Online Relationship and Marriage Counselling in Merstham, England ENG, United Kingdom UK
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Mariana Amat
Psychologist
In my work with couples, I focus on helping partners understand the emotional patterns that keep them disconnected. Through Emotionally Focused Therapy as well as a psychoanalytical perspective, we build safety, strengthen communication, and deepen intimacy, allowing each partner to feel seen, valued, and emotionally understood.
11 Years Experience
Online in Merstham, ENG
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Jonathan Livingstone Therapy & Coaching
Psychologist, MSc, MA, PGCE, GMBPsS
If your relationship is in crisis, you need help to communicate in a way that doesn't generate defensiveness. If one partner believes that he or she is right and the other wrong, or that one person is to blame for what has happened, then your relationship is in crisis. I will help you to communicate in a way that makes it likely that your partner will want to help you to get your needs met, rather than respond defensively. Couples who have been together for a certain period of time often develop resentments towards each other. In addition to helping you both to communicate effectively, I will help you and your partner to let go of past resentments (using relearning therapy, which may be the only therapy that is able to achieve this).
28 Years Experience
Online in Merstham, ENG
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Dr. Birte Nachtwey
Registered Psychotherapist, MD, CORST
Relationship problems, whatever their nature, can really burden your everyday life. Most of us seek some kind of bond to other people, want to love and be loved and valued and find a sense of security and comfort in reliable relationships. But what about freedom and autonomy? If there are other needs and wants that feel urgent and important? What to do if the partners wants and needs are really different and there is lots of frustration? Subjects are plentiful: sex, emotional neglect, money, children, family in law, household just to name a few. If you are at a point where you feel stuck and unhappy and don’t see a way out, couple counseling can help you to sort things and find possible solutions. Work on it the sooner the better. Don‘t wait till it blows up in some way. There are often children involved and they don’t deserve years of open or hidden hostility at home. Contact me today and make a move.
19 Years Experience
Online in Merstham, ENG
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Benjamin Marr
Counsellor/Therapist, BA MA Relational Psychotherapist/ Birkbeck College - Psychodynamic Counsellor
I use my relational psychotherapy background to counsel couples and relationships in general and have created a comfortable and safe environment for couples and individuals to discuss, explore and contribute to finding possible ways of overcoming relationship issues. Healthy human relationships are a vital part of day-to-day life and can be very fulfilling when these are close, loving ones. In current times, the maintenance of such positive relationships can be problematic, given the normal social demands that are placed on everyone.
My relational psychotherapy is used to identify the probable issues in a relationship between two clients, including any evident, or supposed, causes of any deficiencies in that relationship. Difficulties with relationships may have their origins in such examples as problematic responses from one party, attachment issues, or some form of perceived hindrance by one party to creating a supportive background to future relationship developments amongst their social circles. Equally, my relational psychotherapy has borne successes when it comes to such facets as overcoming relational discordance and even conflicts.
In all instances, I carry out my psychotherapy sessions in a professional and respectful manner, with the utmost stress on the client’s confidentiality and privacy.
35 Years Experience
Online in Merstham, ENG
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Jimi Katsis
Registered Psychotherapist, MA psych, Dip SW
Relationship and Marriage Guidance:
Relationships fail for predictable reasons. Poor communication, unmet needs, resentment that builds over years—but underneath that, there's usually something deeper. Patterns you both brought into the relationship that are now colliding.
Maybe you're repeating what you saw growing up. Maybe you shut down when things get intense, or you push when your partner pulls away. These aren't character flaws—they're survival patterns that made sense once but don't work now.
I work with couples to understand what's actually happening underneath the fights about dishes or money or sex. What are you each protecting? What do you each need that you're not getting? And more importantly—can you actually give each other what's needed, or are you fundamentally mismatched?
Sometimes the work is about saving the relationship. Sometimes it's about understanding why it can't work so you can both move forward with clarity instead of bitterness. Either way, we're after the truth, not false hope.
I also work with individuals on relationship patterns—why you keep choosing the same type of person, why intimacy feels dangerous, why you sabotage good things. Understanding your patterns means you can actually change them.
27 Years Experience
Online in Merstham, ENG (Online Only)
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Nicole Rolls
Counsellor/Therapist, PG Dip, MA, BACP Accred, EMDR Accred, 20 years experience as a Therapist
As human beings we need connections in our lives and we are also individuals with different characteristics and personalities. We also carry the blueprint of our upbringing and childhood circumstances. We will explore your attachment styles and what is happening in your particular circumstances. We will do our best to find a way for you to find greater harmony and joy together, when the relationship can allow this to happen.
21 Years Experience
Online in Merstham, ENG
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Neil Coburn Relationship Therapy and Counselling
Registered Psychotherapist, BA (Hons), MA (Tavi Rels), MBACP (Accred)
This is my main specialism, whether you are a couple or individual. My training is to MA level at one of the world's leading institutions for couple (and individual) therapy training. I am one of few men in the field.
11 Years Experience
Online in Merstham, ENG
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Julia Libertad
Counsellor/Therapist, Psicopedagogía- Sex Education.
Relationship and marriage counseling is a core area of my practice, grounded in my postgraduate training in Couples Therapy, attachment theory, and the Gottman Method. I work with couples navigating communication breakdowns, trust issues, codependency patterns, and shifts in intimacy or sexual connection, helping them build a stronger, more secure bond. My approach also integrates a sex-positive, kink-affirmative, and non-monogamy-aware perspective, so couples exploring non-traditional relationship structures or sexual dynamics can find support without judgment. I work with couples of all genders, orientations, and relationship configurations, always from a rights-based and inclusive framework.
11 Years Experience
Online in Merstham, ENG (Online Only)
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Mandy Randall-Gavin MBACP, UKATA
Counsellor/Therapist, BA Hons, Dip TA Prac: UKATA
We all want to feel secure, happy and connected in our couple relationship - this is crucial to our emotional wellbeing. When these comforting feelings have often been replaced with pain, conflict and a sense of isolation, it may be time to draw on some professional help. I can provide a safe and supportive space to think about and explore the roots of this disconnection. It isn't about apportioning blame, I will help both parties reconnect emotionally – to listen to your partner differently, and learn to communicate more effectively, whether you want to stay together or choose to separate.
14 Years Experience
Online in Merstham, ENG
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Dr. Stéphanie Gamache, PhD
Hypnotherapist, PhD
Relationship and marriage counseling addresses patterns of connection, conflict, intimacy, and emotional closeness between partners. My work integrates psychoanalytic and relational approaches to explore how early attachment patterns shape adult partnerships. Together, couples develop deeper understanding, communication, and emotional presence with one another.
7 Years Experience
Online in Merstham, ENG (Online Only)
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Dipak Jilka - Psychotherapist & Counsellor
Therapist, Psychotherapy & Counselling Federation of Australia (PACFA) – PACFA Reg. Clinical 26570
Relationships are an important part of living a fulfilled and complete life. I work with couples on numerous presenting challenges, including: communication, parenting, differing sexual desire and the effects of porn & substance on the relationship. I am trained in PACT (Psychosocial Approach to Couples Therapy) couples therapy and I combine this with my humanistic stance to therapy. The therapy you will experience is a balance between a focus on the relationship and each person as an individual. I invite you to call me to discuss your needs for couples therapy.
If you are planning on getting married, I offer a bespoke approach for you to explore all aspects of your relationship before getting married. This includes, life goals & hopes, finance, parenting, careers, relationships with family and friends, and perspectives on sex & intimacy.
6 Years Experience
Online in Merstham, ENG
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Vicky Mould
Counsellor/Therapist, Accredited Professional Registrant (PNCPS Acc.)
Relationship issues can leave you feeling lonely, confused, hurt, and unable to be yourself with others. But I can be of support. I can work with you in a safe, trusting and supportive way. We can work together to help you gain further insights about your relationships, develop your relationship with yourself and healthier or more fulfilling relationships with others. You're welcome to get in touch with any questions or to book a consultation to explore if I'm the right counsellor for you.
15 Years Experience
Online in Merstham, ENG (Online Only)
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Karine Flynn
Psychologist, MSc, GMBPS
The patterns that show up most clearly in relationships - the people-pleasing, the shutdown when someone gets close, the pull toward dynamics that confirm old fears - are rarely about choice. They're the nervous system doing what it learned to do to stay safe. Working somatically with relationship patterns means addressing them at the level where they actually operate, rather than trying to think or resolve your way out of responses that were never cognitive to begin with.
23 Years Experience
Online in Merstham, ENG
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Sara Aicart-Pendlebury
Art Therapist, Human Givens Practitioner (HG.Dip.P), Member of Human Givens Institute, IFS therapist Levels 1&2, Narm Practitioner
I have worked with many couples to help resolve problems and work towards a framework of getting needs met, and lowering the emotional temperature, allowing both to overcome challenges together, and grow.
17 Years Experience
Online in Merstham, ENG
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Lisa Hawkins-Jack
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW, LMSW
I honestly believe that even the best couples occasionally need to partake in relationship counseling, our partner is the one person that we take everything out on good and bad, and almost every couple that I have counseled, each individual feels like they’re doing 90% of the daily work in the household. It can be a wonderful gift for both of you to be able to talk to someone who can objectively see how both of you can unite and be stronger than you were before.
31 Years Experience
Online in Merstham, ENG
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Dr George Booty. The PsychoTRAUMA Clinic (Convergence College of Psychotherapy)
Registered Psychotherapist, Dr, DPsych, MA Couns, MA Psych, PG Dip Spvn
I do a great deal of couples counselling and help people to; reconcile, separate, divorce, fight (nicely) argue,confront, make up, deal with children, learn to deal with their families and inlaws. I also show couples their differences and how to live together in relative harmony once they know the rules of engagement and how the opposite sex brain functions by comparison. Many things they have not known or been told previously. Things that would help them to overcome their issues together. I have a great deal of success in this area. I believe that if I write a book now on this particular subject would certainly enhance my library as an author as I am informed it will help coples a lot.
31 Years Experience
Online in Merstham, ENG
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James Skinner - YouBeYou Therapy
Counsellor/Therapist, Psychotherapist, PACFA, NLP Practitioner
Relationships can be tough, even when there’s love. Whether you're struggling with communication, trust, or feeling disconnected, we’ll uncover the deeper patterns at play and create space for real understanding and change. This isn’t about blaming or fixing, it’s about learning, growing, and building a relationship that truly works for you. If you're ready to shift old dynamics and reconnect, let’s talk.
6 Years Experience
Online in Merstham, ENG (Online Only)
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Jessica Ryan-Zeman
Registered Psychotherapist, MCAP, BA (Psych)
I work with couples that are wanting support with the challenges within their relaionship whether these may be around communication, conflict management, parenting, intimacy, sex or infidelity.
16 Years Experience
Online in Merstham, ENG
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Liz Witzke
Registered Psychotherapist, RPQ, BA, LLB, CSAT, CPTT
I am trained in Partner and Betrayal Trauma Therapy and have experience supporting both partners who've been hurt by betrayal and individuals struggling with compulsive sexual behaviors. My goal is to create a safe, nonjudgmental space where healing, accountability, and lasting change can begin.
19 Years Experience
Online in Merstham, ENG
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Beth Jackson Counselling and Coaching
Counsellor/Therapist, BA (hons), Diploma in Therapeutic Counselling
This is an area I specialise in and I have worked with couples throughout the UK and even across the world. Often communication has broken down and we find ourselves repeating destructive habits. Added to this, everyone may seem to have the perfect relationship - FaceBook lives can be deceptive. If you have chosen to separate, I can help you navigate this. If you want to make changes and improve your relationship, we can definitely do this together. Clients I have worked with have seen their relationship change drastically. It is possible to move on from the past and make your relationship the happiest and strongest that it has ever been.
7 Years Experience
Online in Merstham, ENG
Relationship and Marriage Counseling therapists in Merstham, England, United Kingdom Statistics
Relationship and Marriage Counseling therapists in Merstham, England, United Kingdom average 17 years of experience and charge around ¤136 per session. 100% offer online sessions. The most commonly treated issues are Relationship and Marriage Counseling (100%), Depression (75%), and Anxiety or Fears (75%).
Average years in practice
17 Years Experience
Average cost per session
¤136
Gender ID
| 71% |
Female |
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| 29% |
Male |
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Session Type
| 69% |
In Person and Online |
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| 31% |
Online Only |
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Top Specialties
| 100% | Relationship and Marriage Counseling |
| 75% | Depression |
| 75% | Anxiety or Fears |
| 69% | Self Esteem |
| 65% | Stress |
| 60% | Trauma and PTSD |
| 58% | Divorce |