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Online Perfectionism therapists in Orange, CA

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Lake Oswego, Oregon therapist: Dr. Michael Marossy, psychologist
Perfectionism

Dr. Michael Marossy

Psychologist, Ph.D.
Perfectionism often involves far more than simply having high standards. Many individuals struggling with perfectionism experience chronic self-criticism, fear of failure, anxiety, procrastination, emotional burnout, shame, difficulty relaxing, or a persistent feeling that they are never “good enough” regardless of achievement or external success. I help clients better understand the emotional and relational roots of perfectionistic patterns while developing greater self-compassion, psychological flexibility, and a healthier relationship with achievement, performance, and self-worth. Therapy focuses on reducing rigid thinking and chronic pressure while helping clients build more balanced, meaningful, and emotionally sustainable ways of living.  
8 Years Experience
Online in Orange, CA
Sacramento, California therapist: Sandy Kong, marriage and family therapist
Perfectionism

Sandy Kong

Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT 119380
Therapy for perfectionism focuses on reducing rigid, unrealistic standards, and alleviating associated anxiety, depression, or burnout. Perfectionism is seen as a trauma response. Trauma has shaped someone's life into believing that they have to be "perfect" in order to be "loveable" or "worthy". The most effective approach is generally learning how to identify and challenge distorted beliefs; changing your relationship with perfectionistic thoughts and focusing on values over flawlessness; exploring early life experiences and deep-rooted causes behind the need for control; develop mindfulness-based approaches to help manage anxiety by staying present, reducing the need for constant, perfect self-presentation; and cultivating kindness toward oneself, especially when facing imperfections or failures.  
11 Years Experience
Online in Orange, CA
Ventura, California therapist: Melanie Simms, marriage and family therapist
Perfectionism

Melanie Simms

Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
I believe that self-compassion is the antidote for perfectionism. I work with clients to heal from early traumatic experiences that may have led to the development of perfectionism as a coping mechanism. I help clients develop their overall feeling of self-worth and treat themselves with greater compassion to reduce perfectionistic tendencies.  
11 Years Experience
Online in Orange, CA
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San Diego, California therapist: Tara McGrath, marriage and family therapist
Perfectionism

Tara McGrath

Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
You may not identify as a "perfectionist" because you're not doing things perfectly. In reality, people who struggle with perfectionism feel like they're never performing well enough, and they can always find the flaws in everything they do. These tendencies can also with correlate with procrastination. I work with people to improve their self-compassion and self-worth to allow for excellence instead of unrealistic perfection.  
23 Years Experience
Online in Orange, CA
Redmond, Oregon therapist: Kristina Anzell, licensed clinical social worker
Perfectionism

Kristina Anzell

Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW, CPSC
You are used to putting in extra work to get it right. When you don't do something right the first time, you beat yourself up and then spend time learning, researching and then don't stop trying until you get it perfect. The issue... babies do not work that way. They are all different, they are not predictable and they are not able to be controlled. You are spending too much time and energy on something that is "supposed to come naturally" and it feels awful! Get the support you need!  
10 Years Experience
Online in Orange, CA
Oakland, California therapist: The Connection Clinic, marriage and family therapist
Perfectionism

The Connection Clinic

Marriage and Family Therapist
We assist individuals struggling with perfectionism by helping them cultivate self-compassion and realistic expectations. Our goal is to allow for healthier living and greater life satisfaction.  
9 Years Experience
Online in Orange, CA (Online Only)
Long Beach, California therapist: Freestyle Supervision and EMDR Group LLC, counselor/therapist
Perfectionism

Freestyle Supervision and EMDR Group LLC

Counselor/Therapist, LPCC-S, LEP, NCC, APCC, AMFT, ASW, NCC
Perfectionism is often a survival strategy used to feel safe or worthy. We help you peel back the layers of high-functioning anxiety to find a life based on "good enough" and genuine self-acceptance  
4 Years Experience
Online in Orange, CA
Yorba Linda, California therapist: New Beginnings Christian Counseling, marriage and family therapist
Perfectionism

New Beginnings Christian Counseling

Marriage and Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Perfectionism can feel like a constant pressure to perform, achieve, or appear “good enough,” often leaving you exhausted, anxious, or self-critical. It’s usually rooted in early experiences, fear of failure, or unmet expectations. In therapy, we explore the beliefs driving perfectionistic patterns, develop healthier self-compassion, and create practical strategies for balance and emotional freedom. With Christ-centered guidance, you’ll learn to embrace progress over perfection, honor your worth, and live with greater peace and authenticity.  
15 Years Experience
Online in Orange, CA
Sacramento, California therapist: Abigail (Abi) Zarate Ramsay, pre-licensed professional
Perfectionism

Abigail (Abi) Zarate Ramsay

Pre-Licensed Professional, Marriage and Family Therapist Trainee, Professional Clinical Counselor Trainee
I help clients struggling with perfectionism, self-criticism, and burnout learn to set kinder expectations, tolerate mistakes, and build a more flexible, values-based sense of success.  
0 Years Experience
Online in Orange, CA (Online Only)
Charlotte, North Carolina therapist: Wildflower Therapy Group, licensed clinical social worker
Perfectionism

Wildflower Therapy Group

Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW, C-IAYT
At Wildflower Therapy Group, we help clients explore perfectionism with compassion and curiosity. Therapy can support clients in understanding the deeper fears, pressure, or self-protective patterns behind perfectionism while building more self-compassion, flexibility, and a stronger sense of worth beyond performance.  
6 Years Experience
Online in Orange, CA
San Francisco, California therapist: Dr. Jag Soni, psychologist
Perfectionism

Dr. Jag Soni

Psychologist, Ph.D., HSPP, PCC, SPHR, SHRM-SCP
While the drive for excellence is often rewarded, the weight of Perfectionism and "never being enough" leads to burnout and paralysis. Drawing on 35 years of clinical experience, I help you shift from self-criticism to a resilient, high-functioning sense of self. We work to uncover the root of your perfectionistic standards and foster the internal changes needed to achieve your goals without sacrificing your mental well-being. In a private Telehealth setting, I provide a sophisticated space to help you trade the burden of perfection for an authentic and manageable life. Contact me to schedule your first appointment.  
36 Years Experience
Online in Orange, CA (Online Only)
Nashville, Tennessee therapist: Emily St. Amant, licensed professional counselor
Perfectionism

Emily St. Amant

Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC-MHSP-S (TN), LPCC (CA)
Perfectionism shows up in many of my clients for a variety of reasons, and I enjoy working with people as they embrace their real selves.  
18 Years Experience
Online in Orange, CA (Online Only)
Sacramento, California therapist: Michelle Roberts, licensed clinical social worker
Perfectionism

Michelle Roberts

Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW
It can feel like a treadmill that you can't slow down. Goal posts always moving. Let's unpack the origin story of this struggle and start making small shifts that honor your needs and boundaries.  
12 Years Experience
Online in Orange, CA (Online Only)
Valley Village, California therapist: Layla Ashley Psychotherapy, marriage and family therapist
Perfectionism

Layla Ashley Psychotherapy

Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
Perfectionism can create constant pressure to perform or appear flawless. In sessions, we explore how to shift rigid expectations, and cultivate a healthier relationship with achievement and self-worth.  
23 Years Experience
Online in Orange, CA
Raleigh, North Carolina therapist: Three Oaks Behavioral Health & Wellness, licensed clinical social worker
Perfectionism

Three Oaks Behavioral Health & Wellness

Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW, LCMHC, LCAS
Helping clients reduce rigid expectations and develop more flexible, self-compassionate thinking.  
7 Years Experience
Online in Orange, CA
Irvine, California therapist: Monica M. Huston, marriage and family therapist
Perfectionism

Monica M. Huston

Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
Perfectionism often develops as a way to manage anxiety, self-worth, and fear of failure. While it can lead to high achievement, it can also create pressure, rigidity, and dissatisfaction. I help individuals understand the underlying drivers of perfectionism and develop more flexible, balanced ways of approaching themselves and their work.  
9 Years Experience
Online in Orange, CA
Valencia, California therapist: Elizabeth Nims, marriage and family therapist
Perfectionism

Elizabeth Nims

Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist
For those experiencing perfectionism, I can help you understand the origins of this belief and give skills to shift to seeking excellence over perfectionism and understanding your innate worth.  
7 Years Experience
Online in Orange, CA
San Francisco, California therapist: Sarah Jane Thomas, marriage and family therapist
Perfectionism

Sarah Jane Thomas

Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
Perfectionism keeps you stuck in all-or-nothing thinking, where everything has to be perfect or it feels like a total failure. This mindset makes it really hard to exist in the grey area where life actually happens. We will explore where those rigid standards came from and practice getting comfortable with the messiness of being human instead of striving for unattainable perfection. Our work is about reminding you that you matter even when you are not producing, achieving, or grinding your way through the day.  
11 Years Experience
Online in Orange, CA (Online Only)
San Diego, California therapist: Amy @ Inner Nature Therapy, licensed clinical social worker
Perfectionism

Amy @ Inner Nature Therapy

Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW, PMH-C
Perfectionism is the thief of joy! As a recovering perfectionist myself, I will be kind but honest with you when I notice perfectionism creeping in to your thinking and self-image. By gently rooting it out, I can support you towards accepting things as they are while remaining confident in yourself and motivated to make positive changes.  
13 Years Experience
Online in Orange, CA (Online Only)
West Linn, Oregon therapist: Rose Snyder, EdM, PsyD, LLC, psychologist
Perfectionism

Rose Snyder, EdM, PsyD, LLC

Psychologist, PsyD
I generally view myself as a "recovering perfectionist" and would be happy to support you in your journey with this as well! I find that empathy and validation go a long way with this, as well as a focus on radical self-acceptance and self-compassion. We may work on direct coping skills, adjusting your internal self-dialogue, and developing mindful self-compassion skills in a more formalized way as needed. I strive for all of my clients to accept themselves as "perfectly imperfect humans," as we all are.  
23 Years Experience
Online in Orange, CA

Perfectionism therapists in Orange, California Statistics

Perfectionism therapists in Orange, California average 13 years of experience and charge around $203 per session. 100% offer online sessions. The most commonly treated issues are Perfectionism (100%), Trauma and PTSD (83%), and Anxiety or Fears (80%).

Average years in practice

13 Years Experience

Average cost per session

$203

Gender ID

71% Female
15% Male
7% Non-Binary
7% Gender Fluid

Session Type

55% In Person and Online
45% Online Only

Top Specialties

100% Perfectionism
83% Trauma and PTSD
80% Anxiety or Fears
78% Life Transitions
75% Stress
70% Depression
65% Self Esteem

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