Online Self Esteem therapists in Fairfax, California CA
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Stephanie Brumfield
Therapist, LCSW
In addressing the complex issue of self-esteem in my practice, I delve deep into the root causes that underpin feelings of low self-worth, focusing on individuals who, due to their empathetic nature, high sensitivity, or autism, experience the world with intense emotional depth. These unique traits, while profound gifts, can also lead to overwhelming self-criticism, anxiety, and shame, often stemming from an acute awareness of others' emotions and judgments. This heightened sensitivity can culminate in challenges such as difficulty setting boundaries, a propensity towards people-pleasing, and perfectionism, all of which can erode self-esteem and contribute to a sense of burnout and disconnection from one's true self.
My therapeutic approach is grounded in the understanding that low self-esteem often arises from these deep-seated patterns of thinking and interacting with the world. By exploring the origins of these feelings—whether they're rooted in childhood experiences, societal expectations, or the intrinsic challenges of navigating life with heightened sensitivity—we embark on a journey of healing and transformation. This process is focused on uncovering and addressing the underlying causes of low self-esteem, moving beyond surface-level solutions to foster lasting change.
Together, we work to develop healthier boundaries, reduce self-criticism, and embrace authenticity, empowering individuals to reclaim their self-worth independently of external validation. The goal is to help those I work with to confidently shine their light, building connections that honor their authentic selves, and to discover a sense of self that is free from overwhelm and self-doubt. This depth-oriented, root cause approach to therapy is about nurturing a strong, resilient sense of self-esteem that supports a life of fulfillment, confidence, and genuine connection, celebrating the unique gifts of sensitivity and empathy as sources of strength and connection.
8 Years Experience
Online in Fairfax, CA (Online Only)
DL, Licensed Clinical Social Worker, PLLC
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW, CCTP
I specialize in self-esteem therapy for adults struggling with low self-confidence, chronic self-doubt, perfectionism, and negative self-talk. Many high-functioning individuals experience persistent feelings of inadequacy despite external success. In therapy, I help clients develop self-worth that is not tied to productivity, achievement, or external validation. This work supports increased emotional resilience, healthier relationships, and a more secure sense of self. The goal is lasting self-trust and confidence rooted in self-understanding rather than performance.
17 Years Experience
Online in Fairfax, CA (Online Only)
Shirley Johnson,
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT, CYT
Low self-esteem often grows from early relational wounds and cultural messaging. Together we build a sturdier internal foundation rooted in self-worth, clarity, and confidence.
11 Years Experience
Online in Fairfax, CA (Online Only)
Dr. Ingrid Solano
Psychologist, PhD
I work with both adults and adolescents on an individual basis. Individual psychotherapy helps clients deal with particular issues, symptoms, and stressors. My goal is to provide a safe, non judgmental space for you to explore who you are, how you relate to others, and what supports you on your journey to become your best self. I lean into, listen, understand, and enhance authentic expression. Together we create a collaborative process of transformation. What that means and what that looks like is different for everyone...
I offer evidence-based therapies from a curious, nonjudgmental philosophy. No matter where you have been, evidence-based therapies focus on changing the now. I strive to help my clients experience the world mindfully, and in accordance with their personal values. Through our work in cultivating an affirming, authentic, and non-judgmental therapeutic relationship, I provide support while we collaboratively deconstruct what is causing distress in your life and preventing you from being your most effective and authentic self. Individual therapy facilitates insight and growth, becoming more effective at actualizing your values, and building more authentic relationships with yourself and with others.
While there are many forms of therapy you can pursue, my expertise is in time-limited, evidence-based Cognitive-Behavioral Therapies (CBT), the Unified Protocol for emotional disorders, and third wave CBT such as Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT) and Mindfulness based interventions. (I do have experience in, and practice, an eclectic arrangement of other modalities as well-- when applicable or specifically requested.) We explore thoughts, beliefs, and understanding, while also prioritizing behavioral processes that focus on your contexts and the functions of how you relate to your internal experiences. CBT is designed to help individuals notice and shift their thoughts, feelings, and behaviors in order to get relief from painful emotions such as anxiety and sadness.
Third wave interventions also promote well-being through developing coping skills, personal values, and metacognition that complement traditional CBT interventions. I provide flexible, customizable approaches that look different with each patient. I empower my clients to discover their strength, clarity, creativity, autonomy, resilience, motivation, and confidence in meeting whatever happens next. I provide individualized tools to use in everyday decision-making that will help those changes last. With these modalities I treat individuals who are impacted by depression, anxiety, life transitions, relationship distress, burnout, divorce, loss, uncertainty, stigma, and other life experiences, diagnoses, and stressors. We explore the sources, experiences, and beliefs that impact how you relate with the world and implement change in your life. You are the expert on you, but are you your most effective and content self?
15 Years Experience
Online in Fairfax, CA
Morgan Pemberton
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT, EMDR certified
Trauma can deeply affect how we see ourselves, leaving us feeling inadequate or unworthy. But healing is possible. At Full Brain Family Therapy, we help you rebuild self-esteem by addressing the root causes of your trauma and providing resourcing techniques to reconnect with your inner strength and resilience. Together, we’ll work to shift negative self-beliefs and empower you to embrace your true value.
11 Years Experience
Online in Fairfax, CA (Online Only)
A Place of Growth
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
If you are currently seeking therapy to work through your struggles with low self-esteem, we are here to help you. We can work together an implement coping skills and self-care in order to increase your self-esteem.
15 Years Experience
Online in Fairfax, CA
Janice Shapiro
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
Self-Esteem and confidence in ourselves is often lost early on and reinforced again and again along the journey of life. Some people who grew up without a father present or never knew their father often second-guess themselves. This happens because the Father's main role is building confidence in their children, while the mother's main role is nurturing their children. When children have both parents involved in their lives, they have more chance growing up as confident, productive adults.
14 Years Experience
Online in Fairfax, CA (Online Only)
Matthew Bishop
Marriage and Family Therapist, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Doctorate in Behavioral Health Leadership
A harsh inner critic can shape everything from relationships to career. Therapy helps clients notice where those critical voices come from and learn to respond differently, building confidence without slipping into arrogance.
10 Years Experience
Online in Fairfax, CA
LaTianna Williams, Therapy, Sexology, and Holistic Tantra
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT, CTRS, ABS
Self-Esteem & Confidence: When self-doubt becomes your inner voice, it can impact every area of your life. You may struggle with people pleasing, perfectionism, difficulty setting boundaries, comparing yourself to others, or feeling like you’re never quite enough despite your accomplishments.
I help clients identify the experiences and beliefs that have shaped their self-image and begin building a stronger foundation of self-worth. Through therapeutic insight, self-compassion practices, and practical strategies, you’ll learn how to challenge limiting beliefs and develop greater confidence in who you are.
The goal isn’t arrogance or perfection. It’s cultivating a deep sense of self-trust that allows you to show up authentically in your relationships, career, and personal life.
8 Years Experience
Online in Fairfax, CA (Online Only)
Christina Dee
Marriage and Family Therapist, M.A. LMFT
The inner critic is a common obstacle that most people face at some point in their meditation practice. When self-critical thought patterns creep into our mind, we can easily become consumed with feelings of shame that sometimes pushes us towards a relentless striving for self-improvement. As we loosen the grip of self-doubt through the cultivation of self-compassion, the voice of inner wisdom naturally emerges to take its place.
11 Years Experience
Online in Fairfax, CA
Louise Perry
Registered Psychotherapist, IFS UKCP HCCP BAAT
I work with adults who struggle with low self-esteem, including persistent self-doubt, harsh self-criticism, and a tendency to hold back in relationships or opportunities. Difficulties with self-esteem often develop over time in response to early experiences, expectations, and the roles people have learned to occupy.
My work draws on Integrative Art Psychotherapy and Internal Family Systems (IFS), offering ways to understand how these inner patterns are organised and what they may be protecting. Rather than trying to build confidence directly, the focus is on exploring how different parts relate to one another and how beliefs about self-worth have formed. Sessions may involve conversation, creative exploration, or a combination of both, depending on what feels most useful.
8 Years Experience
Online in Fairfax, CA
Lani Lee
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT, MBPT, CAPT
Supporting health self-esteem
18 Years Experience
Online in Fairfax, CA
Nikita Marina
Psychologist, Holistic Psychology and Coaching, Past Life Regression Therapy (IST), Spiritual Mentorship
Self-esteem stems from deep appreciation and acceptance of our personal worth and values. In the modern world, our perception and expectations of ourselves are heavily impacted by the distorted mirror of the social media. Even the most externally successful people can struggle from low self-esteem. If not addressed, it can potentially become a debilitating all consuming issue that spills out onto every aspect of one's life. The work on self-esteem is really the work on getting to know and accepting both the parts of us that we like and the aspects that we reject, also known as the Shadow.
13 Years Experience
Online in Fairfax, CA
Dr. M at Insight Thoughts Psychotherapy Services (ITPS) Inc
Licensed Professional Counselor, EdD, LPCC
Struggles with self-esteem can shape how you see yourself, your choices, and your relationships. I help clients examine these patterns and build a healthier sense of self.
7 Years Experience
Online in Fairfax, CA (Online Only)
Best Life Counseling Services
Counselor/Therapist, LPCC, LMFT, APCC
Low self-esteem can impact how you see yourself, your relationships, and the choices you make in life. Our therapists work with clients to explore the experiences and beliefs that may have shaped their self-perception. Together, we focus on building greater self-awareness, self-compassion, and confidence so clients can move forward with a stronger sense of personal worth and empowerment.
12 Years Experience
Online in Fairfax, CA
Oksana Pueschel
Marriage and Family Therapist, Grad Dip Family Counselling
Using verious counselling techniques and neurofeedback
19 Years Experience
Online in Fairfax, CA
Julie Levin
Marriage and Family Therapist, MFT
If you have a difficult family member who communicates with anger, contempt, criticism, blaming, or shaming, it can take a huge toll on your self-esteem - especially if you were emotionally abused in childhood. You may have learned to be hard on yourself in an effort to control your own behavior, hoping to avoid the worse pain of being bullied or hurt by a parent or sibling with mental health or addiction issues. Together, we can begin to invite a new inner voice to develop - one that is unfailingly kind, validating, and supportive. As you begin to treat yourself with the respect and care you always needed, something profound may happen. You may find that you really like the person within you who is always so warm and understanding. This is my definition of self-esteem - coming to genuinely like yourself because you treat yourself so well.
27 Years Experience
Online in Fairfax, CA (Online Only)
Iva Taylor Hypnosisbloom Hypnotherapy
Hypnotherapist, CHt. Certified Hypnotherapist, Life Coach
"Low self-esteem can hold you back from living your fullest life. I specialize in helping individuals cultivate unshakeable self-worth and confidence. Together, we'll uncover the root causes of self-doubt, challenge negative self-beliefs, and build a strong foundation of self-acceptance and inner strength. You'll learn practical tools to silence your inner critic and step into your power with courage and authenticity.
2 Years Experience
Online in Fairfax, CA (Online Only)
Amy Price, AMP Family Therapy Inc.
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
Our self-esteem, or our opinion of ourselves is greatly tied to our social status, our stress, and achievement. When we have the opportunity to assess where our self-esteem lies, we can improve it as well. I like to help my clients understand themselves, their value and their purpose, reduce stress, encourage healthy achievement and healthy lifestyle that will increase how we see ourselves.
23 Years Experience
Online in Fairfax, CA
Elaine Skoulas
Marriage and Family Therapist, M.A., LMFT
Struggles with self-esteem often develop from early experiences that shaped how you see yourself and what you believe you deserve. Together we explore the origins of self-criticism, perfectionism, and negative core beliefs. Using trauma-informed and somatic approaches, we work to quiet the inner critic and build a more grounded, stable sense of self-worth that is not dependent on constant achievement or approval.
8 Years Experience
Online in Fairfax, CA
Self Esteem therapists in Fairfax, California Statistics
Self Esteem therapists in Fairfax, California average 15 years of experience and charge around $205 per session. 100% offer online sessions. The most commonly treated issues are Self Esteem (100%), Anxiety or Fears (89%), and Stress (75%).
Average years in practice
15 Years Experience
Average cost per session
$205
Gender ID
| 71% |
Female |
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| 25% |
Male |
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| 2% |
Non-Binary |
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| 2% |
Gender Fluid |
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Session Type
| 59% |
In Person and Online |
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| 41% |
Online Only |
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Top Specialties
| 100% | Self Esteem |
| 89% | Anxiety or Fears |
| 75% | Stress |
| 74% | Depression |
| 71% | Trauma and PTSD |
| 58% | Loss or Grief |
| 57% | Relationship and Marriage Counseling |