Online Self Esteem therapists in Oakdale, Minnesota MN
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Emily Rowe
Psychologist, Psy.D.
If low self-esteem is holding you back, I’m here to help you rebuild your confidence. I work with clients to identify the patterns of thinking that contribute to feelings of inadequacy or self-doubt. Through therapies like CBT and ACT, we’ll focus on developing self-compassion, challenging negative beliefs, and fostering a stronger, more positive sense of self. Together, we’ll work on helping you feel more confident and empowered in your life.
7 Years Experience
Online in Oakdale, MN
Omni Mental Health, Inc.
Counselor/Therapist, LMFT, LPCC, LICSW, DBT IOP
Building and maintaining healthy self-esteem is key to overall wellbeing and fulfilling relationships. At Omni Mental Health, we provide compassionate therapy designed to help you recognize your strengths, challenge negative self-talk, and develop greater self-compassion. Our therapists work with you to uncover the root causes of low self-esteem and equip you with practical tools to boost confidence, resilience, and a positive self-image. We’re here to support your journey toward embracing your worth and living authentically.
12 Years Experience
Online in Oakdale, MN
Embodied Counseling
Counselor/Therapist, MA, LPCC, CIEC, CCTP
Do you wonder if your confident or egotistical? That's normal! My view is that self - esteem is connected to a secure connection with yourself. I enjoy helping folks navigate who to strengthen their connection to self in mind, body, and emotion.
3 Years Experience
Online in Oakdale, MN (Online Only)
GRIS ALVES
Counselor/Therapist, Compassionate Inquiry, Trauma Informed Mindfulness Teacher
I help clients build self-esteem through a compassionate, trauma-informed approach, exploring patterns of self-doubt, shame, and self-criticism. Together, we strengthen self-awareness, self-compassion, and healthy boundaries, supporting a more confident and authentic relationship with yourself.
11 Years Experience
Online in Oakdale, MN
Brent Peak
Counselor/Therapist, LPC
Self-esteem isn’t just about confidence—it’s about how you see yourself at your core. If you grew up in an environment where love felt conditional, criticism was constant, or your emotions weren’t valued, you may have learned to question your worth. Maybe you tell yourself you’re not good enough, push yourself to exhaustion to prove your value, or shrink in relationships to avoid rejection. Deep down, you might struggle with shame—the belief that something is fundamentally wrong with you. Even when you achieve success or receive love, it can feel like an accident, as if people will see the “real you” and realize you’re not enough. This isn’t just insecurity—it’s the result of old emotional wounds that need healing.
Post-Induction Therapy (PIT) helps break the cycle of shame and rebuild self-worth from the inside out. Developed by Pia Mellody, PIT addresses the deep emotional wounds from childhood that shape how you see yourself today. In therapy, we work to identify and heal the toxic messages you internalized, so you can stop defining yourself by past experiences and start believing in your inherent worth. You don’t have to keep proving yourself, people-pleasing, or battling the fear that you’re not enough. Therapy helps you release shame, reclaim your self-esteem, and finally feel comfortable in your own skin—not because you’ve earned it, but because you’ve always been worthy.
11 Years Experience
Online in Oakdale, MN
Be BOLD Psychology and Consulting
Psychologist, Ph.D
If your inner critic has been running the show, we’ll help you turn down the volume. We support clients in building self-trust, confidence, and a sense of worth that isn’t tied to performance, productivity, or perfection. You deserve to feel good about who you are — not just for what you do.
8 Years Experience
Online in Oakdale, MN
Rachel J Fischer
Psychologist, Psy.D.
Using an insight-oriented ("psychodynamic") and relational approach, I help clients develop a deeper understanding of themselves, their relationships, and the underlying factors that contribute to their challenges. In my therapy sessions, I am committed to creating a warm and supportive environment where you can feel safe to explore your thoughts, feelings, and experiences. With patience and careful listening, I will offer insights and guidance in a thoughtful, gentle, and non-judgmental manner. Together, we will navigate your challenges, uncover patterns, and explore your own inner resources for resilience and growth, allowing you to embrace a more authentic, confident, and fulfilling life.
15 Years Experience
Online in Oakdale, MN
Emily Blitz
Psychologist, PsyD
Self-esteem struggles can be painful to live with, but they often carry important information about how you’ve learned to see yourself in relationships and the world. In our work together, we focus on building a steadier sense of internal safety while also exploring what your self-doubt may be responding to—especially in relation to early experiences, major life transitions, or recurring patterns in close relationships. Approached with curiosity and care, difficulties with self-esteem can become a pathway toward greater self-understanding, self-compassion, and a more grounded sense of worth.
12 Years Experience
Online in Oakdale, MN (Online Only)
Sumer Statler Aeed
Psychologist, Licensed Psychologist
Of all the relationships we shall share throughout our lives our relationship with out true selves is the foundation and root from which all the others grow. My passion is to help you find a strong loving honest relationship with your true self and all it's parts that allows you to build, connect and thrive in all of your external relationships. This is an inside out, bottom up process of integration that introduces you to all that you are and all that you were meant to be, making peace with shadow parts as well as allowing powerful parts of you that never got to come forward. It is a messy, wonderful, and life changing journey to find our way back to ourselves.
27 Years Experience
Online in Oakdale, MN (Online Only)
Know Thyself Healing & Therapy
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LICSW, LPCC, LGSW
Self-esteem affects how you view yourself and your worth. Our therapy helps you challenge negative beliefs, build confidence, and develop a stronger, more positive sense of self.
28 Years Experience
Online in Oakdale, MN
Dr. Megie Shean
Psychologist, PsyD
Childhood experiences, previous relationships, and trauma can impact how we see ourselves in the world. I can support you to increase your awareness of yourself and build more adaptive responses.
7 Years Experience
Online in Oakdale, MN (Online Only)
Kreins Psychological Services
Psychologist, PhD, PsyD
As a psychologist specializing in self-esteem, my approach to therapy is focused on fostering a sense of worth, confidence, and self-compassion in individuals. Through evidence-based interventions such as cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT), narrative therapy, and strengths-based approaches, I help clients identify and challenge negative self-beliefs while building on their strengths and achievements. By exploring past experiences, societal influences, and interpersonal dynamics, we work collaboratively to address underlying factors contributing to low self-esteem. Additionally, I teach practical techniques for assertive communication, setting boundaries, and practicing self-care to promote self-empowerment and resilience. My goal is to support individuals in developing a more positive self-concept, enhancing their overall well-being, and navigating life with greater confidence and authenticity.
26 Years Experience
Online in Oakdale, MN
Dr. Elizabeth Coldren
Psychologist, PSYD, PSYPACT
I work with people who appear capable and put together but carry a quiet, persistent sense of not being enough. This can look like self‑criticism, difficulty trusting your own judgment, comparing yourself to others, downplaying your own needs or accomplishments, or feeling like you are always falling short of who you are supposed to be. Many of the adults I see have spent years meeting expectations, supporting others, or performing well in work or school while privately feeling inadequate, invisible, or unsure of their worth.
Low self‑esteem often develops in environments where your needs were minimized, where you were praised for being responsible or easy, or where you learned to stay small to avoid conflict or disappointment. Over time, these patterns can shape how you see yourself, how you move through relationships, and what you believe you are allowed to want.
In our work together, we explore the origins of these beliefs and how they show up in your body, emotions, and daily life. We look at the roles you have carried, the expectations you have internalized, and the parts of you that are tired of feeling not enough. The goal is not to create artificial confidence but to help you develop a more grounded, accurate sense of yourself so you can move through your life with more clarity, self‑respect, and choice. Supporting people who have learned to minimize themselves or feel “not enough” is central to my practice, and I have deep respect for how hard you’ve worked to hold things together.
26 Years Experience
Online in Oakdale, MN
Jennifer Masters
Life Coach, Ba Psychology, CF Thanatology, D Kessler – Grief Grief Coach Certif,M Devine – Grief Coach Certif
Grief can deeply affect self-esteem, especially when a griever begins questioning who they were to the person who died. Many people blame themselves after a death and wonder if they loved enough, visited enough, said enough, noticed enough, or should have done something differently. Caregivers may carry an even heavier burden, believing they should have been able to save the person they loved.
I support adults through the guilt, regret, self-blame, and painful questions that can follow a loss. I acknowledge these thoughts and feelings by explaining that they make sense, that many grievers experience them, and that they are not proof of failure or a lack of love. I also provide plain-language grief education and practical tools to help clients manage these thoughts when they are triggered, so they can respond to themselves with more understanding instead of self-punishment.
6 Years Experience
Online in Oakdale, MN (Online Only)
Bold Expressions Therapy
Psychologist, Psy.D.
Self-esteem is something everyone struggles with from time to time. My belief is that it comes from childhood messages from both environmental and caregiving factors. I am positive that through talking and working through these factors that patients can find relief and new perspectives on their self-esteem and self-worth
6 Years Experience
Online in Oakdale, MN
Jacqueline Elster
Psychologist, PsyD, HSPP, LP
Systems of oppression impact self-esteem by perpetuating discrimination, marginalization, and negative stereotypes that devalue us based on race, gender, sexual orientation, socioeconomic status or other identities. These oppressive systems can lead to internalized negative beliefs, chronic stress and diminished self-worth as we constantly face societal messages that undermine their value and abilities. This ongoing marginalization and exclusion contribute to feelings of inferiority, powerlessness and self-doubt, significantly harming self-esteem and overall mental health. My approach to therapy actively works to reduce sexism, racism, classism, ableism, weightism and other exclusionary classes by helping you understand how you have been impacted by these systems and deconstructing the beliefs youhold that perpetuate these exclusionary institutions.
16 Years Experience
Online in Oakdale, MN (Online Only)
Phillip Thomas Stepka, PsyD.
Psychologist, Licensed Clinical Psychologist
If you spend any time with a preschooler, you notice very quickly they have very few problem with healthy self-esteem or "being themselves!" I believe the erosion of self-esteem is learned through experience (e.g., attachment problems, trauma, neglect, bullying, marginalization, etc.). I utilize approaches like EMDR and ego-state therapies to help heal the experiences that first eroded your inherent feelings of self worth followed by strengthening internal resources to more confidently approach the present and future.
15 Years Experience
Online in Oakdale, MN (Online Only)
Dr. Rae Mazzei
Psychologist, PsyD
I specialize in helping adolescents and adults build healthy self-esteem, greater self-confidence, and a stronger sense of self-worth. Many individuals struggle with self-criticism, perfectionism, people-pleasing, negative self-talk, body image concerns, or feelings of not being "good enough." These challenges can affect relationships, career success, emotional well-being, and overall life satisfaction. Using evidence-based approaches such as Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), self-compassion practices, and mindfulness-based strategies, I help clients challenge unhelpful beliefs, recognize their strengths, develop self-acceptance, and cultivate a more balanced and compassionate view of themselves. My goal is to help clients feel more confident, empowered, and capable of living in alignment with their values and goals.
12 Years Experience
Online in Oakdale, MN (Online Only)
Jason Holland
Psychologist, Ph.D.
Low self-esteem is often tied to long-standing self-criticism, shame, or a sense of not measuring up. We can look at where those beliefs took root and how they keep showing up today. The work is about building a more balanced view of yourself, strengthening self-trust, and creating patterns that support confidence and self-respect.
25 Years Experience
Online in Oakdale, MN
Julie Cochrane - Rapid Transformational Therapy (RTT) Therapist
Hypnotherapist, Clinical Hypnotherapist, RTT-T, Rewind Therapy Practitioner, Integration Coaching
Low self-esteem rarely starts with logic. You can list your accomplishments and still not feel like enough. That is because self-worth is held in the subconscious, often shaped by experiences in childhood that we long ago stopped consciously remembering. RTT goes back to those root moments and updates the meaning we made of them. The belief "I am not enough" or "I do not matter" was not chosen consciously and it cannot be argued away consciously either. It can be updated at the level where it lives. Most clients begin to notice a real shift in how they feel about themselves within the first session.
6 Years Experience
Online in Oakdale, MN (Online Only)
Self Esteem therapists in Oakdale, Minnesota Statistics
Self Esteem therapists in Oakdale, Minnesota average 17 years of experience and charge around $212 per session. 100% offer online sessions. The most commonly treated issues are Self Esteem (100%), Anxiety or Fears (90%), and Depression (81%).
Average years in practice
17 Years Experience
Average cost per session
$212
Gender ID
| 65% |
Female |
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| 32% |
Male |
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| 2% |
Non-Binary |
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| 1% |
Gender Fluid |
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Session Type
| 54% |
In Person and Online |
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| 46% |
Online Only |
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Top Specialties
| 100% | Self Esteem |
| 90% | Anxiety or Fears |
| 81% | Depression |
| 76% | Stress |
| 63% | Loss or Grief |
| 63% | Trauma and PTSD |
| 60% | Social Anxiety |