Online Self Esteem therapists in California
We are proud to feature top rated online Self Esteem therapists in California. We encourage you to review each profile to find your best match.
Victoria Miller
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW
With low self-esteem you may often feel shame and self-doubt. Here are some warning signs that may indicate that it's time to seek help in the form of talk therapy:
- You frequently feel overwhelmed, angry, ignored and/or taken advantage of in relationships
- You experience frequent and sudden mood swings
- You frequently have difficulty beginning, completing and/or accomplishing tasks (at work, school, personal or otherwise)
- You frequently feel alone and at a loss as to how to help yourself
- You're constantly trying to “fix,” “do” or “say” the right thing to get people to like you, or agree with you
By using psychodynamic and cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) I can help you: 1) Identify and understand the source(s) of low self-esteem, 2) Process past negative experiences in a safe, nurturing space, 3) Learn to recognize critical voices that are not your own, 4) Notice “all or nothing” thinking patterns. I can help you learn to use your voice effectively, help you identify what you want and need, recognize unhealthy thought patterns, and make small changes in your day to day life that will add up to big changes in your overall happiness and contentment in life.
20 Years Experience
In-Person in Walnut Creek, CA 94598
Online in California, Oregon
Tanya Samuelian
Marriage and Family Therapist, M.S., Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist
Even with external success, many high-achieving individuals struggle with an inner critic that diminishes self-worth and fuels perfectionism. I help you uncover and reframe negative self-beliefs, fostering genuine self-esteem and inner confidence. Together, we’ll build a resilient sense of worth that aligns with the strength and success you already possess.
11 Years Experience
Charis Khoury
Marriage and Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
The most rewarding relationship to develop is that with yourself because it affects all areas of life- in a loving environment, we see what gets in the way and (re)discover our inherent worth.
16 Years Experience
In-Person in Oakland, CA 94618
Online in California
Lisa Abrams-Misbeek
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
In therapy, we will challenge your negative thoughts and build a stronger sense of self-worth. Cognitive-Behavioral therapy is a great technique to help you build up your self-worth.
15 Years Experience
Online in California
(Online Only)
Dr. Joshua A. Goldstein
Psychologist, Psy.D.
You want to feel good about yourself, but instead that critic inside your head has a louder voice. Together we can discover why it's so loud and how to replace it.
12 Years Experience
In-Person in Beverly Hills, CA 90212
Online in California
Stuart Kaplowitz / Serene Pathways Counseling
Counselor/Therapist, MFT
Caring for ourselves and our needs is a priority, yet sometimes overlooked as part of our self-esteem
33 Years Experience
In-Person in Chino, CA 91710
Online in California
Wildflower Therapy Group
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW, C-IAYT
Wildflower Therapy Group supports clients in building self-esteem through a compassionate, holistic approach. Our therapists help clients explore the experiences and beliefs that may have shaped how they see themselves, while supporting greater confidence, self-trust, emotional safety, and connection to their authentic selves.
6 Years Experience
In-Person in Charlotte, NC 28226
Online in Multiple States
California, New Mexico, New York, North Carolina
Stephanie Brumfield
Therapist, LCSW
In addressing the complex issue of self-esteem in my practice, I delve deep into the root causes that underpin feelings of low self-worth, focusing on individuals who, due to their empathetic nature, high sensitivity, or autism, experience the world with intense emotional depth. These unique traits, while profound gifts, can also lead to overwhelming self-criticism, anxiety, and shame, often stemming from an acute awareness of others' emotions and judgments. This heightened sensitivity can culminate in challenges such as difficulty setting boundaries, a propensity towards people-pleasing, and perfectionism, all of which can erode self-esteem and contribute to a sense of burnout and disconnection from one's true self.
My therapeutic approach is grounded in the understanding that low self-esteem often arises from these deep-seated patterns of thinking and interacting with the world. By exploring the origins of these feelings—whether they're rooted in childhood experiences, societal expectations, or the intrinsic challenges of navigating life with heightened sensitivity—we embark on a journey of healing and transformation. This process is focused on uncovering and addressing the underlying causes of low self-esteem, moving beyond surface-level solutions to foster lasting change.
Together, we work to develop healthier boundaries, reduce self-criticism, and embrace authenticity, empowering individuals to reclaim their self-worth independently of external validation. The goal is to help those I work with to confidently shine their light, building connections that honor their authentic selves, and to discover a sense of self that is free from overwhelm and self-doubt. This depth-oriented, root cause approach to therapy is about nurturing a strong, resilient sense of self-esteem that supports a life of fulfillment, confidence, and genuine connection, celebrating the unique gifts of sensitivity and empathy as sources of strength and connection.
8 Years Experience
Online in California
(Online Only)
Emily Echeverria
Marriage and Family Therapist, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, MS
Most of us learn at some point in our lives that there are pieces of us that will be accepted and pieces that will not. When we struggle to feel accepted and loved for who we are, we often develop low self-esteem that presents in a number of ways, including depression, anxiety, and relationship dysfunction. I work with clients to decrease shame and increase self-love. I utilize a number of techniques to do this but especially love inner child meditations and reparenting. Please reach out to me if you'd like to learn more!
6 Years Experience
Layla Ashley Psychotherapy
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
Low self-esteem can influence how you view yourself and how you show up in relationships. Therapy supports the development of self-respect, confidence, and a more compassionate inner voice.
23 Years Experience
In-Person in Valley Village, CA 91607
Online in California, Florida, Oregon
Scheyden Herold
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT #137593, MS
Self-Esteem is such a difficult thing to work on for people. We are always our own worst critics. We tell ourselves so many negative things about ourselves if we have low self-esteem. It affects our relationships with others. It is important to recognize the value in improving your self-esteem and I can assist you in that process. It is not about saying phony things, it's about understanding the core issues that contribute to your low self-esteem. From there, we can build your self-esteem from the ground up.
7 Years Experience
Hannah Nyznyk Christian
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT #133278
We support clients in rebuilding confidence and a healthier relationship with themselves. Therapy focuses on reducing self-criticism and strengthening self-worth.
7 Years Experience
In-Person in Encinitas, CA 92007
Online in California, Oregon
Julien Moe
Hypnotherapist, Diploma in Clinical and Applied Hypnosis, Diploma in Life Coaching
Self-confidence is an indispensable trait we all need not only to live a normal life but also to achieve our goals no matter what they are. I will help you train yourself to achieve high self-esteem. I will help you transform yourself into a self-confident person who can accomplish your academic, relationship or professional goals. Seeing is believing. Let's get it started. I use only Dicit hypnotherapy.
10 Years Experience
In-Person in Queens, NY 11374
Online in Multiple States
Alabama, Alaska, Arizona, Arkansas, California, Colorado, Connecticut, Delaware, Florida, Georgia, Hawaii, Idaho, Illinois, Indiana, Iowa, Kansas, Kentucky, Louisiana, Maine, Maryland, Massachusetts, Michigan, Minnesota, Mississippi, Missouri, Montana, Nebraska, Nevada, New Hampshire, New Jersey, New Mexico, New York, North Carolina, North Dakota, Northern Mariana Islands, Ohio, Oklahoma, Oregon, Pennsylvania, Rhode Island, South Carolina, South Dakota, Tennessee, Texas, Utah, Vermont, Virginia, Washington, Washington, D.C., West Virginia, Wisconsin, Wyoming
Hilary Stokes
Therapist, PHD, LCSW
Self esteem comes from our beliefs about ourselves which are often deeply rooted in past experiences. Accessing and changing these beliefs requires going beyond practicing affirmations and talking about how we feel. We have to access our subconscious beliefs, address where they came from and change them. I have found a mind body approach using EMDR, brainspotting and somatic therapy are highly effective at doing just that.
25 Years Experience
Online in California
(Online Only)
Nes Pinar Psychotherapy
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
I help people struggling with low self‑esteem reconnect with their strengths, inner voice, and sense of worth. Together, we explore the experiences and messages that shaped how you see yourself and gently build a more grounded, compassionate self‑relationship. My approach is steady, relational, and empowering—supporting you as you grow more confident, capable, and at home in who you are.
15 Years Experience
In-Person in Lafayette, CA 94549
Online in California
Saralee Kramer Counseling
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
Self esteem is a term often tossed around, but what does it mean? It's learning to take excellent care of ourselves physically, mentally, emotionally and spiritually so we can share with our friends and family from our overflow, instead of being selfish and needy. It's the job of adults to take care of ourselves first, so we can take care of others. Sometimes people were raised in families that were very stressed and their was trauma that got in the way of this learning. That's ok. I can help. Learning how to take care of your adult self isn't that difficult and doesn't take much time. Then you just practice and grow.
26 Years Experience
Online in California
(Online Only)
Brooke Taylor
Pre-Licensed Professional, MA, AMFT
Struggling with low self-esteem can make you feel unworthy, insecure, and disconnected from your true potential. If you're constantly doubting your value or comparing yourself to others, it can be hard to break free from the cycle of self-criticism. In our work together, I’ll help you explore the root causes of your low self-esteem, challenge negative beliefs, and develop a more compassionate, empowered relationship with yourself. Through support and practical tools, you’ll learn how to embrace your strengths, set healthy boundaries, and cultivate the confidence you deserve. You are worthy of love, respect, and success, and I’m here to guide you on your journey toward self-acceptance.
5 Years Experience
Online in California
(Online Only)
Samer Fawaz
Marriage and Family Therapist, M.A., LMFT #149147
I deeply believe that self-esteem and gaining a sense of self-worth are key components to one’s emotional growth. The more confident we feel in our body, mind and spirit the more we can evolve into the best version of ourselves. I am committed to helping you gain a better understanding of yourself while also working with you to be more comfortable with yourself.
6 Years Experience
Alejandra Kenia Ipina
Marriage and Family Therapist, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist
Chances are you may be feeling low about possibly believe that you are not enough. Often women learn from family, culture, or other spaces messages that are not theirs. You may criticizing yourself without noticing whether it was judgment from the family, your parents, or other people of authority that it now feels like your voice. Somatic therapy can help explore the reality of this belief to reconnect you with your internal voice.
9 Years Experience
In-Person in La Habra, CA 90631
Online in California
Patricia Fahmy
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPCC
The way you see yourself can have a powerful impact on your relationships. When self-worth has been shaped by criticism, rejection, inconsistency, trauma, or difficult relationship experiences, it can become harder to trust yourself, express your needs, set boundaries, or feel secure in your connections with others. You may find yourself people-pleasing, seeking validation, staying in unhealthy relationships, questioning your worth, or feeling like you are never quite enough. I help you understand the experiences that shaped these patterns, develop a stronger sense of self, and build healthier relationships rooted in authenticity, self-respect, and connection.
7 Years Experience
Online in Arizona, California
(Online Only)