Online Codependency therapists in Mercer Island, Washington WA
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Codependency
Kaijah Bjorklund
Counselor/Therapist, LPC, LMHC
Codependency often develops as a brilliant survival strategy — if you focus on everyone else's needs, you stay safe, loved, or needed. But over time it can leave you feeling invisible, resentful, and unsure who you even are outside of taking care of others. In our work together, we use IFS to gently explore the parts of you that learned to over-give, and we begin rebuilding your relationship with your own needs, voice, and sense of self — so you can love others without losing yourself in the process.
12 Years Experience
Online in Mercer Island, WA (Online Only)
Codependency
Samantha Kingma
Marriage and Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Have you noticed that you haven’t been feeling quite like yourself? Like something feels off, but you’re not exactly sure why? No matter how hard you work, you always feel behind and can't seem to ever catch up on your to-do list. Maybe you keep thinking that you "should" be doing better and you "shouldn't" be struggling this way. You want to be present, calm, and confident, but you aren’t sure how to get there. It is possible for you to feel like yourself again and I'd love to talk to you about how you can get there.
I help teens, adults, and couples who are feeling stuck and disconnected to find freedom and relief. I'll collaborate with you to notice the themes and patterns occurring in your life that might be causing problems and then work alongside you to find new options and solutions to address those patterns.
Whether you are experiencing anxiety, dealing with past trauma, relationship difficulties, or just think it might be helpful to talk to someone about how you are feeling, I’d love to talk with you about how I can help. Visit my website to schedule a free phone consultation, and we can chat about whether I might be the right therapist for you.
13 Years Experience
Online in Mercer Island, WA
Codependency
Kate Mageau (she/her)
Licensed Mental Health Counselor, LMHC, ADHD-CCSP, NCC, CIMHP, C-DBT
Codependency is a key component of emotional abuse, toxic relationships, and domestic violence. It is often a precursor to all of these, so I help people to understand how codependent relationships form and how they last, how to notice signs of them turning into toxic relationships, and how to choose and keep healthy relationships. If you subscribe to my website, you can get a free handout on codependency! I have a book series, a workbook, and a course on this to help you learn and heal through the methods that work best for you. I currently only have these self-led supports for this.
4 Years Experience
Online in Mercer Island, WA (Online Only)
Codependency
Vanessa Hooper
Counselor/Therapist, LMHC, PMH-C
If you have learned to manage everyone else's feelings before your own, that pattern usually started somewhere real. Through an attachment lens, we look at where it came from and practice what it feels like to have a relationship that does not require you to disappear.
6 Years Experience
Online in Mercer Island, WA (Online Only)
Codependency
Dr. Ryan Kitts Schallon
Psychologist, PsyD
Codependency is not loving too much. It is having learned, very early, that your survival depended on monitoring someone else's emotional weather — that your needs were safest when they were invisible, even to you. The exhaustion of it is real. So is the terror of stopping. Therapy is not about learning to stop caring for others. It is about recovering the self that went underground in order to make all that caretaking possible.
3 Years Experience
Online in Mercer Island, WA
Codependency
XaHara A. MeGod
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LCPC, R-DMT, CPT
Codependency often shows up as overgiving, people-pleasing, or losing yourself in others’ needs. I gently guide you back to yourself—your desires, boundaries, and worth. Using relational and somatic tools, we’ll heal the patterns that keep you stuck in caregiving at your own expense, and practice what it means to love without losing yourself.
8 Years Experience
Online in Mercer Island, WA (Online Only)
Codependency
Nicole Waters (Flowing Waters Counseling)
Counselor/Therapist, LMHC
When your sense of worth depends on others’ approval or happiness, it can feel exhausting and you can lose sight of your own needs. Therapy can help you find balance by setting healthy boundaries, develop self-trust, and rediscover your own voice. Together, we’ll work toward relationships that are mutually supportive and emotionally fulfilling.
7 Years Experience
Online in Mercer Island, WA (Online Only)
Codependency
Roderic Burks - Integrative Mental Health
Licensed Mental Health Counselor, MS, MS HSc, MA, LMHC, LPC
I help clients navigate codependency through a trauma-informed, parts-based approach. We explore the patterns that drive overgiving, people-pleasing, and difficulty setting boundaries. Together, we build healthier relationships with yourself and others, fostering self-trust and balance.
26 Years Experience
Online in Mercer Island, WA (Online Only)
Codependency
Dr. Megan Marks
Psychologist, PhD
You might be the one everyone leans on—always available, endlessly supportive, and quick to smooth things over. But underneath that strength, there’s a quiet exhaustion. Maybe you’ve spent so long tending to others that you’ve lost touch with your own voice. You may struggle to set boundaries, prioritize your own needs, or feel okay when someone else is upset. Maybe you define your worth through how much you give or help, but deep down, you’re craving space to just be… without performing, fixing, or proving.
At The Momentum Practice, I help clients untangle patterns of codependency that often start early—growing up in families where your worth was tied to being helpful, agreeable, or emotionally attuned to others. These patterns can show up in adult life in all kinds of relationships: romantic partnerships, friendships, caregiving roles, family systems, and even the workplace, where over-functioning often gets mistaken for excellence. You might find yourself constantly people-pleasing, second-guessing your instincts, or feeling panicked at the thought of being left behind. They can be especially layered for LGBTQ+ and neurodivergent folks who’ve had to mask parts of themselves to stay safe, loved, or accepted.
We’ll explore how these ways of relating helped you survive—and how they might be keeping you stuck now. Together, we’ll work on building boundaries that feel empowering (not selfish), tuning into your own needs and desires, and letting go of the belief that your value comes from how much you give. We’ll also look at how systemic pressures may have reinforced these patterns over time. Our work might include unlearning perfectionism, quieting the inner critic, and cultivating self-trust that isn’t tied to how much you do for others.
With over 15 years of experience, I offer a compassionate space to reconnect with your own voice and needs. You don’t have to keep disappearing in your relationships. Whether we’re working one-on-one or navigating these dynamics in couples therapy, you’ll have a space to explore what healthier, more mutual connection can look like. If you're ready to show up more fully for yourself and build connections that don’t come at the cost of your own well-being, I’d be honored to journey alongside you. Contact me for a free 15 minute consultation!
21 Years Experience
Online in Mercer Island, WA
Codependency
Julien Moe
Hypnotherapist, Diploma in Clinical and Applied Hypnosis, Diploma in Life Coaching
Patients with this disorder are getting resilient in no time. I get their habit disorder treated by my Dicit hyptherapy and clinical hypnosis. How Hypnotherapy Treats Codependency: Hypnotherapy works to change underlying, often subconscious, beliefs such as "I am only valuable if I am helping others" or "I must fix my partner's problems".Setting Boundaries: It helps individuals establish healthy emotional boundaries and gain the confidence to say "no" without guilt. Addressing Root Causes: By relaxing the mind, therapists can access memories or traumas that triggered the codependent behavior to foster emotional healing. Building Self-Esteem: Hypnotherapy helps individuals reconnect with their own needs, interests, and identity outside of the relationship.
10 Years Experience
Online in Mercer Island, WA
Codependency
Nadia Amjoun
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LSWAIC, SUDP
Navigating codependency, people-pleasing, and patterns of overextending themselves in relationships can be difficult to do alone. Therapy focuses on increasing self-awareness, setting healthy boundaries, and strengthening your sense of self.
2 Years Experience
Online in Mercer Island, WA (Online Only)
Codependency
Maia Leslie
Licensed Mental Health Counselor, LMHC, CCTP-II, NATC
Are you stuck in a cycle of unhealthy, one-sided relationships where your own needs and well-being take a backseat to others? Imagine a future where your well-being is a priority, and your connections are based on mutual respect and genuine care. I'll help you develop the skills to set and maintain healthy boundaries, allowing you to prioritize your own needs while still nurturing close relationships. Together we'll work on building strategies to manage intense emotions and to rebuild self-esteem, reducing the compulsion to seek validation and fulfillment solely through others. You have the power to transform your relationship patterns, create a stronger sense of self, and regain control of your life.
6 Years Experience
Online in Mercer Island, WA (Online Only)
Codependency
Aaron Kapin
Somatic Experiencing Practitioner, SEP, LMT
I use Somatic Experiencing to help you tune into your own wants and needs so you can start learning to have a clearer sense of your boundaries, as well as the strength to set them.
A lot of relationships are labeled as 'codependent', but sometimes it can be more accurate to say that it's become easier for you to guess at what your partner wants than it is to know what you want.
Once you get more connected to what you want, it can become easier to have those conversations with your partner, and easier to stand strong in your needs.
11 Years Experience
Online in Mercer Island, WA (Online Only)
Codependency
Sherry Murray
Licensed Mental Health Counselor, LMHC
Sometimes there is someone in our life we believe we need constant contact with, and when we separate from them our anxiety only increases until we have contact again. Their positive words life us unbelievably high, but their negative words send us crashing down. What we would really like is to be stable on our own and not rely on others to get us through.
27 Years Experience
Online in Mercer Island, WA (Online Only)
Codependency
Matthew Wolfe
Licensed Mental Health Counselor, LMHC, MHP
Codependency is essentially when one person sacrifices their identity/boundaries/needs to another who sacrifices their empathy, regard, and compassion. It's bad for both but the non-prioritized partner suffers the additional danger of self-alienation or even self-annihilation. We would work to bolster sense of self, personal safety, and accountability-focused healthy communication. Nobody should be chipped away into nothingness for the benefit of someone else.
13 Years Experience
Online in Mercer Island, WA (Online Only)
Codependency
Dr. Janelle Louis
Psychiatric Nurse Practitioner, ND, PMHNP-BC
I'll help you break free from people-pleasing patterns, emotional over-responsibility, and unhealthy relationship patterns. Together, we'll build boundaries, self-worth, and confidence. I'll be here to help you process and move away from codependency, and you’ll learn how to love others without losing yourself in the process.
10 Years Experience
Online in Mercer Island, WA (Online Only)
Codependency
Tracy L. Morris
Marriage and Family Therapist, MS LMFT
My perspective on Codependency is informed by prior years of 12-step recovery work with the addition of more recent advancements in thought around such labels.
11 Years Experience
Online in Mercer Island, WA
Codependency
Paul W Anderson, PhD
Psychologist, Licensed counseling psychologist, Licensed Addictions counselor, PsyPact
How much better to put your mind and energy to taking care of your self and depending on your own efforts than to believe you can't be OK unless you qualifier (addict) gets sober. I can help and guide you on how to get into your own recovery and long lasting sobriety.
45 Years Experience
Online in Mercer Island, WA (Online Only)
Codependency
Mary Knoblock, DNH
Hypnotherapist, DNH, RTT Practitioner, Hypnotist, Holistic Naturopath Practitioner, Spiritual Counselor
I can help you work through codependency issues with a lot of different tools, specifically RTT, Emotion Code and many more.
11 Years Experience
Online in Mercer Island, WA (Online Only)
Codependency
Tycee Belcastro
Marriage and Family Therapist, M.A., LMFT, CSTIP
Codependency can feel like a tangled mess where you’re not sure who’s responsible for what in your relationships—or even in your own life. It’s that blurry line where you might take on too much, lose sight of your own needs, or struggle to know where you end and someone else begins. That’s why working on codependency is a big part of my relationship therapy. I’ll help you sort out what’s truly yours to carry, set clear boundaries, and figure out what and who you are truly responsible for. This isn’t just about making relationships work—it’s about feeling solid in who you are. In our sessions, we’ll untangle this together in a warm, safe and educational space so you can build stronger connections and a stronger sense of self.
21 Years Experience
Online in Mercer Island, WA
Codependency therapists in Mercer Island, Washington Statistics
Codependency therapists in Mercer Island, Washington average 16 years of experience and charge around $193 per session. 100% offer online sessions. The most commonly treated issues are Codependency (100%), Anxiety or Fears (92%), and Depression (85%).
Average years in practice
16 Years Experience
Average cost per session
$193
Gender ID
| 64% |
Female |
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| 30% |
Male |
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| 4% |
Non-Binary |
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| 2% |
Gender Fluid |
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Session Type
| 55% |
Online Only |
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| 45% |
In Person and Online |
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Top Specialties
| 100% | Codependency |
| 92% | Anxiety or Fears |
| 85% | Depression |
| 77% | Self Esteem |
| 72% | Stress |
| 65% | Trauma and PTSD |
| 65% | Loss or Grief |