Online Infidelity therapists in Oak Bay, British Columbia BC, Canada CA
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Fatima Mohammad, Avec Counselling
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
I support individuals and couples navigating the impact of infidelity with compassion and honesty. Together, we work to process betrayal, rebuild trust, improve communication, and create clarity around what healing and moving forward can look like.
5 Years Experience
Online in Oak Bay, BC (Online Only)
Jayne Batten
Counsellor/Therapist, MSc, CT, MPCC, MBACP
I help couples navigate through infidelity by creating a safe place to process the intense emotions, shattered trust and complex dynamics that arise after betrayal. Central to the healing process is honouring the profound PTSD like trauma that can result, validating the betrayed partner's hypervigilance, flashbacks, and emotional overwhelm as natural responses. Therapy focuses on rebuilding safety, fostering honest communication and guiding both partner's through the courageous work of repair, or thoughtful separation, while addressing the deep wounds and underlying patterns that contributed to the rupture.
8 Years Experience
Online in Oak Bay, BC
Carlos "Charlie" Garcia
Registered Psychotherapist, RMHC, CCC, MSc, CCTP
Infidelity can feel like everything you thought was stable suddenly isn’t, like your world is crumbling. Whether you’re trying to make sense of what happened or figure out what comes next, I work with individuals and couples to process the pain of broken trust, understand the deeper dynamics, and gain clarity around what you want moving forward, whether that means repair, rebuilding, or making a different kind of decision about the relationship.
2 Years Experience
Online in Oak Bay, BC (Online Only)
Adam Manz
Licensed Mental Health Counsellor, Registered Clinical Counsellor (RCC), MCP
Infidelity can leave individuals and couples feeling shocked, confused, or unsure how to rebuild trust—whether you're coping with the discovery, the disclosure, or the aftermath. I offer a nonjudgmental space to slow down, understand what led to the rupture, and begin to process the emotions beneath the surface. With a trauma-informed and attachment-focused approach, we’ll work toward clarity, honest communication, and a healthier path forward—whether that means repair, closure, or a new way of relating.
3 Years Experience
Online in Oak Bay, BC
Simone Merkl Marriage Counselling
Counsellor/Therapist, RTC
Infidelity can be devastating to the trust in a relationship. It is a confusing, emotional experience that can cause symptoms of behavioural trauma. I help you to find clarity in your circumstances after an emotional or physical affair. Healing is possible. The effects of infidelity can last for years unless you reach out and get the help you deserve. I inspire you to navigate a new relationship built on trust, commitment and connection. There are three basic steps to healing betrayal trauma atone, attune and attach. Atone means to right past wrongs. Attune means listening and validating one another's experiences and realities. Attach means creating a deep bond where trust and commitment can prosper. Please feel free to contact me for a free 20-minute consultation today. I offer online sessions in Canada, BC. or in-person sessions in Langley or White Rock, BC.
6 Years Experience
Online in Oak Bay, BC
Frances Brown
Marriage and Family Therapist, M.Ed, MPCC, MTC
Infidelity
The initial shock of infidelity is shattering to the hurt partner. It feels like a profound loss. It turns your sense of reality upside down. Not only do you feel betrayed, but you begin to question whether you can trust your own perceptions. The world no longer seems to make sense. It feels enormously difficult to recover from. You may feel like you are going crazy but you're not. Whatever you are feeling is a normal response to a traumatizing situation. For the unfaithful partner, you will likely be experiencing a torrent of conflicting feelings ranging from relief that the secret is out to feelings of impatience "I've told you everything and nothing I do or say makes any difference to you", to anxiety and guilt and feeling like no-one is there for you.
Partners are equally responsible for the relationship dynamic the brought them to this point. However each person is accountable for the decision they made, ie., to stray outside of the relationship or to shut down and withdraw.
One of the key questions couples will be faced with once the secret is out is "should I stay or should I go". Counselling can help you sort through the complexities of this question and decide if this person is right for you.
I invite you to book a free 15 minute consultation with me.
18 Years Experience
Online in Oak Bay, BC
Somatic Healing Arts, Psychotherapy and Wellness
Registered Psychotherapist, RP (qualifying), MA-ExAT
Experiencing infidelity can impact both the mind and body, bringing up shock, grief, anger, and a sense of betrayal. Approaches like art therapy and sensorimotor therapy engage both body and mind, helping individuals process complex emotions, release tension, rebuild trust in themselves, and move toward healing, clarity, and emotional resilience.
9 Years Experience
Online in Oak Bay, BC
Jonah Fialkow
Counsellor/Therapist, MA, RCC
When working with clients dealing with infidelity, my approach is centered around fostering a safe and supportive environment where all parties involved can express themselves openly and honestly. I understand that infidelity is a complex issue that can elicit a wide range of emotions such as anger, betrayal, guilt, and sadness.
First and foremost, I aim to validate the feelings of all individuals affected by the infidelity, whether they are the betrayed partner or the one who engaged in the infidelity. Each person's experience is unique, and it's crucial to honor their emotions without judgment.
Next, I facilitate open and respectful communication between the individuals involved. This involves helping them understand the underlying factors that may have contributed to the infidelity, such as relationship dissatisfaction, communication issues, or personal vulnerabilities. By exploring these factors in a safe space, clients can gain insight into their own behaviors and the dynamics of their relationship.
I also work with clients to rebuild trust and repair the relationship if that is their goal. This often involves setting clear boundaries, improving communication skills, and addressing underlying issues that may have contributed to the infidelity. Trust-building exercises and techniques for rebuilding intimacy may also be incorporated into therapy sessions.
However, I recognize that not all relationships can or should be salvaged after infidelity. In cases where the clients decide to end the relationship, I support them through the process of healing and moving forward separately. This may involve helping them cope with the grief and loss associated with the end of the relationship, as well as assisting them in developing healthy coping mechanisms and setting goals for the future.
Ultimately, my approach to infidelity is focused on facilitating healing, growth, and understanding for all parties involved, while empowering clients to make decisions that align with their values and well-being.
3 Years Experience
Online in Oak Bay, BC
Psykhe Psychotherapy
Registered Psychotherapist, RP, MACP
Each therapist has their own specialties, and we focus on connecting you with the clinician whose experience best fits your needs. Therapy may involve developing coping strategies, processing past experiences and childhood patterns, and cultivating greater self-compassion and emotional well-being.
8 Years Experience
Online in Oak Bay, BC (Online Only)
Amanda Lazenis
Registered Psychotherapist, Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying)
I support individuals and couples navigating the complex emotions and challenges that arise from infidelity. Through compassionate guidance, we work to rebuild trust, improve communication, and explore healing paths—whether together or individually.
1 Years Experience
Online in Oak Bay, BC
Julie Taylor Counselling
Counsellor/Therapist, MTC, RCS
Infidelity is a breach of the trust we give to our partner, the person we have chosen to live and share our life with. It is heartbreaking and can feel like we have been punched hard in the solar plexus and left a gaping hole there. As part of the journey forward in our life we must explore, try to understand, cognitively, what happened and decide whether to remain in a relationship without the level of trust that we gave it or whether to end the relationship and start afresh.
26 Years Experience
Online in Oak Bay, BC
Reg Fleming
Marriage and Family Therapist, M.A., RMFT, RCC
As a couples therapist i have worked with couples who have experienced infidelity. This can be a challenge to work through even when both parties are willing to repair and commit because of the emotional intensity.. Working with a couples therapist can provide the support and process to work through this pattern.
33 Years Experience
Online in Oak Bay, BC
Mr. Paul Bains
Therapist, B.Sc., M.A., RCC
Infidelity and affairs are extremely hurtful for the one who has been betrayed by someone who loves you. Trust has been destroyed, and you wonder if you can regain trust if you stay in the relationship. The foundation of your relationship has been rocked. There are many emotions that you are feeling - shock, anger, sadness, and confusion, to name a few. Get support now if you decide to work on the relationship and healing or leave and end the relationship. Therapy many help in gaining clarity.
33 Years Experience
Online in Oak Bay, BC
Suzanne St. John Smith
Counsellor/Therapist, M.A., M.A. (Psych.) FEA, C.C.C Relationship and Family Therapist; Life Coach
When working with clients who are experiencing infidelity, my focus is on helping them navigate the intense emotions that often arise — shock, grief, anger, confusion, and betrayal — while creating a safe, nonjudgmental space to process what has happened. I work collaboratively to help them understand the dynamics that led to the rupture, clarify their needs and boundaries, and begin rebuilding a sense of trust — whether that means repairing the relationship or healing independently. My approach integrates compassion with honest reflection, guiding clients toward clarity, self-worth, and a deeper understanding of what safety and connection truly mean for them moving forward.
22 Years Experience
Online in Oak Bay, BC
Melinda Freitas
Counsellor/Therapist, MACP, RCC, CCC
Counselling for infidelity can help clients navigate the trauma of betrayal in a safe yet structured environment. My approach focuses on stabilizing emotions, understanding the causes of the breach, and deciding whether to rebuild, heal or detach.
14 Years Experience
Online in Oak Bay, BC
Samuele Bariani
Registered Psychotherapist, MDiv, RP
Emotional or physical betrayal is an awful experience and recovering after infidelity is a tortuous journey that requires the help of a professional at times. The betraying and the betrayed partner can experience chaos and a full range of different emotions that deserve a safe environment to be processed. I can support both couple who hope to restore their relationship after infidelity or individuals who needs to process the impact of what happened in their life.
9 Years Experience
Online in Oak Bay, BC
Darbey Carlson
Registered Psychotherapist, RP, MACP, MSc, RYT-200, ADHD-CCSP
Have you experienced a betrayal leaving you feeling lost, confused, or unsure how to move forward? Let's connect to provide you a space of safety to navigate sadness, anger, confusion, or any other emotion that may come with your experience in order to rebuild your power.
9 Years Experience
Online in Oak Bay, BC (Online Only)
Pegah Behbehani
Counsellor/Therapist, Registered Clinical Counsellor
My counselling style is influenced by trauma-informed therapy, strength-based therapy, Mindfulness-Based Cognitive Therapy (MBCT), Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), AEDP, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Bowen Family Systems, Narrative Therapy, and EMDR, Hakomi therapy, IFS therapy.
7 Years Experience
Online in Oak Bay, BC
Maya Awad
Therapist, Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying)
Do you feel like something shifted in your relationship and you can’t go back to how it was? Are you stuck between wanting to repair things and wondering if you even should? Do you find yourself replaying conversations, questioning what’s real and what isn’t? Are you carrying guilt, anger, or confusion that doesn’t seem to settle? Do you feel alone in it, even when you’re not? Trying to navigate the aftermath of infidelity and not sure what comes next? Book a free consultation call and start making sense of it, without judgement.
2 Years Experience
Online in Oak Bay, BC (Online Only)
Strength in Heart Counselling
Treatment Center, RSW, RCC, CCC
Infidelity can shake the foundation of trust in a relationship. We provide a safe, neutral environment to process emotions, rebuild trust, or make decisions about the future. Our focus is on healing and honest communication for both partners.
8 Years Experience
Online in Oak Bay, BC
Infidelity therapists in Oak Bay, British Columbia, Canada Statistics
Infidelity therapists in Oak Bay, British Columbia, Canada average 11 years of experience and charge around $154 per session. 100% offer online sessions. The most commonly treated issues are Infidelity (100%), Anxiety or Fears (90%), and Self Esteem (83%).
Average years in practice
11 Years Experience
Average cost per session
$154
Gender ID
| 66% |
Female |
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| 29% |
Male |
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| 3% |
Non-Binary |
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| 2% |
Gender Fluid |
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Session Type
| 60% |
In Person and Online |
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| 40% |
Online Only |
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Top Specialties
| 100% | Infidelity |
| 90% | Anxiety or Fears |
| 83% | Self Esteem |
| 82% | Depression |
| 77% | Stress |
| 75% | Relationship and Marriage Counseling |
| 75% | Divorce |