ADHD, or Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder, presents challenges such as difficulty focusing, constant distraction, and impulsivity. These behaviours often stem from subconscious coping mechanisms developed in response to past experiences, such as childhood trauma or emotional neglect. These coping strategies, like distraction, become ingrained over time, making it hard to stay present and maintain focus.…
Anxiety disorders are increasingly prevalent among children worldwide, posing significant public health concerns. Recent studies estimate that approximately 7.1% of children aged 3-17 years in the United States experience anxiety disorders, with similar trends observed globally. This rise can be attributed to various factors, including academic pressures, social media influence, family dynamics, and broader…
Low self-esteem can cast a pervasive shadow over our lives, hindering our potential and preventing us from fully enjoying life’s rewards. However, with the right guidance and tools, reclaiming your sense of self-worth is entirely achievable. Understanding the Problem Improving self-esteem starts with understanding its roots and triggers. It goes beyond feeling good about oneself;…
Working with a counselor can feel like a big step. I like to think about it as an investment. You taking time out of your day to invest in your life, goals, and overall wellness. Achieving and maintaining a healthy state of mental health directly impacts how you show up in life. Getting the most…
Living with a chronic illness can be an overwhelming journey, where each day presents unique challenges and uncertainties. In this intricate landscape, a powerful approach emerges that combines the forces of pacing, brain fog education, and cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT). This holistic method offers individuals with chronic conditions a comprehensive toolkit to navigate their realities, manage…
In our quest for emotional well-being, intrusive thoughts often emerge as formidable obstacles, disrupting our inner peace and affecting our self-perception. These unwelcome visitors seem to appear out of nowhere, triggered by stress or deep-rooted beliefs. However, understanding and managing these thoughts is pivotal in reclaiming control over our mental landscape and fostering personal growth.…
FIRST: The Inner Child (IC) is the repository of all our childhood experiences, from birth until we left that environment – our memories, emotions & immature thinking. It includes our True Self, which did show up in some ways, but was mostly suppressed or distorted. Our IC now holds all our own wounds PLUS the wounds…
Low self-confidence can cast a dark shadow over our lives, diminishing joy and blocking our potential. As a therapist specializing in emotional wellness, I understand the profound impact this can have. However, it’s important to know that with the right strategies and guidance, you can reclaim your inner strength and step into a life filled…
Understanding Cognitive Changes in Seniors As individuals age, their cognitive functions often undergo significant changes. These changes can vary greatly from person to person, but some common patterns are frequently observed. One of the most notable changes is a general slowing of cognitive processes, which can affect memory, attention, and problem-solving abilities. Seniors might…
Are life’s challenges causing you overwhelming stress, making it difficult to navigate everyday emotions? You’re not alone. Stress accumulates gradually, affecting our ability to cope with daily life and leaving us feeling stretched thin. But there are effective ways to reclaim your inner peace and vitality. As a Mindfulness-Based Counselling Hypnotherapist in Victoria, B.C., I’m…