Starting therapy can feel like a big step. Maybe you’ve been thinking about reaching out for a while. Maybe you know something in your life needs to change, but you’re not quite sure where to begin. Or maybe you’ve already scheduled your first appointment and are wondering, What am I supposed to talk about? What […]
We hear the phrase “anger issues” all the time. A teenager lashes out. A colleague loses their temper. A young man becomes frustrated or withdrawn. The label quickly follows: “they have anger issues”. But what if anger isn’t the problem? Anger Isn’t Bad Anger often gets treated as a negative emotion, but emotions aren’t inherently […]
Parenting can bring unexpected awareness of the ways we communicate. A parent may hear themselves respond to their child and suddenly recognize a familiar phrase, tone, or reaction from their own childhood. This experience can be unsettling, particularly when the response is one they had hoped to approach differently with their own children. It can […]
When Your Ex Is a “Gopher Parent” I use the term “Gopher Parent” for a parent who seems to disappear underground—and then suddenly pops back up. They’re gone for a while. Then they want the weekend. They show up for the birthday. They make an exciting promise. And then… they’re gone again. Meanwhile, you’re doing […]
The transition from the summer hiatus to the academic year represents one of the most significant annual shifts for the family unit. From a clinical standpoint, this period is characterized by a “transition stressor” that affects the physiological and psychological equilibrium of children, adolescents, and parents alike. While often dismissed as “first-day jitters,” the neurological […]
Tags: Anger, Anxiety, Forgiveness, Grief, Impulse Control, Life Coaching, Mindfulness, Parenting, Questions, Self Esteem, Social Anxiety, Stress, Therapist DECODING TEEN SLANG Decode Language (2026-2027) How Do We Communicate? Have you ever felt like you needed a passport to understand the conversations happening in your own home? If you have teenagers, you probably have. One minute […]
DECODING TEEN SLANG Decode Language (2026-2027) How Do We Communicate? Have you ever felt like you needed a passport to understand the conversations happening in your own home? If you have teenagers, you probably have. One minute you’re trying to figure out if “cap” means what it meant when you were growing up (spoiler alert: […]
Financial Abuse Isn’t Just Between Partners—It Happens in Families Too Financial abuse, two words that people often think of an abusive spouse controlling bank accounts or preventing a partner from working. But financial abuse doesn’t only happen in romantic relationships. After more than 20 years as a Marriage and Family Therapist, I’ve seen another form […]
How Christian Counseling Can Bring Back Hope and Change Your World Life can feel overwhelming at times. Whether it’s the weight of personal struggles, broken relationships, grief, or uncertainty about the future, it’s easy to lose sight of hope. In those moments, we often long for guidance that not only addresses our emotional and mental […]
Lately, I’ve been thinking a lot about how motherhood can feel like constantly having your heart in more than one place at a time. Recently, I had one of those days where I spent time doing something that made me feel deeply like myself outside of motherhood. I felt energized, fulfilled, and connected to a […]
