In the United States, over 500,000 couples each month seek couples therapy. But there’s a critical misunderstanding that needs to be addressed. Many believe that simply attending couples therapy sessions will automatically save their marriage. This assumption could not be further from the truth and might even be counterproductive.
As seasoned professionals in therapy, executive coaching, and leadership development, my partner Christine and I have witnessed firsthand the limitations of traditional couples therapy. Christine, with her expertise in adult education, has significantly contributed to the structure of our unique program.
Let’s be clear: couples therapy can be effective for certain issues and for some couples. It’s particularly useful for addressing specific, isolated problems. However, when it comes to profound, long-lasting change in a marriage, this approach might fall short. It’s like comparing a quick fix for a dinner plan to a comprehensive strategy for a lifelong healthy diet. The difference is stark.
What’s often missing in conventional couples therapy is a long-term strategy that includes a clear action plan and accountability. Imagine teaching mathematics to children without a structured curriculum. One day it’s algebra, the next calculus, then back to the multiplication table. It simply doesn’t make sense. Yet, this is how some therapy sessions are conducted.
Counselors might ask, “How do you feel today?” or “What issue would you like to address?” These questions, while important, don’t necessarily guide couples towards the larger goal of a dream marriage. Instead, questions like, “What kind of person do you need to become to achieve your dream marriage?” or “Are you ready to commit fully and take necessary actions for a fulfilling relationship?” are more impactful. These are the types of inquiries we delve into to determine if couples are a good fit for our program.
Our approach recognizes that building a great marriage requires understanding hundreds of nuances, which can’t be effectively taught in typical one-on-one sessions. Ad-hoc couples therapy may help some couples with minor issues, but it’s often insufficient for those looking to save their marriage or overcome significant challenges.
We’ve moved beyond traditional methods to offer a comprehensive program. This includes:
- Initial, mid-point, and final one-on-one sessions.
- Over 100 hours of materials, including videos, audios, and worksheets.
- Weekly group sessions for collective learning.
- Continuous email support.
- A private Facebook group for peer support.
- Monthly calls with program graduates.
Our program combines solid adult learning principles with a clear, consistent strategy and accountability. It’s more than a marriage program; it’s a leadership program within the context of your relationship.
Success in our program requires 100% commitment, coachability, and consistent action. From our experience, this is the only way to achieve meaningful, lasting change in a marriage.
We are here to guide you through this journey.
Click here to watch our free masterclass, “The 5 Secrets to Save Your Marriage Even If Your Partner Is Checked Out.“
Grant Wattie, known as “The Marriage Whisperer” is a specialist mentor in helping couples build Million Dollar Marriages™, has transformed the lives of over 1500 couples with his authentic and transformative approach.