Self Esteem therapists in Cary, NC
Browse Self Esteem therapists in Cary, North Carolina. Compare credentials, specialties and therapeutic approach. Contact a therapist to learn more.
Kamini Wood
Life Coach, FHH, CLC, CPM
Low self-esteem is often rooted in the stories we have come to believe about ourselves. You may question your worth, minimize your needs, seek approval from others, or feel like you have to earn love and acceptance. These patterns can affect your relationships, decisions, and overall well-being.
Together, we'll identify the beliefs that no longer serve you, reconnect with your strengths and values, and build a stronger foundation of self-worth. As your self-trust grows, so does your ability to set healthy boundaries, communicate with confidence, and make choices that reflect the person you truly are.
8 Years Experience
Online in Cary, NC (Online Only)
Dr. Yuye Zhang
Psychologist, PhD, MSW
Low self-esteem can quietly shape how you see yourself, your relationships, and what you believe you are allowed to want. Therapy can help you examine the experiences and internalized messages that have contributed to self-doubt while developing a more compassionate and grounded relationship with yourself. The goal is not to force yourself to “think positively,” but to build a sense of self that feels more secure and authentic.
11 Years Experience
Online in Cary, NC (Online Only)
Her Healing Therapy PLLC
Licensed Mental Health Counselor, MS, LCMHC
I help women strengthen self-esteem by addressing negative self-talk, perfectionism, and patterns of self-doubt. Therapy focuses on building self-compassion, challenging limiting beliefs, and developing a more balanced and supportive inner voice. Using an integrative, trauma-informed approach, I support clients in reconnecting with their worth, setting healthier boundaries, and growing confidence in their choices, needs, and identity.
11 Years Experience
Online in Cary, NC (Online Only)
Cognitive and Behavioral Therapies
Psychologist, Ed.D., ABPP
Self Esteem refers to how we feel about ourself. Rational emotive behavior therapy and cognitive behavior therapy help individuals recognize the connection between their low self and how their negative beliefs and self talk impact the way they feel about themselves. Once you understand the thought-feeling connection, you will learn a variety of ways to change the way you think, feel and act. You will learn to challenge and replace unheatlhy thoughts and beliefs with more desirable one and guided into taking positive steps in your life. Ultimately, you will learn to accept yourself unconditionally with all your strengths AND weaknesess.
51 Years Experience
Online in Cary, NC (Online Only)
Nour Counseling
Counselor/Therapist
Self-esteem is often talked about like it’s something you either have or don’t—but for many people, it’s been shaped over time by experiences, relationships, and the messages you’ve internalized about who you’re supposed to be. It’s not just about “confidence.” It’s about how you see yourself, how you treat yourself, and what you believe you’re allowed to take up space as. And a lot of those beliefs don’t come from you—they come from dominant cultural norms, family expectations, and environments that may have rewarded certain versions of you while dismissing others.
At Nour Counseling, we don’t try to build self-esteem through surface-level affirmations. We help you understand where your self-perception comes from, how it’s been reinforced, and how it shows up in your day-to-day life—your decisions, your relationships, your boundaries. From there, we actively work with you to shift those patterns in ways that are grounded and sustainable. This might include challenging internalized beliefs, building self-trust, setting boundaries, and reconnecting with parts of yourself that may have been minimized or pushed aside. We also center the question of belonging—how your sense of self is shaped by where you’ve felt accepted or excluded, and how to move toward spaces and relationships where you don’t have to shrink to fit. This is about building a relationship with yourself that feels more stable, more honest, and actually your own.
9 Years Experience
Online in Cary, NC (Online Only)
Dr. Anna Smith
Psychologist, PsyD, MEd, MA
In our work together on self-esteem, I meet you exactly where you are—thoughtful, self-aware, and caring deeply about how you show up in your own life and relationships. We’ll slow down and explore, without judgment, the patterns, past experiences, or internalized shame that have quietly shaped how you see and value yourself. Whether those stories show up in your sexuality, your closest relationships, or your sense of safety in your own body, we’ll unpack them together in a warm, collaborative space. You’ll learn to reconnect with your authentic desires and needs, rebuild emotional safety within yourself, and gently challenge the old beliefs that no longer serve you. Most clients begin to feel lighter and more at home in themselves within the first few sessions, moving toward a quieter confidence that ripples into greater closeness, pleasure, and connection in every part of life.
10 Years Experience
Online in Cary, NC (Online Only)
Jourdan Brickey Self-Reclamation After Survival
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, MSW, LCSW
Many of us learn to measure our worth through achievement, relationships, or the expectations of others. Together, we'll explore the experiences that shaped your self-perception and work toward building a more compassionate and trusting relationship with yourself.
6 Years Experience
Online in Cary, NC (Online Only)
Brittany Washington
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFTA
I specialize in helping individuals build and strengthen their self-esteem by addressing the underlying beliefs and patterns that impact their sense of self-worth. Through a compassionate, client-centered approach, I work with clients to explore how past experiences, societal expectations, and internalized narratives may have shaped their self-perception. By using techniques like compassion-focused therapy and narrative therapy, I help clients develop healthier, more empowering views of themselves, fostering greater self-acceptance, confidence, and resilience. My goal is to guide individuals in embracing their inherent worth and stepping into their full potential.
5 Years Experience
Online in Cary, NC (Online Only)
Grace in the Shadows
Licensed Professional Counselor, PhD, MDiv, MA, NCMHC, ALMHC, VALMHC, SCMHC, FLMHC, KYMHC, IDMHC
I address issues of self-esteem with a compassionate and faith-based approach, integrating psychological expertise with Christian principles to guide individuals toward a healthier sense of self-worth. Recognizing the significance of understanding one's identity in Christ, I incorporate biblical teachings on love, purpose, and the inherent value of each person. Through therapy sessions that may include prayer, scriptural reflection, and discussions on God's perspective, I collaborate with individuals to explore the root causes of low self-esteem and develop strategies for building a positive self-image. Encouraging reliance on God's unconditional love and acceptance, I empower individuals to overcome negative thought patterns and embrace their true identity within the context of their Christian faith, fostering a renewed sense of self-esteem and confidence.
11 Years Experience
Online in Cary, NC (Online Only)
Dr. Lauren Chase
Counselor/Therapist, PhD, LCMHC, NCC, BC-TMH
Many high-achieving women appear confident but internally struggle with self-doubt. You may hold yourself to high standards, question your decisions, or feel like your worth is tied to how much you accomplish. These patterns often develop early when you learn to prioritize others’ needs over your own. Therapy helps you explore where those beliefs began and begin shifting them so you can develop stronger self-trust and a more stable sense of confidence.
9 Years Experience
Online in Cary, NC (Online Only)
Self Esteem therapists in Cary, NC Statistics
Self Esteem therapists in Cary, NC average 16 years of experience and charge around $207 per session. 100% offer online sessions. The top treatment approaches are Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) (73%), Acceptance & Commitment Therapy (ACT) (40%), and Person-Centered Therapy (Rogerian) (39%).
Average years in practice
16 Years Experience
Average cost per session
$207
Accept insurance
45%
Offer sliding scale
35%
Gender ID
| 68% |
Female |
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| 28% |
Male |
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| 2% |
Non-Binary |
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| 2% |
Gender Fluid |
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Session Type
| 53% |
In Person and Online |
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| 47% |
Online Only |
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Top Treatment Approaches
| 73% | Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) |
| 40% | Acceptance & Commitment Therapy (ACT) |
| 39% | Person-Centered Therapy (Rogerian) |
| 35% | Psychodynamic Therapy |
| 32% | Existential / Humanistic Therapy |
| 30% | Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) |
| 28% | Behavioral Therapy |
Ages Served
| 98% | Adult |
| 73% | Young Adult |
| 49% | Senior |
| 40% | Teen |
| 18% | Children |
Client Focus
| 57% | Women |
| 41% | Men |
| 40% | LGBTQ+ |
| 29% | Military / Veterans |
| 25% | Black / African American |