Supporting a partner who has experienced sexual trauma can be both a deeply compassionate and challenging journey. You may feel a strong desire to help them heal, yet find yourself unsure of the best way to provide comfort and understanding. The truth is, navigating this path requires patience, empathy, emotional attunement, and a willingness to […]
It is one of the most common things couples bring into my office, and one of the most quietly painful: one partner reaches for connection and the other pulls back. Over time, what started as a mismatch in timing or mood can harden into something that feels much bigger — rejection on one side, pressure […]
What Do Couples Argue About? www.bastiontherapy.com You may have wondered what other couples argue about. And if you reflect on your own arguments, you may have wondered how your arguments relate to how other couples argue and whether couples therapy might be helpful. First, let’s recognize that disagreements among couples is normal, but that conflict […]
Before working with couples, I always start with one individual session with each partner. These sessions are 50-minutes long, and they are much like a regular initial individual psychotherapy session. While confidential, I explain that there are no secrets held within the individual sessions away from their partner. That means that anything discussed in the […]
Trauma therapy has evolved significantly over the past few decades, and today there are several effective approaches designed to help people process painful memories and move forward with their lives. Two therapies that are often discussed together are Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) and Accelerated Resolution Therapy (ART). Both approaches use eye movements and […]
No Accountability, No Consistency: The Power of Life Coaching Consistency is the bridge between intention and transformation. Most people don’t fail because they lack desire, intelligence, or even discipline—they fail because they lack accountability. Without accountability, goals drift, habits fade, and momentum stalls. The truth is simple: no accountability, no consistency. Accountability is not control; […]
Return to God, Restore Relationships, Reignite Purpose Every season of confusion, broken relationships, or lost direction shares a common root: misplaced identity. When identity drifts away from God, purpose becomes unclear and relationships begin to fracture. The journey back to clarity always starts the same way—returning to God and anchoring identity in Christ. […]
Forgiveness Equals Freedom: Reclaim Your Personal Power NOW! Unforgiveness is often misunderstood. Many people believe that holding onto resentment protects them or keeps them strong. In reality, unforgiveness does the opposite—it quietly hands your personal power to the very people who hurt you. True freedom begins when you understand that forgiveness is not weakness; it […]
Helping Couples Stay Anchored in Love & Respect Healthy relationships don’t drift into strength—they are anchored there. In a culture that celebrates emotion but often ignores commitment, the Bible offers a timeless foundation for couples who want love that lasts and respect that deepens over time. Scripture doesn’t present love and respect as optional traits; […]
When couples seek help for relationship struggles, they often focus on communication issues, emotional distance, or unresolved conflict. But there’s another piece of the puzzle that can’t be overlooked: sex. For many couples, sexual dissatisfaction isn’t just a private issue — it’s a relational one. As a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and Certified Couples […]
