Many of us know the feeling. A look, tone or single word can suddenly send a conversation down a familiar path. We may have had the same argument so many times that we can almost predict what happens next. One person pushes for connection or change. The other becomes defensive, overwhelmed or shuts down. The […]
Everyone experiences strong emotions from time to time. Anger, sadness, fear, excitement, and disappointment are normal parts of life. For someone living with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD), however, emotions may sometimes feel unusually intense, arise quickly, and take longer to settle. This emotional intensity is more than simply being “too sensitive” or overreacting. BPD can […]
Sometimes an argument reaches a point where talking stops feeling productive. The heart rate rises. Breathing changes. The body becomes tense or restless, or perhaps everything begins to feel distant and numb. The urge to explain, defend, pursue or withdraw becomes stronger. At that point, it can be surprisingly difficult to access the qualities we […]
How can we tell our partner what we need without criticism, resentment or another argument? When couples become stuck in recurring conflict, dissatisfaction can build quietly before eventually coming out as criticism, complaints or demands. One partner may pursue harder for connection or change, while the other withdraws, becomes defensive or shuts down. The problem […]
In più di vent’anni di lavoro come psicoterapeuta, una sola cliente mi ha mai chiesto di vedere le mie qualifiche. Mi ha chiesto anche di vedere la mia carta d’identità, quasi scusandosi appena l’ha fatto. Quella domanda ha aperto una porta che raramente si apre così presto: nella stessa prima seduta mi ha raccontato di […]
Perfectionism is often seen as a strength. You may be someone who works hard, pays close attention to details, sets high standards, and wants to do things well. But when the need to be perfect becomes tied to your sense of worth, it can become exhausting. You may accomplish something you worked hard for, only […]
Viruses don’t only affect the immune system, they also interact with the brain and nervous system. Research points to several overlapping mechanisms: • Neuroinflammation: The immune response to infection releases inflammatory signals that can temporarily alter brain circuits involved in mood, motivation, and emotional regulation (Dantzer et al., 2008; Miller et al., 2009). • Stress-system […]
Healing Beyond Talk Therapy: When the Body, System, and Ancestral Field Are Finally Included Talking endlessly about your pain can leave you feeling drained and stuck. When therapy focuses only on words, the deeper roots often stay hidden. Healing shifts when your body, family system, and ancestral field join the conversation through systemic therapy. This […]
How High Achievers Are Finding Ground When Life Feels Uncertain: Shifting Perceptions During Change | Amority Health Originally Published: May 31, 2026; Updated and Republished on August 22, 2026 Written By: Rachel Cooper, MS, LPC Associate Supervised by Dr. Amber Quaranta Leech, LPC-S Quick Summary: Change, whether chosen or unexpected, can shake […]
Some people find it difficult to fully relax, even when things are going well. A calm day may feel unfamiliar. A positive experience may quickly be followed by the thought, “But what if something goes wrong?” You might find yourself replaying conversations, anticipating problems that have not happened, or constantly trying to stay one step […]
