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Online Perfectionism therapists in Ayden, NC

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Garner, North Carolina therapist: First-Aid Counseling, PLLC, counselor/therapist
Perfectionism

First-Aid Counseling, PLLC

Counselor/Therapist, LCMHC, LCASA, LCSW
Perfectionism can create pressure, anxiety, and feelings of never being good enough. Therapy helps clients understand the roots of perfectionism, challenge unrealistic expectations, and develop greater self-compassion and balance.  
3 Years Experience
Online in Ayden, NC (Online Only)
Houston, Texas therapist: Dr. Christopher Lowery, DHSc, CLCP, clinical health practitioner
Perfectionism

Dr. Christopher Lowery, DHSc, CLCP

Clinical Health Practitioner, Board-Certified Life Care Planner
This component assist with the management of self-criticism, reduce anxiety, and develop healthier standards, self-compassion, and balanced coping strategies.  
24 Years Experience
Online in Ayden, NC
Minneapolis, Minnesota therapist: Starlain Saldana, psychologist
Perfectionism

Starlain Saldana

Psychologist, PhD, LP
While aspects of perfectionism have often been helpful for folks to achieve and get to where they are in life, it also has a shadow side rooted in fear of failure, shame, and anxiety. Additionally, our society often reinforces perfectionism in ways that make it difficult from which to un-tangle. Our work will hold the ways it has been helpful while also challenging you to gain comfort with 'good enough' approaches to life.  
17 Years Experience
Online in Ayden, NC
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Washington, Washington, D.C. therapist: Maria Jose Rendon, psychologist
Perfectionism

Maria Jose Rendon

Psychologist, Ph.D.
I work with adults whose perfectionism has stopped serving them, professionals and scientists who are high performing but burning out int he workplace and privately exhausted by their own inner critic. My approach is Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, trained through the Beck Institute, which helps identify the specific thought patterns driving perfectionistic behavior and build a more sustainable relationship with achievement. Many of my clients are first-generation Latinx professionals, for whom perfectionism is often tied to family expectations and the pressure of being the first to do what they do. Sessions are structured and goal-oriented, so progress is something you can see and track, not just feel.  
9 Years Experience
Online in Ayden, NC (Online Only)
Apex, North Carolina therapist: Kamini Wood, life coach
Perfectionism

Kamini Wood

Life Coach, FHH, CLC, CPM
Perfectionism is rarely about getting everything right. It is often a survival pattern that develops when you've learned that mistakes are unsafe, success earns acceptance, or your value depends on what you accomplish. While perfectionism may have helped you achieve, it can also leave you feeling anxious, exhausted, and disconnected from yourself. Together, we'll uncover the patterns beneath perfectionism, quiet your inner critic, strengthen self-trust, and help you embrace progress over perfection. My goal is to help you pursue excellence from a place of confidence and authenticity rather than fear and self-protection.  
8 Years Experience
Online in Ayden, NC (Online Only)
Concord, North Carolina therapist: Kelsey Grant, licensed mental health counselor
Perfectionism

Kelsey Grant

Licensed Mental Health Counselor, LCMHCA
Perfectionism is almost always a part doing its best to keep you safe — from criticism, from failure, from being seen as not enough. It's not a flaw to fix. It's a protector with an exhausting job. When we get curious about what that part is actually afraid of, and what it's been carrying, the grip tends to loosen in ways that willpower alone never could.  
5 Years Experience
Online in Ayden, NC
Charlotte, North Carolina therapist: Wildflower Therapy Group, licensed clinical social worker
Perfectionism

Wildflower Therapy Group

Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW, C-IAYT
At Wildflower Therapy Group, we help clients explore perfectionism with compassion and curiosity. Therapy can support clients in understanding the deeper fears, pressure, or self-protective patterns behind perfectionism while building more self-compassion, flexibility, and a stronger sense of worth beyond performance.  
6 Years Experience
Online in Ayden, NC
Chicago, Illinois therapist: Mun & Mind Therapy PLLC, psychologist
Perfectionism

Mun & Mind Therapy PLLC

Psychologist
Perfectionism often develops as a way to seek approval, avoid criticism, or maintain a sense of control. While it can drive achievement, it can also lead to burnout, anxiety, shame, and difficulty feeling satisfied. For many individuals, cultural and familial expectations play a significant role in perfectionistic patterns. Therapy can help you challenge unrealistic standards, embrace self-compassion, and cultivate a healthier relationship with success and self-worth.  
2 Years Experience
Online in Ayden, NC (Online Only)
Salt Lake City, Utah therapist: Juniper Mental Health, psychologist
Perfectionism

Juniper Mental Health

Psychologist, PhD
Perfectionism is not problematic for everyone, but for some, the drive to always do more and be better can have a negative impact on their daily stress, relationships, and take away from the life they want to be living. We have several providers on our team who have authored books and research on this very topic. Reach out to consult with our perfectionism specialists to discuss treatment.  
8 Years Experience
Online in Ayden, NC (Online Only)
Charlotte, North Carolina therapist: Montgomery Counseling Group, licensed clinical social worker
Perfectionism

Montgomery Counseling Group

Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW, LCSWA, LCMHC, LCMHCA
We work with clients who feel driven by high expectations, fear of failure, people-pleasing, or relentless self-criticism. Therapy helps soften rigid patterns and build a more flexible, compassionate sense of self-worth.  
35 Years Experience
Online in Ayden, NC
Charlotte, North Carolina therapist: Lynette Cisneros, counselor/therapist
Perfectionism

Lynette Cisneros

Counselor/Therapist, LCMHC, LMHC
Perfectionism is an exhausting, unattainable self sabotage. Odds are you won't reach it because you will change the goal posts on yourself or minimize the outcome anyways. We will work to interrupt the unrealistic expectations you are putting upon yourself and others. Oftentimes the accompanying anxiety, compare & despair thinking, OCD/OCPD tendencies and/or the faulty messaging in youth will have to be deconstructed, redirected and released.  
25 Years Experience
Online in Ayden, NC (Online Only)
Durham, North Carolina therapist: Bobby Newell, licensed clinical social worker
Perfectionism

Bobby Newell

Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW, SEP
I specialize in working with individuals who struggle with perfectionism—the constant pressure to get everything right, meet high expectations, and avoid mistakes at all costs. While perfectionism can look like success on the outside, it often comes with anxiety, burnout, and a harsh inner critic that’s hard to turn off. Together, we focus on understanding the patterns driving perfectionism and building more flexible, sustainable ways of thinking and responding. My approach combines practical tools with mind-body awareness, helping you reduce pressure, increase self-trust, and show up more fully—without feeling like everything has to be perfect first.  
27 Years Experience
Online in Ayden, NC
Raleigh, North Carolina therapist: Nour Counseling, counselor/therapist
Perfectionism

Nour Counseling

Counselor/Therapist
Perfectionism is often praised—but let’s be clear: most of what gets called “perfectionism” is actually pressure. Pressure to perform, to be liked, to get it right, to not mess up in a world that doesn’t give you much room to be human. A lot of those standards don’t come from you. They come from dominant cultural norms—productivity, achievement, appearance, success—that you’ve been taught to internalize, even when they don’t actually match what you value. So you keep pushing, overthinking, over-preparing, holding yourself to impossible expectations… and still feeling like it’s not enough. At Nour Counseling, we don’t treat perfectionism like a personality quirk or something to “optimize.” We take it apart. We help you identify where these standards came from, how they’ve been reinforced, and what they’re costing you—your time, your energy, your relationships, your sense of self. From there, we actively work with you to build something different: clearer values, more flexible thinking, and ways of showing up that don’t require constant self-pressure to maintain. This includes learning how to tolerate imperfection, make decisions without over-analysis, and step out of cycles that keep you stuck. This work is about reclaiming your life from expectations that were never really yours—and building one that actually reflects what matters to you.  
9 Years Experience
Online in Ayden, NC (Online Only)
Asheville, North Carolina therapist: Sarah Eisenhauer Counseling, counselor/therapist
Perfectionism

Sarah Eisenhauer Counseling

Counselor/Therapist, LCMHC, LCPC, LPC, AADC
If you struggle with fear of failure, a sense that no matter what you do, it's not good enough, or a fear that if you relax, everything will fall apart, you may be a perfectionist! This can be such a big strength in terms of motivation and success, but can also take a huge toll. We can work together to identify what drives your perfectionism, and what your true values are that can guide you forward.  
17 Years Experience
Online in Ayden, NC
Carrboro, North Carolina therapist: Congruence Counseling Group, counselor/therapist
Perfectionism

Congruence Counseling Group

Counselor/Therapist, MSW, LCSW, M.Ed. LCMHC, LMFT
Congruence Counseling Group can help individuals struggling with perfectionism understand the pressures and thought patterns that drive unrealistic expectations. Clients learn to develop self-compassion, manage stress, and create healthier standards for themselves, allowing for greater balance, confidence, and emotional wellbeing.  
20 Years Experience
Online in Ayden, NC
Lawrence, Kansas therapist: Shannon Gorres, life coach
Perfectionism

Shannon Gorres

Life Coach, MDiv, MA
I used to joke that I'm a "recovering perfectionist," but trying to recover from it might just be another way of holding ourselves to someone else's standard (of not being "uptight" or "too good" or something). I think the real key is to figure out what our internal compass really wants to point us to. If we were born to pay attention and excel, let's do that in a way that helps us and others thrive, with less shame and stress when we mess up. I'm an Enneagram 1 (I lead with a personality type that can be called "perfectionist" or "idealist"). Maybe you are an Enneagram 1, or a 2 (a people pleaser), or 3 (an achiever). Or maybe you weren't born this way, but your parents pressured you into perfectionism. However perfectionism intersects with your personality, let's find a way to honor its gifts while asking it to rest a bit so other parts of you can also shine.  
11 Years Experience
Online in Ayden, NC
Montpelier, Vermont therapist: Heinig Health and Wellness Counseling, psychologist
Perfectionism

Heinig Health and Wellness Counseling

Psychologist, Ph.D. Clinical Psychology, M.S. Health Psychology, M.A. Clinical Psychology, PSYPACT Providers
We provide psychotherapy for individuals struggling with perfectionism, helping clients understand how high self-imposed standards, fear of failure, and self-criticism can impact emotional well-being and daily functioning. Our approach focuses on identifying unhelpful thought patterns, reducing all-or-nothing thinking, and developing more balanced and compassionate self-evaluations. Through evidence-based strategies, clients learn to tolerate mistakes, set realistic goals, and build flexibility in their expectations. Treatment supports greater self-acceptance, reduced anxiety and burnout, and a healthier, more sustainable approach to achievement and personal growth.  
7 Years Experience
Online in Ayden, NC (Online Only)
Apex, North Carolina therapist: Marina Harris, Bloom Psychology Group, psychologist
Perfectionism

Marina Harris, Bloom Psychology Group

Psychologist, PhD, HSP-P, CMPC
Many of my clients have extremely high standards for themselves and base their self-worth on their ability to meet those standards. Usually perfectionism works to a certain point in their life - until it doesn't. On the inside, it can feel like nothing is ever quite good enough, rest feels unearned, and perfectionists can feel like they're one mistake away from a total meltdown. I help high-achievers loosen perfectionism's grip without losing their edge. I help performers work to be ambitious and at peace with themselves. To strive in a healthy way, and still feel like enough.  
6 Years Experience
Online in Ayden, NC (Online Only)
Bainbridge Island, Washington therapist: Alyssa Smyth, psychologist
Perfectionism

Alyssa Smyth

Psychologist, PhD
If you hold yourself to very high standards yet rarely feel satisfied with your efforts, perfectionism may be driving constant pressure beneath the surface. While striving for excellence can be a strength, perfectionism often brings self-criticism, worry about mistakes, and difficulty slowing down. Therapy focuses on understanding these patterns and developing healthier ways to pursue high standards without the chronic strain.  
6 Years Experience
Online in Ayden, NC
Chandler, Arizona therapist: Christine Sparacino, psychologist
Perfectionism

Christine Sparacino

Psychologist, PsyD
Claudia Blackwell talks about how perfectionism is born out of shame. It's a quote that has stuck with me for years. Perfectionism causes us to feel like we are never good enough, directly attacking our self-worth. Supportive therapy can help us identify the attacks of perfectionism, learn the language of our inner critic, and forge a path forward with self-compassion and self-acceptance.  
23 Years Experience
Online in Ayden, NC (Online Only)

Perfectionism therapists in Ayden, North Carolina Statistics

Perfectionism therapists in Ayden, North Carolina average 15 years of experience and charge around $204 per session. 100% offer online sessions. The most commonly treated issues are Perfectionism (100%), Anxiety or Fears (89%), and Depression (81%).

Average years in practice

15 Years Experience

Average cost per session

$204

Gender ID

70% Female
18% Male
7% Gender Fluid
5% Non-Binary

Session Type

54% Online Only
46% In Person and Online

Top Specialties

100% Perfectionism
89% Anxiety or Fears
81% Depression
81% Life Transitions
81% Stress
78% Self Esteem
73% Trauma and PTSD

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