Online Self Esteem therapists in Bostonia, California CA
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Louisa Lombard
Licensed Professional Counselor, LCPC, LPCC, PPS
If your self-esteem feels like it is too low or it yo-yos based on what people say or do around you, then increasing self-compassion and self-love can be really valuable in building self-esteem and confidence for the long-term. Having a healthy self-esteem is important, a more fulfilling and fun way to live, and helpful in drawing in the types of relationships that we long for. Demonstrating having a healthy self-esteem is also a beautiful thing to model when we long for that in our kids too.
13 Years Experience
Online in Bostonia, CA (Online Only)
New Beginnings Counseling Center (NBCC)
Pre-Licensed Professional
We support youth and adults facing self-esteem difficulties in their lives and relationships.
66 Years Experience
Online in Bostonia, CA
Lisa Abrams-Misbeek
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
In therapy, we will challenge your negative thoughts and build a stronger sense of self-worth. Cognitive-Behavioral therapy is a great technique to help you build up your self-worth.
15 Years Experience
Online in Bostonia, CA (Online Only)
Julie Levin
Marriage and Family Therapist, MFT
If you have a difficult family member who communicates with anger, contempt, criticism, blaming, or shaming, it can take a huge toll on your self-esteem - especially if you were emotionally abused in childhood. You may have learned to be hard on yourself in an effort to control your own behavior, hoping to avoid the worse pain of being bullied or hurt by a parent or sibling with mental health or addiction issues. Together, we can begin to invite a new inner voice to develop - one that is unfailingly kind, validating, and supportive. As you begin to treat yourself with the respect and care you always needed, something profound may happen. You may find that you really like the person within you who is always so warm and understanding. This is my definition of self-esteem - coming to genuinely like yourself because you treat yourself so well.
27 Years Experience
Online in Bostonia, CA (Online Only)
The Mindful Life with Lori Kahn
Life Coach, Certified Integrative Coach, Certified Mindfulness Meditation Teacher
Self esteem is rooted in the development of our identity when we are very young. We get stuck seeing ourselves in a limited and often very cruel way. With mindful tools and coaching we can begin to get at those roots and work with them to grow and change.
18 Years Experience
Online in Bostonia, CA
Dr. Joshua A. Goldstein
Psychologist, Psy.D.
You want to feel good about yourself, but instead that critic inside your head has a louder voice. Together we can discover why it's so loud and how to replace it.
12 Years Experience
Online in Bostonia, CA
Alejandra Kenia Ipina
Marriage and Family Therapist, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist
Chances are you may be feeling low about possibly believe that you are not enough. Often women learn from family, culture, or other spaces messages that are not theirs. You may criticizing yourself without noticing whether it was judgment from the family, your parents, or other people of authority that it now feels like your voice. Somatic therapy can help explore the reality of this belief to reconnect you with your internal voice.
9 Years Experience
Online in Bostonia, CA
Marcelle Little
Marriage and Family Therapist, MPH, MA
According to research, self-compassion is a considered a better marker for how we view ourselves in relation to the world. Through this framework, I guide you on practices to enhance inner compassion.
9 Years Experience
Online in Bostonia, CA
Jasmine Wilson
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW, SEP-IT
You may be hard on yourself no matter how much you accomplish. Maybe you question your worth, compare yourself to others, people-please, or rely on outside validation to feel okay. Even when others see your strengths, it can be difficult for you to truly feel them.
Low self-esteem is often rooted in earlier experiences that shaped how you learned to see yourself. In therapy, we’ll explore the beliefs, relational patterns, and nervous system responses that keep self-doubt in place. Over time, you can develop a more grounded sense of worth, stronger boundaries, and a relationship with yourself that feels kinder and more secure.
10 Years Experience
Online in Bostonia, CA
Amrit Schneider
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW
Identify and challenge negative self-talk, increase self esteem and self worth.
9 Years Experience
Online in Bostonia, CA
Chris 'Bucky' Bateman
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
Low self-esteem quietly shapes everything, how we show up in relationships, how we handle conflict, how we talk to ourselves when things go wrong. Therapy helps you understand where those patterns came from and begin replacing them with something healthier. We work with clients to build genuine confidence rooted in self-awareness, self-compassion, and a clearer sense of who they are.
21 Years Experience
Online in Bostonia, CA
Sloane Fabricius
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT, LPCC, Clinical Supervisor
My hope and intent is for you to feel heard, seen, supported and hopeful about you and your circumstances. Van Gogh said it best, "I feel there is nothing more truly artistic than loving people." Our creative collaboration will equip you in getting your needs met in healthy ways.
29 Years Experience
Online in Bostonia, CA
David Eshleman
Marriage and Family Therapist, M.A., LMFT
If we do not improve and heal our self esteem, we will go throughout life either as a doormat that eventually becomes resentful, or as someone who carries a great deal of rage. Either way, life is not in balance, and this creates more suffering. Healing self-esteem (self respect and admiration) leads to a deep internal shift that frees us to be more authentic, balanced, and whole not only on the outside, but on the inside as well. This leads to better relationships across the board. Many times trauma and attachment is at the root of this. Building con+fidence (to go, with trust), self-love, assertiveness and boundary setting, increases the ability to give and receive love and acceptance.
14 Years Experience
Online in Bostonia, CA
Janee Young
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
I specialize in the transformative journey of self-esteem building. With a genuine passion for empowering individuals, I offer a wealth of expertise in fostering positive self-image, self-worth, and self-compassion. Through a variety of tailored activities, I guide clients in discovering and embracing their unique strengths. Together, we embark on a journey of self-discovery and growth, building a foundation of confidence and resilience. I am dedicated to creating a warm and supportive space for individuals to flourish in their quest for a healthier and more positive self-esteem.
10 Years Experience
Online in Bostonia, CA (Online Only)
Jean-Marie Bottequin
Life Coach, WAPP
Self-esteem is a basic human need. A self is there to be realized and celebrated and not to be aborted and denied. Self-esteem is - in a comprehensive sense - the experience of feeling equal to life and all its challenges.
Self Esteem means to respect myself. But how can I deepen my understanding of self-respect and my resolve to uphold it?
Self-respect provides us honor and happiness, something most of us strive for through all sorts of means. We may try to buy our happiness with new technology, clothes, or vacations. We may try to beautify our bodies in hopes that others will honor us and make us feel loved. Many try to climb to unnecessary heights of material wealth to attract the joy we see missing around us. But those methods usually don’t work. If self-respect forms an important part of how we achieve the happiness and honor we crave, it seems pretty important that we understand it.
I work with the method of Nathaniel Branden and support people in the different 6 pillars of self-esteem. These are: 1. living consciously - 2. self-acceptance - 3. living self-reliantly - 4. asserting oneself - 5. living purposefully - 6. personal integrity.
36 Years Experience
Online in Bostonia, CA
Stephanie Morfitt, LCSW More Fit Mental Health
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW
When You Feel “Not Enough”
You may look like you have it all together — capable, caring, successful — yet underneath it all, you’re often questioning yourself. You replay conversations, worry you’ve disappointed someone, or feel like you’re falling short no matter how hard you try. Even small mistakes can feel huge, and compliments are hard to believe. If you’re stuck in cycles of perfectionism, self-criticism, or people-pleasing, I can help you change how you relate to yourself from the inside out.
Using a structured, evidence-based approach called TEAM-CBT, we’ll uncover the beliefs that fuel low self-worth and learn how to replace them with compassion, confidence, and emotional balance. Together, we’ll work to:
Quiet the inner critic that keeps moving the goalpost
Identify and challenge distorted thoughts about your value and competence
Build emotional resilience so your mood isn’t dependent on others’ approval
Strengthen your sense of identity and confidence in your choices
Experience genuine self-respect — not the temporary kind that fades with praise or performance
You’ll gain tools you can use daily to shift from feeling “not enough” to knowing you are already whole. Therapy becomes less about “fixing yourself” and more about discovering your worth that’s been there all along.
I BELIEVE:
You can be both confident and a work in progress.
Self-compassion creates change faster than self-criticism ever will.
You deserve relationships that mirror your true worth — not your self-doubt.
Confidence is a skill you can learn, not a personality trait you either have or don’t.
Growth happens when we replace judgment with curiosity and kindness.
Also Integrated In Our Work:
• Interpersonal Work – to strengthen connection and empower you to be yourself using The 5 Secrets of Effective Communication
• Mindful Self-Compassion – to cultivate a gentler, kinder inner voice through the work of Dr. Kristin Neff
• Trauma Resiliency Model (TRM) – to regulate the nervous system and support trauma recovery alongside cognitive tools for a well-rounded approach
10 Years Experience
Online in Bostonia, CA
Dr. Shelby Kittinger
Psychologist, PsyD
Together we explore how early experiences and internalized messages have shaped the way you see yourself. Therapy becomes a space to reclaim self-worth, strengthen inner authority, and live from a place of authenticity rather than self-criticism.
10 Years Experience
Online in Bostonia, CA (Online Only)
Kim Christine Stevens
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT, MA
Have a passion for supporting clients with self-esteem issues!
11 Years Experience
Online in Bostonia, CA
Brooke Taylor
Pre-Licensed Professional, MA, AMFT
Struggling with low self-esteem can make you feel unworthy, insecure, and disconnected from your true potential. If you're constantly doubting your value or comparing yourself to others, it can be hard to break free from the cycle of self-criticism. In our work together, I’ll help you explore the root causes of your low self-esteem, challenge negative beliefs, and develop a more compassionate, empowered relationship with yourself. Through support and practical tools, you’ll learn how to embrace your strengths, set healthy boundaries, and cultivate the confidence you deserve. You are worthy of love, respect, and success, and I’m here to guide you on your journey toward self-acceptance.
5 Years Experience
Online in Bostonia, CA (Online Only)
Rinat Kass
Marriage and Family Therapist, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist
Dealing with low self esteem can be challenging. Let me support you in better understanding the roots of your low self esteem and help you discover ways to strengthen it, so you can lead a meaningful and joyful life.
19 Years Experience
Online in Bostonia, CA
Self Esteem therapists in Bostonia, California Statistics
Self Esteem therapists in Bostonia, California average 15 years of experience and charge around $205 per session. 100% offer online sessions. The most commonly treated issues are Self Esteem (100%), Anxiety or Fears (89%), and Stress (75%).
Average years in practice
15 Years Experience
Average cost per session
$205
Gender ID
| 71% |
Female |
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| 25% |
Male |
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| 2% |
Non-Binary |
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| 2% |
Gender Fluid |
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Session Type
| 59% |
In Person and Online |
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| 41% |
Online Only |
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Top Specialties
| 100% | Self Esteem |
| 89% | Anxiety or Fears |
| 75% | Stress |
| 74% | Depression |
| 71% | Trauma and PTSD |
| 58% | Loss or Grief |
| 57% | Relationship and Marriage Counseling |