Online Codependency therapists in Olympia, Washington WA
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Codependency
Tacoma Wellness Collective
Licensed Clinical Social Worker
If you've spent most of your life making sure everyone else is okay — and quietly losing yourself in the process — you're not broken. You're running a pattern that made sense at some point. It just may not be serving you anymore.
Codependency often looks like being the reliable one, the peacekeeper, the person who holds everything together. It can feel like love. It can feel like strength. But underneath, there's often a deep fear of conflict, rejection, or not being enough.
At TWC, we help adults untangle those patterns — where they came from, how they show up in relationships today, and what it looks like to show up for others without abandoning yourself in the process.
This work takes honesty and time. We think it's some of the most meaningful work there is.
When you're ready, we're here.
13 Years Experience
Online in Olympia, WA
Codependency
Alan Brandis, Ph.D.
Psychologist, Ph.D., Licensed Psychologist
The concept of Co-Dependency was developed as a way of explaining how family members of alcoholics, especially their spouses, became emotionally ill apparently as a result of living with an alcoholic for years.
"Co" is a prefix that means "like" or "with" - the family member becomes sick like and with "the dependent" (the person dependent on a chemical). There are several common problems that often go along with life with an alcoholic or drug abuser, including their unpredictable moods, selfish and irresponsible behavior, angry outbursts which may include verbal or physical abuse, broken promises and commitments, embarrassing public behavior, financial irresponsibility, legal problems, and inability to return love or affection. However, most chemically dependent people have periods when they function well, and this generates the hope that they will stay well, quit or control their chemical use, and become responsible and loving for good.
36 Years Experience
Online in Olympia, WA
Codependency
Celeste Tomasulo
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
Codependency is not the opposite of independence. It is the chronic neglect of oneself for the sake of others. This can look like saying yes to things you'd rather say no to for fear of upsetting someone. Or for not expressing your needs for fear of another person's reaction. Together, we work on identifying the uncomfortable parts around conflict and step deeper into developing your sense of self and honoring your own emotions and needs.
5 Years Experience
Online in Olympia, WA
Codependency
Brittany Rine
Licensed Mental Health Counselor, LMHC
Codependency is the need to be needed. When we are always needed, we can experience exhaustion and resentment. This can be a tricky cycle to find yourself in. My approach when addressing codependency is to help clients uncover who they are, what they like, and what they are good at without listening to any opinion but their own. We will also look at boundaries and how to create healthy ones for the sake of looking out of ourselves. There will be a lot of psycho-education on codependency in an effort to strengthen the client's self-awareness and change undesired behaviors.
6 Years Experience
Online in Olympia, WA
Codependency
Matthew Wolfe
Licensed Mental Health Counselor, LMHC, MHP
Codependency is essentially when one person sacrifices their identity/boundaries/needs to another who sacrifices their empathy, regard, and compassion. It's bad for both but the non-prioritized partner suffers the additional danger of self-alienation or even self-annihilation. We would work to bolster sense of self, personal safety, and accountability-focused healthy communication. Nobody should be chipped away into nothingness for the benefit of someone else.
13 Years Experience
Online in Olympia, WA (Online Only)
Codependency
Nicole Waters (Flowing Waters Counseling)
Counselor/Therapist, LMHC
When your sense of worth depends on others’ approval or happiness, it can feel exhausting and you can lose sight of your own needs. Therapy can help you find balance by setting healthy boundaries, develop self-trust, and rediscover your own voice. Together, we’ll work toward relationships that are mutually supportive and emotionally fulfilling.
7 Years Experience
Online in Olympia, WA (Online Only)
Codependency
San Francisco Counseling Collective
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPCC, LMFT, LCSW
At San Francisco Counseling Collective ("SFCC"), when working with codependency issues, we help clients identify relational patterns rooted in overresponsibility, difficulty with boundaries, and self-sacrifice. Together we strengthen self-awareness, autonomy, and relational balance.
9 Years Experience
Online in Olympia, WA
Codependency
Tracy L. Morris
Marriage and Family Therapist, MS LMFT
My perspective on Codependency is informed by prior years of 12-step recovery work with the addition of more recent advancements in thought around such labels.
11 Years Experience
Online in Olympia, WA
Codependency
Sherry Murray
Licensed Mental Health Counselor, LMHC
Sometimes there is someone in our life we believe we need constant contact with, and when we separate from them our anxiety only increases until we have contact again. Their positive words life us unbelievably high, but their negative words send us crashing down. What we would really like is to be stable on our own and not rely on others to get us through.
27 Years Experience
Online in Olympia, WA (Online Only)
Codependency
Family Dynamics Counseling Services, INc
Counselor/Therapist, LMHC, CDPT, CCTP
Over 10 years understanding and reseaching Codependency and it's effects on people
15 Years Experience
Online in Olympia, WA
Codependency
Dr. Sonia Ovuehor Ovy
Counselor/Therapist, Doctor of science in Counselling Psychology, Msc Conflict Resolution, Advanced Diploma in Psychotherapy, Counselling and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Certificate in Mental Health Studies, Suicide Prevention and Intervention, Diploma in Relationship and Family Counselling, CPD in Neuro Linguistic Programming.
By combining empathy and expertise, I help individuals overcome codependency by exploring:
- Trauma and attachment issues
- Family dynamics and patterns
- Emotional regulation and resilience
- Mindfulness and self-compassion.
9 Years Experience
Online in Olympia, WA (Online Only)
Codependency
Lois Spence
Counselor/Therapist, MS, LMHCA
Let’s find the space to manage and grow your own individual self.
5 Years Experience
Online in Olympia, WA
Codependency
Ross Kellogg, LMFT
Marriage and Family Therapist, Licensed Individual, Marriage, and Family Therapist (LMFT)
Codependents often report exhaustion and identity fusion (also called fragmentation). I have extensive experience and training to address codependent compulsions and help you find a consistent and confident sense of self.
12 Years Experience
Online in Olympia, WA (Online Only)
Codependency
Vanessa Hooper
Counselor/Therapist, LMHC, PMH-C
If you have learned to manage everyone else's feelings before your own, that pattern usually started somewhere real. Through an attachment lens, we look at where it came from and practice what it feels like to have a relationship that does not require you to disappear.
6 Years Experience
Online in Olympia, WA (Online Only)
Codependency
Samantha Kingma
Marriage and Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Have you noticed that you haven’t been feeling quite like yourself? Like something feels off, but you’re not exactly sure why? No matter how hard you work, you always feel behind and can't seem to ever catch up on your to-do list. Maybe you keep thinking that you "should" be doing better and you "shouldn't" be struggling this way. You want to be present, calm, and confident, but you aren’t sure how to get there. It is possible for you to feel like yourself again and I'd love to talk to you about how you can get there.
I help teens, adults, and couples who are feeling stuck and disconnected to find freedom and relief. I'll collaborate with you to notice the themes and patterns occurring in your life that might be causing problems and then work alongside you to find new options and solutions to address those patterns.
Whether you are experiencing anxiety, dealing with past trauma, relationship difficulties, or just think it might be helpful to talk to someone about how you are feeling, I’d love to talk with you about how I can help. Visit my website to schedule a free phone consultation, and we can chat about whether I might be the right therapist for you.
13 Years Experience
Online in Olympia, WA
Codependency
Jason Herr
Psychologist, Psy.D.
I help individuals recognize and shift codependent patterns that can lead to overgiving, people-pleasing, and difficulty setting boundaries. Through a supportive, insight-driven approach, we work to strengthen self-worth, develop healthy relationship skills, and foster greater independence and emotional balance.
16 Years Experience
Online in Olympia, WA (Online Only)
Codependency
Angelica Amaya
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW,LICSW
I specialize in helping clients understand and heal patterns of codependency that can keep them feeling stuck, anxious, or disconnected from their authentic selves. Together, we work to build healthier boundaries, strengthen self-worth, and create more balanced, fulfilling relationships. My approach is compassionate, trauma-informed, and focused on helping you develop the confidence to meet your own needs without guilt or fear.
21 Years Experience
Online in Olympia, WA (Online Only)
Codependency
Tycee Belcastro
Marriage and Family Therapist, M.A., LMFT, CSTIP
Codependency can feel like a tangled mess where you’re not sure who’s responsible for what in your relationships—or even in your own life. It’s that blurry line where you might take on too much, lose sight of your own needs, or struggle to know where you end and someone else begins. That’s why working on codependency is a big part of my relationship therapy. I’ll help you sort out what’s truly yours to carry, set clear boundaries, and figure out what and who you are truly responsible for. This isn’t just about making relationships work—it’s about feeling solid in who you are. In our sessions, we’ll untangle this together in a warm, safe and educational space so you can build stronger connections and a stronger sense of self.
21 Years Experience
Online in Olympia, WA
Codependency
Roderic Burks - Integrative Mental Health
Licensed Mental Health Counselor, MS, MS HSc, MA, LMHC, LPC
I help clients navigate codependency through a trauma-informed, parts-based approach. We explore the patterns that drive overgiving, people-pleasing, and difficulty setting boundaries. Together, we build healthier relationships with yourself and others, fostering self-trust and balance.
26 Years Experience
Online in Olympia, WA (Online Only)
Codependency
Dr. Walter J. Matweychuk
Psychologist, Ph.D.
My approach teaches you to depend on yourself and to be self-directed. You can learn to help yourself if you improve your discomfort tolerance for doing things for yourself, taking calculated risks, and accept yourself even when you fail.
36 Years Experience
Online in Olympia, WA
Codependency therapists in Olympia, Washington Statistics
Codependency therapists in Olympia, Washington average 16 years of experience and charge around $193 per session. 100% offer online sessions. The most commonly treated issues are Codependency (100%), Anxiety or Fears (92%), and Depression (85%).
Average years in practice
16 Years Experience
Average cost per session
$193
Gender ID
| 64% |
Female |
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| 30% |
Male |
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| 4% |
Non-Binary |
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| 2% |
Gender Fluid |
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Session Type
| 55% |
Online Only |
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| 45% |
In Person and Online |
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Top Specialties
| 100% | Codependency |
| 92% | Anxiety or Fears |
| 85% | Depression |
| 77% | Self Esteem |
| 72% | Stress |
| 65% | Loss or Grief |
| 65% | Trauma and PTSD |