Albert Ellis was a colorful, quick witted, and socially awkward psychologist who thought a lot about disappointment – as he had quite a bit in his life. He famously stated that people “unnecessarily upset themselves” because they make faulty assumptions and have unrealistic expectations of the world around them. His answer to disappointment was to…
Grief Therapy for Indigenous Peoples The history of First Nations in Canada is marked by layers of intergenerational trauma, stemming from centuries of colonization, forced assimilation, and systemic injustices. This trauma is not just a relic of the past but continues to affect new generations through psychological, social, and cultural channels. The emotional reactions…
As the days grow longer and the sun shines brighter, summer offers the perfect opportunity to prioritize your mental health while enjoying the great outdoors. With warmer weather and longer daylight hours, engaging in summer activities not only rejuvenates the body but also uplifts the spirit. Let’s explore some refreshing activities that can help improve…
Are you tired of feeling held back by self-doubt and insecurity? Do you find yourself stuck in a cycle of self-sabotage, unable to break free and reach your full potential? If so, you’re not alone. Many individuals struggle with confidence issues that impact every aspect of their lives, from personal relationships to professional success. Fortunately,…
Each year, Canada welcomes a significant number of refugees, contributing to its multicultural society. Among these newcomers, a considerable portion are children, with estimates suggesting that around 20% of the refugee population comprises minors. These children come from diverse backgrounds, often fleeing their home countries due to war, violence, persecution, or natural disasters. The Impact…
The culture of silence, a rooted cultural norm in South Asian, European, Middle Eastern, Asian and Black families, restrains attempts of physical and sexual abuse survivors from getting the help they need. The fear of revenge and being disowned is prominent in home of these families where kids are being abused. Family shame, honor, and…
Understanding NIHB and Access to Mental Health Services for Indigenous People In a world where mental health awareness is progressively taking the forefront, the provision of psychotherapy and counseling services to Indigenous people, free of charge, marks a significant step towards healing and reconciliation. This initiative is largely supported by the Non-Insured Health Benefits (NIHB)…
In my practice, both online and in Victoria, I’ve guided numerous individuals through the maze of anxiety. Drawing from personal experience and professional insights, I’ve unraveled anxiety as a manifestation of fear deeply rooted in our subconscious. Often stemming from unresolved past events or emotional encounters, it breeds beliefs of inadequacy or unworthiness, hindering our…
Although prescription medications are available for both anxiety and depression, many doctors DON’T tell you about some important things you can do that naturally contribute to better emotional health. Here are some of them: Drinking enough water-many of us don’t drink enough and when we’re fully hydrated, our bodies and brains work better! Try out…
Now there you are, walking around in your head, perhaps in deep thought or drifting in a daydream, when suddenly, “BOO!” Out of nowhere, an overenthusiastic friend jumps out and practically scares the life out of you. Of course, you try to pose poise so your friend doesn’t have the pleasure of accomplishing their mission…