Online Self Esteem therapists in Oak Harbor, Washington WA
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Self Esteem
Melanie Carey
Counselor/Therapist, LMHCA
Self-esteem challenges often show up not just as low confidence, but as an ongoing inner narrative of self-doubt, harsh self-criticism, or a feeling of not being “enough” no matter how much you accomplish or give to others. Many clients struggle with over-functioning externally while feeling internally uncertain, unworthy, or disconnected from a stable sense of self.
In therapy, we explore where these beliefs come from and how they have been reinforced over time through relationships, early experiences, and internalized expectations. From a psychodynamic and trauma-informed lens, low self-esteem is understood not as a fixed trait, but as a learned relational pattern that can shift over time.
Using Focusing-Oriented Psychotherapy, we gently turn toward the body-based experience of self-doubt — the tightening, sinking, or critical internal voice — and begin to relate to it with curiosity rather than identification. This creates space for new internal experiences to emerge.
As clients develop greater self-awareness and emotional safety within themselves, self-esteem begins to shift from something externally based to something more stable, embodied, and internally anchored.
2 Years Experience
Online in Oak Harbor, WA (Online Only)
Self Esteem
Dr. Shelia Jackson
Psychiatric Nurse Practitioner, DNP,PMHNP-BC
Low self-esteem can quietly undermine many aspects of life. I help you recognize your strengths, challenge negative self-talk, and build a healthier, more confident sense of self.
11 Years Experience
Online in Oak Harbor, WA (Online Only)
Self Esteem
Dr. Rae Mazzei
Psychologist, PsyD
I specialize in helping adolescents and adults build healthy self-esteem, greater self-confidence, and a stronger sense of self-worth. Many individuals struggle with self-criticism, perfectionism, people-pleasing, negative self-talk, body image concerns, or feelings of not being "good enough." These challenges can affect relationships, career success, emotional well-being, and overall life satisfaction. Using evidence-based approaches such as Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), self-compassion practices, and mindfulness-based strategies, I help clients challenge unhelpful beliefs, recognize their strengths, develop self-acceptance, and cultivate a more balanced and compassionate view of themselves. My goal is to help clients feel more confident, empowered, and capable of living in alignment with their values and goals.
12 Years Experience
Online in Oak Harbor, WA (Online Only)
Self Esteem
Brandon Zahl
Counselor/Therapist, LMHC
Are you exhausted from struggling with low-esteem? You know you should be able to believe in yourself but your self-critic is tirelessly pointing out ways you don't measure up. No matter what you do, you never feel quite good enough or worthy of attention, respect and love from others. Together we'll work to build up a sense of self-confidence starting by tapping into feelings of strength and confidence within your body. We'll dig into the messages of unworthiness given to you and stand up to the lie that you're just not good enough. We'll establish your right to set boundaries, to ask for what you need and feel confident in doing so.
6 Years Experience
Online in Oak Harbor, WA (Online Only)
Self Esteem
Dr. Michael Drane
Therapist, LMHC
We will use a developmental approach to explore your self concept, values, and history. This work will help you feel more empowered in yourself.
10 Years Experience
Online in Oak Harbor, WA (Online Only)
Self Esteem
Hannah Warshowsky
Psychologist, PhD
I talk about self-criticism, often how we express self-esteem, with all of my clients. Every. Single. One. We call ourselves things we would never call anyone else “disgusting, lazy, unworthy, embarrassing, ugly, stupid. The list goes on and on. Instead of metaphorically beating yourself up for beating yourself up (because that defeats the purpose right?) try some of these tips. ✔️
Try talking to yourself how you would talk to a best friend, small child, or a lovable pet. You can still challenge yourself but say it in a gentle way. “I know you are really tired but you are gonna feel better if you get up and make some breakfast.
10 Years Experience
Online in Oak Harbor, WA
Self Esteem
Nicole Waters (Flowing Waters Counseling)
Counselor/Therapist, LMHC
Low self-esteem can color how you see yourself and the world around you, making it difficult to recognize your own worth and potential. In therapy, we’ll challenge negative self-beliefs, celebrate strengths, and rebuild your confidence from the inside out. You’ll learn to see yourself through a kinder, more empowering lens.
7 Years Experience
Online in Oak Harbor, WA (Online Only)
Self Esteem
Dr. Mike Lee
Psychologist
I help individuals develop a steadier sense of worth and self-respect. The work is depth-informed and collaborative: we make sense of what is happening at and beneath the surface—shame, self-criticism, and the standards you carry—and turn that understanding into workable steps. The aim is durable change—less harshness and doubt, more confidence, choice, and the capacity to stand with yourself even under stress.
13 Years Experience
Online in Oak Harbor, WA
Self Esteem
Amy Look
Psychologist, PhD, LP
Do you feel guilty when you put yourself first? Worried that expressing your needs will make others think you're selfish? You're not alone. Together, we'll explore where these patterns come from and use evidence-based strategies to help you identify your needs, set healthy boundaries, and care for your self without guilt. If you're ready to make yourself a priority, reach out by phone or message. You deserve support.
7 Years Experience
Online in Oak Harbor, WA (Online Only)
Self Esteem
Roxanne Luna
Psychiatric Nurse Practitioner, PMHNP-BC
Low self-esteem can affect confidence, relationships, and quality of life. I help clients challenge negative self-beliefs, recognize their strengths, and develop a healthier sense of self-worth.
9 Years Experience
Online in Oak Harbor, WA (Online Only)
Self Esteem
Allyson Fellows, Psy.D.
Psychologist, Licensed Psychologist
Dr. Allyson Fellows, Psy.D., is dedicated to helping individuals build and maintain healthy self-esteem. With a compassionate and client-centered approach, Dr. Fellows utilizes Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and Relational-Cultural Therapy to address negative self-perceptions and foster a positive self-image. She works with clients to identify and challenge self-defeating thoughts, develop self-compassion, and build resilience. Dr. Fellows is committed to empowering her clients to recognize their inherent worth and achieve their personal and professional goals with confidence
8 Years Experience
Online in Oak Harbor, WA
Self Esteem
Sherry Murray
Licensed Mental Health Counselor, LMHC
It would take forever to list all the things in life that harm self-esteem, compared to the few things that can help to build self-esteem. Counseling can not only help to repair or build self-esteem, but also explore how it got damaged in the first place so you can protect yourself from current or future harms.
27 Years Experience
Online in Oak Harbor, WA (Online Only)
Self Esteem
Relationship Therapy Center - serving individuals and couples in CA online and in the Sacramento area
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT, Certified Gottman Therapist
Even professionals that seem to do great at work can struggle with self-esteem, whether its body issues, not feeling confident in relationships, or those who have feelings that they aren't worth it or don't deserve it. We can help you "learn to love yourself" in a way that is healthy and help you reach your full potential
12 Years Experience
Online in Oak Harbor, WA
Self Esteem
Dr. Jeannine Pablo
Psychologist, LP, LCMHC, MLADC
Low self-esteem often manifests as a persistent inner critic, chronic people-pleasing, and the habit of evaluating your entire worth based on external validation. Utilizing Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and acceptance-based strategies, I help individuals identify and dismantle deep-seated, negative core beliefs. Our clinical work focuses on shifting from harsh self-criticism to objective self-appraisal, building healthy boundaries, and establishing a resilient, internal foundation of self-worth that is independent of performance.
23 Years Experience
Online in Oak Harbor, WA (Online Only)
Self Esteem
Kate Mageau (she/her)
Licensed Mental Health Counselor, LMHC, ADHD-CCSP, NCC, CIMHP, C-DBT
Getting an ADHD or Autism Assessment, or Gender Affirming Letter can really help with self-esteem! Through my assessment and letter writing processes I am affirming, warm, and educating. Finding the right career or starting the right business for you can also help with self-esteem!
4 Years Experience
Online in Oak Harbor, WA (Online Only)
Self Esteem
Brittany Rine
Licensed Mental Health Counselor, LMHC
Our self-esteem can feel like a roller coaster at times. Sometimes we have all the confidence in the world and other times we have none. For some it might even feel like the self-esteem is never there. Either way this impacts how we show up to our daily lives. Low self-esteem can hold us back and make us believe we are not capable of achieving much. My approach to strengthening self-esteem is paying attention to the negative voices, determining what their motive could be, teaching those voices better ways of achieving that motive, and instilling more self-compassion for the the times when our self-esteem still is not where we want it to be.
6 Years Experience
Online in Oak Harbor, WA
Self Esteem
Finley Anderson
Therapist, LMFT
If you’ve spent years feeling not quite enough, second-guessing yourself, or struggling to believe that you deserve good things, that’s not a personality trait. It’s a wound — and wounds can heal.
Together we’ll explore where those beliefs came from, what they’ve cost you, and what it might feel like to finally relate to yourself with the same kindness you’d offer someone you love.
3 Years Experience
Online in Oak Harbor, WA (Online Only)
Self Esteem
Dr. Samira Paul Olive Tree Psychology Clinic LLC
Psychologist, PsyD
At Olive Tree Psychology Clinic LLC, we view self-esteem not just as "feeling good" about yourself, but as the quiet confidence that comes from living in alignment with your true values. We understand that self-worth can often be eroded by harsh self-criticism, societal pressures, or the weight of trying to meet conflicting cultural expectations. Our approach helps you dismantle the "inner critic" and replace it with a foundation of self-compassion. Together we work to identify the core beliefs that keep you feeling "not enough," helping you bridge the gap between who you are and who you feel you should be. Our goal is to help you cultivate a resilient sense of self that remains steady, even when external circumstances change.
7 Years Experience
Online in Oak Harbor, WA (Online Only)
Self Esteem
Allen Wood
Psychologist, Psy.D.
Self Esteem has numerous ways that it can become a struggle; maybe it’s a lack of confidence, maybe it’s not believing you deserve good things, maybe it’s less noticeable ways that you forget to take care of yourself, and sometimes it’s a doubt that underneath it all, there is a self that exists, let alone deserves esteem. As a psychologist specializing in building deeper connection to one’s self, I integrate Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) with Internal Family Systems (IFS) to open shame-free spaces and explore who you are and who you want to be. I draw upon the principles of Interpersonal Neurobiology to understand how our sense of self is formed or disrupted by our situation, relationships, internal conflicts, and past experiences. In our work together, you can expect a high level of collaboration, deeply compassionate understanding, and an abundance of metaphors as we tailor the therapy process to your needs, strengths, and situation.
8 Years Experience
Online in Oak Harbor, WA (Online Only)
Self Esteem
Lois Spence
Counselor/Therapist, MS, LMHCA
Self esteem and speaking to yourself with grace and understanding.
5 Years Experience
Online in Oak Harbor, WA
Self Esteem therapists in Oak Harbor, Washington Statistics
Self Esteem therapists in Oak Harbor, Washington average 15 years of experience and charge around $207 per session. 100% offer online sessions. The most commonly treated issues are Self Esteem (100%), Anxiety or Fears (91%), and Depression (79%).
Average years in practice
15 Years Experience
Average cost per session
$207
Gender ID
| 66% |
Female |
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| 30% |
Male |
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| 3% |
Non-Binary |
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| 1% |
Gender Fluid |
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Session Type
| 52% |
Online Only |
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| 48% |
In Person and Online |
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Top Specialties
| 100% | Self Esteem |
| 91% | Anxiety or Fears |
| 79% | Depression |
| 78% | Stress |
| 66% | Trauma and PTSD |
| 61% | Loss or Grief |
| 60% | Social Anxiety |