Online Sex and Porn Addiction therapists in El Cajon, California CA
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Michael Myette Therapy
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW
I specialize in treatment for sexual addition
19 Years Experience
Online in El Cajon, CA (Online Only)
New Beginnings Christian Counseling
Marriage and Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Struggling with sex or porn addiction can feel isolating, shame-filled, and disruptive to relationships, self-esteem, and spiritual life. In therapy, we provide a safe, nonjudgmental space to explore the underlying causes of addictive behaviors—often rooted in trauma, attachment wounds, or emotional struggles—and develop practical strategies for recovery. With Christ-centered guidance, clients learn to establish healthy boundaries, rebuild intimacy, restore self-worth, and cultivate emotional and spiritual healing, moving toward freedom, accountability, and lasting transformation.
15 Years Experience
Online in El Cajon, CA
Piyola Derbarseghian- Sex & Relationship Therapist
Pre-Licensed Professional, MA, AMFT
If you feel like your sexual choices are at odds with your values or are causing distress in your life or relationships, you’re not alone. I work with individuals navigating out of control sexual behavior, whether it's compulsive porn use, infidelity, or patterns that feel difficult to stop, to better understand the emotional, relational, and psychological factors involved. Together, we focus on moving beyond shame and building insight, choice, and meaningful change.
4 Years Experience
Online in El Cajon, CA (Online Only)
Laura Anderson LPCC, Eff Shame Therapy
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPCC
Problematic sexual behaviors — including compulsive porn use — are rarely about sex itself. They are most often about pain, disconnection, shame, or a nervous system looking for relief. I work from a harm reduction, client-centered approach using CBT, DBT, Motivational Interviewing, and trauma-focused methods to understand what's underneath the behavior and actually address it. I do not work from a twelve-step or "sex addiction" framework — not because I dismiss your struggle, but because shame-based models tend to create more of the very thing driving the behavior in the first place. You are not broken. Let's figure out what's actually going on.
12 Years Experience
Online in El Cajon, CA (Online Only)
Sam Naimi
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, Psychotherapist & Psychoanalyst
Struggles regarding sex are often less about desire itself and more about what those behaviors are asked to hold in your psychic world. In psychoanalytic work, we become curious about the emotional life, unmet longings, and unspoken conflicts that may be shaping patterns around sex and intimacy. Over time, this process can support greater freedom, choice, and a more integrated relationship to desire, one that feels intentional rather than driven.
8 Years Experience
Online in El Cajon, CA
Dennis Sapire
Psychologist, JD PhD
Despite my generally sex positive therapeutic orientation, I am frequently asked to treat people suffering negative consequences of sexual behavior.
24 Years Experience
Online in El Cajon, CA
Julien Moe
Hypnotherapist, Diploma in Clinical and Applied Hypnosis, Diploma in Life Coaching
Sex and pornography addiction can be treated using hypnotherapy, which aims to rewire subconscious patterns, reduce urges, and break addiction cycles by focusing on positive habit replacement. How Hypnotherapy Treats Porn/Sex Addiction:Rewiring the Brain: It helps change the brain’s dopamine-driven, rewarding link to pornography, reducing automatic urges.Subconscious Re-programming: Hypnotherapy can uncover and address the root causes of the addiction, including underlying shame or trauma.Behavioral Change: Techniques such as suggestion therapy, visualization, and regression are used to associate negative experiences with porn, while fostering healthier habits.
My clients addicted to sex and porn have been resilient and recovering due to my Dicit Hypnotherapy.
10 Years Experience
Online in El Cajon, CA
Empowered Wellbeing, Decolonizing Intersectional and Integrative Complex Trauma & Dissociation Recovery Support
Life Coach, view my credentials online at: www.recoveringfromwithin.com/credentialslongform
Sex Addiction can accompany instances of trauma and/or adaptation to a pervasive culture of objectification and low intimacy cultivation. It can also be a coping strategy in disaster capitalism. Blending other addiction recovery models, TIST, Internal Family Systems (IFS), Attachment Theory, Neuordevelopmental Models, Relational Life Therapy, Reinvent, Patrick Carnes' work and sex and intimacy 12 Step Recovery Principles and Literature from SAA, SLAA and CoSA; along with Traditional Chinese Medicine acupressure and careful trauma support clients may redefine intimacy from a place of agency and renewed self-respect.
15 Years Experience
Online in El Cajon, CA (Online Only)
Chris 'Bucky' Bateman
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
Pornography and sexual compulsivity can quietly devastate relationships and erode a person's sense of self. We provide compassionate, non-shaming support for individuals and couples navigating the impact of porn addiction helping clients understand what drives the behavior, rebuild trust with their partner, and develop healthier patterns of intimacy and connection.
21 Years Experience
Online in El Cajon, CA
Sexual Recovery Coach
Counselor/Therapist, PhD, CST, CADC-III, CTA-CC
Sexual addiction carries with it a degree of secrecy, and often shame, that other addictions do not have to deal with. The worst part of a sexual addiction for many is the compulsion to do things that are outside their personal value system. When a person behaves in a way that is not congruent with their moral compass, it can create great distress and confusion. My program to treat this addiction is based on proven techniques involving cognitive-behavioral, trauma-centered, and neurological components. Over time we can help you rewire your brain so that these compulsions no longer drive you.
20 Years Experience
Online in El Cajon, CA
Dr. Ingrid Solano
Psychologist, PhD
Sex therapy encapsulates everything that goes on in the mind, body and thoughts around sex.
15 Years Experience
Online in El Cajon, CA
Kari Carter
Life Coach, APSATS certified, ACC, CPC, ADOH
The impact of sex and porn addiction on a partner is profound and often traumatic. Discovery can lead to shock, hypervigilance, intrusive thoughts, body image struggles, and a deep rupture of emotional safety. My work focuses specifically on supporting the betrayed partner - not treating the addiction itself, but addressing the trauma response that follows it.
Using a partner-sensitive, trauma-informed model, I help clients stabilize their nervous system, establish protective boundaries, process betrayal wounds, and regain clarity about their next steps. Partners deserve support that validate the harm experienced rather than minimizing it or pathologizing their response.
Living alongside sex or porn addiction can leave you feeling unseen, unsafe, and questioning your worth. I specialize in supporting partners as they navigate the trauma of addiction-related betrayal, helping them move from chaos and confusion toward strength, clarity, and empowered decision-making.
3 Years Experience
Online in El Cajon, CA (Online Only)
Diaspora Therapy Group
Marriage and Family Therapist, DSW, LMFT
We provide non-shaming support for individuals struggling with compulsive sexual behaviors. We explore underlying emotional drivers, attachment patterns, and coping strategies while building accountability and healthier relationships. Our approach is trauma-informed, respectful, and goal-oriented.
7 Years Experience
Online in El Cajon, CA
Christian Holmes
Marriage and Family Therapist, M.A., Associate Marriage and Family Therapist
Sex addiction is arguably the biggest thing nobody talks about. Often times it goes unnoticed and therefore unaddressed. Sexual addiction is something that keeps us from the connection we know intrinsically we are made to experience. In our work together I help you get to the root issues that underly your sexual addiction so can experience the love, connection, and peace you are really after.
8 Years Experience
Online in El Cajon, CA
Rising Pines Counseling Services
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW)
I support individuals seeking help with compulsive sexual behaviors in a non-judgmental space. Therapy focuses on understanding patterns, strengthening impulse control, and restoring healthy relationships with self and others.
11 Years Experience
Online in El Cajon, CA (Online Only)
Phillip McCulley
Marriage and Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CSAT
I work with individuals and couples who are struggling with sex addiction or problematic porn use and the impact these behaviors have on trust, intimacy, and self respect. Out of control sexual behavior can feel confusing, isolating, and deeply shame inducing, especially when it conflicts with your values or causes harm to relationships you care about.
As a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist, I help clients understand how these patterns develop and what maintains them. Our work focuses on identifying triggers, emotional needs, and coping strategies, while also building healthier ways to manage stress, desire, and connection. Recovery is not about punishment or rigid control. It is about increasing awareness, accountability, and choice.
When sexual behavior has affected a relationship, I also work with partners to address betrayal, rebuild trust, and establish clearer boundaries. Whether you are seeking help individually or as a couple, therapy offers a structured and supportive space to reduce shame, interrupt destructive cycles, and move toward healthier sexuality and more honest connection.
22 Years Experience
Online in El Cajon, CA
Viktoria Walda Byczkiewicz, Ph.D.
Pre-Licensed Professional, PhD
I offer a confidential space to discuss your behaviors, compulsions, related concerns, and any aspect of yourself that you may either wish to change or hold onto. Let us explore, in an honest and shame-free atmosphere, how you relate to yourself and others through fantasy and the body to understand yourself, your desires, and your needs more deeply. If you are facing legal problems or the dissolution of valued relationships owing to sexual addiction, let us find ways to cope and change, if and when you are ready.
10 Years Experience
Online in El Cajon, CA (Online Only)
David Strah
Marriage and Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
I have helped several clients with their sexual addiction
Online in El Cajon, CA
Don ( "Dr Don" ) Etkes
Marriage and Family Therapist, Ph.D., MFT
For over 30 years I have helped hundreds of men and women to discover ways of healing from sex addiction and moving toward healthy sensuality and a fulfilling life.
39 Years Experience
Online in El Cajon, CA
David Sudyka
Marriage and Family Therapist, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA
Compulsive sexual behaviors or pornography use can feel difficult to control and may impact your relationships, self image, and daily life. You may feel shame or frustration about patterns that are hard to change. In therapy we will focus on understanding what is driving these behaviors and building healthier ways to cope and connect. The goal is to help you regain a sense of control and develop a more balanced relationship with yourself and others.
4 Years Experience
Online in El Cajon, CA (Online Only)
Sex and Porn Addiction therapists in El Cajon, California Statistics
Sex and Porn Addiction therapists in El Cajon, California average 15 years of experience and charge around $217 per session. 100% offer online sessions. The most commonly treated issues are Sex and Porn Addiction (100%), Relationship and Marriage Counseling (74%), and Trauma and PTSD (72%).
Average years in practice
15 Years Experience
Average cost per session
$217
Gender ID
| 57% |
Male |
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| 34% |
Female |
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| 5% |
Non-Binary |
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| 4% |
Gender Fluid |
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Session Type
| 70% |
In Person and Online |
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| 30% |
Online Only |
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Top Specialties
| 100% | Sex and Porn Addiction |
| 74% | Relationship and Marriage Counseling |
| 72% | Trauma and PTSD |
| 72% | Depression |
| 68% | Anxiety or Fears |
| 62% | Men’s Issues |
| 62% | Loss or Grief |