Online Codependency therapists in Montpelier, Virginia VA
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Codependency
Andrea Miller
Counselor/Therapist, NCC
In my practice, I integrate elements of Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) to help clients with codependency develop mindfulness skills and cultivate self-compassion while committing to actions that align with their values and autonomy. Additionally, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) techniques assist clients in identifying and challenging maladaptive thought patterns and behaviors associated with codependency, promoting healthier boundaries and self-esteem. Incorporating Person-Centered Therapy principles, I provide a supportive and empathetic environment for clients to explore their emotions and experiences, empowering them to reconnect with their authentic selves and build healthier relationships.
5 Years Experience
Online in Montpelier, VA
Codependency
Dr. Walter J. Matweychuk
Psychologist, Ph.D.
My approach teaches you to depend on yourself and to be self-directed. You can learn to help yourself if you improve your discomfort tolerance for doing things for yourself, taking calculated risks, and accept yourself even when you fail.
36 Years Experience
Online in Montpelier, VA
Codependency
Summit Counseling Services
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LPC, LCSW, ATR-BC
Co-dependency is an area we treat using individudal counseling
We offer art therapy even in an online capacity. Eleanor uses zoom to do art therapy and play therapy with children and teens.
24 Years Experience
Online in Montpelier, VA
Codependency
Forest Williams
Life Coach, ICF
Take the charge out of giving and receiving boundaries. What if boundaries weren't barriers, but bridges for connection?
7 Years Experience
Online in Montpelier, VA (Online Only)
Codependency
Amazing Grace Psychiatric Services, PLLC
Psychiatric Nurse Practitioner, PMHNP, CNM, PMH-C
Your happiness and success is not dependent on others. Let's learn why you have learned to become co-dependent and begin to gain your autonomy back!
6 Years Experience
Online in Montpelier, VA
Codependency
Dr. Elizabeth Coldren
Psychologist, PSYD, PSYPACT
I work with young adults and adults who have learned to orient themselves around other people’s needs, emotions, or expectations at the expense of their own. This can look like being the reliable one, the steady one, the person others turn to, while privately feeling depleted, unseen, or unsure where your own preferences begin. Many people I see have spent years managing relationships, smoothing conflict, or carrying more than their share because it felt safer than disappointing someone or risking disconnection.
Codependent patterns often develop in situations where you had to stay attuned to others to keep the peace, where your worth was tied to being helpful or accommodating, or where expressing your own needs led to tension, withdrawal, or criticism. Over time, this can make it hard to trust your internal signals, set boundaries without guilt, or believe that your needs matter as much as anyone else’s.
In our work together, we look at how these patterns formed, what they have protected you from, and how they show up in your relationships today. We make space for the part of you that learned to stay small, agreeable, or over responsible in order to feel safe, and for the part of you that is tired of doing so much emotional labor. From there, we explore what it means to move through relationships with more clarity, self‑respect, and choice, without abandoning the parts of you that have worked so hard to keep things stable. Supporting people who have organized themselves around others for a long time is central to my practice, and I have deep respect for how much you have carried.
26 Years Experience
Online in Montpelier, VA
Codependency
Jordan Johnson, Creating Connection PLC
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC(WI), LPC(VA), LPCC(MN)
I bring a research-backed attachment theory framework to codependent relationship dynamics to help those who are struggling with feeling that their relationship is toxic or unhealthy.
15 Years Experience
Online in Montpelier, VA (Online Only)
Codependency
Karen Queller
Art Therapist, M.A Expressive Arts Therapy
I can guide and support individuals dealing with codependency by facilitating creative processes that encourage self-exploration, fostering self-awareness, and empowering them to establish healthy boundaries and cultivate self-care practices.
7 Years Experience
Online in Montpelier, VA
Codependency
Nancy Burns
Counselor/Therapist, JD, LMHC, LPC, MA, EMDR Certified
Do you have trouble setting boundaries with others? Do you find yourself taking care of everyone, leaving no time or energy left to care for yourself? Does your opinion of yourself shift based on what others think of you? I can help. Using a variety of mind - body approaches, we will non-judgmentally and with much compassion explore your patterns and help you build confidence in yourself, which will ultimately lead to you living an authentic life and better, more fulfilling relationships. - - - "Often a problem is like a knot with many strands, and looking at those strands can make the problem seem different." Fred Rogers
6 Years Experience
Online in Montpelier, VA (Online Only)
Codependency
Rebecca Castle-Waller
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW
How did I get here? In some ways, it feels like I just woke up one day to find out I was taking care of everyone around me; it also feels true that I've always been taking care of others and that I've always needed others to take care of me.
Welcome, I have training in both trauma and relationships so I love to help folks unravel the puzzle of codependency versus interdependency. It's not unhealthy to need people, that's part of being a person! But where does it go too far? How can you tell, how can you set boundaries to make sure? I'm happy to work with you to help you build these skills and more as we're working on examining this pattern in your life!
7 Years Experience
Online in Montpelier, VA (Online Only)
Codependency
Marie Paddock, LPC
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, NCC, BC-TMH, EMDR
Codependency can affect most of our relationships in complex ways. Understanding ourselves can lead to us being empowering forces in our lives and the lives of those around us.
19 Years Experience
Online in Montpelier, VA
Codependency
Denise Bike
Psychologist, PhD
What if you could be connected and also have boundaries? An in-depth intensive with Dr. Bike could support you on your journey to realigning with your inner compass — so your drive comes from self-trust, not self-sacrifice.
13 Years Experience
Online in Montpelier, VA (Online Only)
Codependency
Elisha S Lee
Counselor/Therapist, NCCA CTCC CPC
Our counseling services for codependency are designed to address and heal the patterns of behavior that lead individuals to form or maintain one-sided, emotionally destructive, and often abusive relationships. Understanding that codependency stems from deep-seated needs and often begins in one's family of origin, we provide a supportive environment that promotes self-awareness, independence, and healthier relational dynamics.
Empowering Self-Sufficiency and Healthier Relationships
* Identifying Patterns: We help clients identify patterns of codependent behavior and understand the underlying psychological factors that contribute to these patterns, such as low self-esteem, fear of abandonment, or an excessive need for approval.
* Establishing Boundaries: A key focus of counseling is teaching clients how to establish and maintain healthy boundaries in relationships. This includes learning to say no, recognizing one's own needs and desires, and understanding the distinction between helping and enabling.
* Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy (CBT): CBT is utilized to challenge and change unhelpful beliefs and behaviors that perpetuate codependency, fostering a healthier, more autonomous sense of self.
* Building Self-Esteem: Counseling sessions are geared toward boosting self-esteem and self-worth, empowering clients to feel confident in standing alone and valuing their own well-being as much as they value the well-being of others.
* Encouraging Interdependence: We focus on transitioning from codependency to interdependence, where healthy, mutual give-and-take relationships are the norm.
Goals of Counseling for Codependency
Our therapy for codependency aims to:
* Promote Self-Reliance: Encourage a stronger, more independent self-identity separate from one’s relationships.
* Healthy Relationship Dynamics: Facilitate the development of relationships characterized by mutual respect, balance, and emotional honesty.
* Enhanced Emotional Regulation: Equip clients with skills to manage their emotions effectively, reducing the tendency to use relationships as a way to soothe or suppress these feelings.
* Increased Awareness: Heighten self-awareness regarding the origins and triggers of codependent behaviors, enabling proactive changes.
* Lifestyle Adjustments: Support clients in making practical changes to their lifestyles that reinforce healthy interpersonal behaviors and thought patterns.
Codependency can overshadow your sense of self and disrupt your ability to maintain balanced, fulfilling relationships. With our support, you can uncover the roots of your codependent behaviors, develop a healthier approach to relationships, and embrace a more self-directed life. Reach out today to start your journey toward lasting change and relational health.
9 Years Experience
Online in Montpelier, VA
Codependency
Bold Expressions Therapy
Psychologist, Psy.D.
Codependency is a circular pattern that emerge in relationships when one person needs another person to need them in order to keep the relationship going. This is an unhealthy pattern and often leads to unhappiness and toxic patterns in relationships. I approach these relationships from a place of empathy and concern for all parties involved. It is my goal to illuminate these patterns and teach individuals to set healthy boundaries that will allow them to break free of codependent relationships and live healthier and happier lives with friends and family.
6 Years Experience
Online in Montpelier, VA
Codependency
Dr. Ryan Kitts Schallon
Psychologist, PsyD
Codependency is not loving too much. It is having learned, very early, that your survival depended on monitoring someone else's emotional weather — that your needs were safest when they were invisible, even to you. The exhaustion of it is real. So is the terror of stopping. Therapy is not about learning to stop caring for others. It is about recovering the self that went underground in order to make all that caretaking possible.
3 Years Experience
Online in Montpelier, VA
Codependency
Heedful Resolutions Behavioral Health Services, LLC
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW
At Heedful Resolutions, our clinicians provide support for individuals navigating the challenges of co-dependency. This often shows up in difficulty setting boundaries, people-pleasing behaviors, or feeling defined by the needs of others. Together, we help clients build healthier relationships with themselves and those around them.
Latoya Harris, LCSW works with clients across the lifespan, integrating trauma-informed and parts-based approaches to strengthen self-worth and autonomy.
Cathy Merchut-Kruger, LCSW focuses on adults, guiding them in establishing balance, self-compassion, and more authentic connections.
Christine Trotta, LCSW, supports individuals in recognizing unhealthy patterns and developing skills for healthier emotional bonds.
Our shared goal is to empower clients to move from cycles of dependency toward resilience, self-awareness, and meaningful relationships.
5 Years Experience
Online in Montpelier, VA
Codependency
Kaylie Groenhout
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, NCC, EMDRIA Certified Therapist
It's easy to lose the map to your own needs when you're constantly focused on the well-being of others. Healing from codependency involves Self recovery, that central part of yourself that knows your worth is not tied to your productivity or your sacrifices. We work to establish healthy boundaries and rebuild a relationship with yourself that feels balanced and restorative.
4 Years Experience
Online in Montpelier, VA
Codependency
Tracey Knows
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC
I help individuals struggling with codependency and anxious attachment break free from unhealthy relationship patterns and build a stronger sense of self. If you find yourself over-giving, fearing abandonment, or struggling to set boundaries, you’re not alone. My approach focuses on healing attachment wounds, developing self-trust, and creating secure, fulfilling connections. Through mindfulness, inner work, and evidence-based strategies, I help clients shift from people-pleasing and anxiety-driven relationships to ones rooted in mutual respect and emotional balance. You deserve relationships where you feel valued and at ease.
10 Years Experience
Online in Montpelier, VA (Online Only)
Codependency
Dr. Megan Marks
Psychologist, PhD
You might be the one everyone leans on—always available, endlessly supportive, and quick to smooth things over. But underneath that strength, there’s a quiet exhaustion. Maybe you’ve spent so long tending to others that you’ve lost touch with your own voice. You may struggle to set boundaries, prioritize your own needs, or feel okay when someone else is upset. Maybe you define your worth through how much you give or help, but deep down, you’re craving space to just be… without performing, fixing, or proving.
At The Momentum Practice, I help clients untangle patterns of codependency that often start early—growing up in families where your worth was tied to being helpful, agreeable, or emotionally attuned to others. These patterns can show up in adult life in all kinds of relationships: romantic partnerships, friendships, caregiving roles, family systems, and even the workplace, where over-functioning often gets mistaken for excellence. You might find yourself constantly people-pleasing, second-guessing your instincts, or feeling panicked at the thought of being left behind. They can be especially layered for LGBTQ+ and neurodivergent folks who’ve had to mask parts of themselves to stay safe, loved, or accepted.
We’ll explore how these ways of relating helped you survive—and how they might be keeping you stuck now. Together, we’ll work on building boundaries that feel empowering (not selfish), tuning into your own needs and desires, and letting go of the belief that your value comes from how much you give. We’ll also look at how systemic pressures may have reinforced these patterns over time. Our work might include unlearning perfectionism, quieting the inner critic, and cultivating self-trust that isn’t tied to how much you do for others.
With over 15 years of experience, I offer a compassionate space to reconnect with your own voice and needs. You don’t have to keep disappearing in your relationships. Whether we’re working one-on-one or navigating these dynamics in couples therapy, you’ll have a space to explore what healthier, more mutual connection can look like. If you're ready to show up more fully for yourself and build connections that don’t come at the cost of your own well-being, I’d be honored to journey alongside you. Contact me for a free 15 minute consultation!
21 Years Experience
Online in Montpelier, VA
Codependency
Dionysica Stewart
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, LCPC
I support clients in breaking free from the patterns of codependency that can leave them feeling drained, unseen, or overly responsible for others. Drawing from Melody Beattie’s Codependent No More workbook, I guide clients through practical steps to set healthy boundaries, reconnect with their own needs, and build self-worth. Together, we’ll create space for healthier relationships and a stronger, more empowered sense of self.
10 Years Experience
Online in Montpelier, VA (Online Only)
Codependency therapists in Montpelier, Virginia Statistics
Codependency therapists in Montpelier, Virginia average 16 years of experience and charge around $196 per session. 100% offer online sessions. The most commonly treated issues are Codependency (100%), Anxiety or Fears (88%), and Depression (84%).
Average years in practice
16 Years Experience
Average cost per session
$196
Gender ID
| 63% |
Female |
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| 28% |
Male |
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| 5% |
Non-Binary |
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| 4% |
Gender Fluid |
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Session Type
| 56% |
In Person and Online |
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| 44% |
Online Only |
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Top Specialties
| 100% | Codependency |
| 88% | Anxiety or Fears |
| 84% | Depression |
| 71% | Self Esteem |
| 71% | Stress |
| 70% | Trauma and PTSD |
| 68% | Loss or Grief |