
Male |
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| 4% |
Non-Binary |
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| 3% |
Gender Fluid |
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Session Type
| 53% |
Online Only |
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| 47% |
In Person and Online |
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Top Specialties
| 100% | Codependency |
| 92% | Anxiety or Fears |
| 84% | Depression |
| 74% | Self Esteem |
| 69% | Stress |
| 67% | Loss or Grief |
| 67% | Trauma and PTSD |