Online Infidelity therapists in Esquimalt, British Columbia BC, Canada CA
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Infidelity
Simone Merkl Marriage Counselling
Counsellor/Therapist, RTC
Infidelity can be devastating to the trust in a relationship. It is a confusing, emotional experience that can cause symptoms of behavioural trauma. I help you to find clarity in your circumstances after an emotional or physical affair. Healing is possible. The effects of infidelity can last for years unless you reach out and get the help you deserve. I inspire you to navigate a new relationship built on trust, commitment and connection. There are three basic steps to healing betrayal trauma atone, attune and attach. Atone means to right past wrongs. Attune means listening and validating one another's experiences and realities. Attach means creating a deep bond where trust and commitment can prosper. Please feel free to contact me for a free 20-minute consultation today. I offer online sessions in Canada, BC. or in-person sessions in Langley or White Rock, BC.
6 Years Experience
Online in Esquimalt, BC
Infidelity
Somatic Healing Arts, Psychotherapy and Wellness
Registered Psychotherapist, RP (qualifying), MA-ExAT
Experiencing infidelity can impact both the mind and body, bringing up shock, grief, anger, and a sense of betrayal. Approaches like art therapy and sensorimotor therapy engage both body and mind, helping individuals process complex emotions, release tension, rebuild trust in themselves, and move toward healing, clarity, and emotional resilience.
9 Years Experience
Online in Esquimalt, BC
Infidelity
Amanda Spallacci
Registered Psychotherapist, Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying)
I support individuals and couples navigating the complex emotions and challenges that arise from infidelity. Through compassionate guidance, we work to rebuild trust, improve communication, and explore healing paths—whether together or individually.
2 Years Experience
Online in Esquimalt, BC
Infidelity
Adam Manz
Licensed Mental Health Counsellor, Registered Clinical Counsellor (RCC), MCP
Infidelity can leave individuals and couples feeling shocked, confused, or unsure how to rebuild trust—whether you're coping with the discovery, the disclosure, or the aftermath. I offer a nonjudgmental space to slow down, understand what led to the rupture, and begin to process the emotions beneath the surface. With a trauma-informed and attachment-focused approach, we’ll work toward clarity, honest communication, and a healthier path forward—whether that means repair, closure, or a new way of relating.
3 Years Experience
Online in Esquimalt, BC
Infidelity
Reg Fleming
Marriage and Family Therapist, M.A., RMFT, RCC
As a couples therapist i have worked with couples who have experienced infidelity. This can be a challenge to work through even when both parties are willing to repair and commit because of the emotional intensity.. Working with a couples therapist can provide the support and process to work through this pattern.
33 Years Experience
Online in Esquimalt, BC
Infidelity
Strength in Heart Counselling
Treatment Center, RSW, RCC, CCC
Infidelity can shake the foundation of trust in a relationship. We provide a safe, neutral environment to process emotions, rebuild trust, or make decisions about the future. Our focus is on healing and honest communication for both partners.
8 Years Experience
Online in Esquimalt, BC
Infidelity
Pegah Behbehani
Counsellor/Therapist, Registered Clinical Counsellor
My counselling style is influenced by trauma-informed therapy, strength-based therapy, Mindfulness-Based Cognitive Therapy (MBCT), Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), AEDP, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Bowen Family Systems, Narrative Therapy, and EMDR, Hakomi therapy, IFS therapy.
7 Years Experience
Online in Esquimalt, BC
Infidelity
Amanda Lazenis
Registered Psychotherapist, Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying)
I support individuals and couples navigating the complex emotions and challenges that arise from infidelity. Through compassionate guidance, we work to rebuild trust, improve communication, and explore healing paths—whether together or individually.
1 Years Experience
Online in Esquimalt, BC
Infidelity
Birgit Schreiber Dr
Psychologist, PhD and MA in Psychology
Together we work our way through these, often painful, experiences, we will explore triggers and how to manage the consequences of these.
26 Years Experience
Online in Esquimalt, BC (Online Only)
Infidelity
Romana Hrivnakova
Registered Psychotherapist, MA, RP, RCC
The discovery of infidelity is a profound trauma that can shatter your sense of safety and reality. Drawing on over 15 years of experience working with both those who have been betrayed and those who have caused the hurt, I provide a steady, non-judgmental space to navigate the wreckage.
My approach uses a Parts Work lens to understand the underlying 'why' behind the betrayal or to help heal the intense hyper-vigilance and pain that follows it. We don't just look at the event; we explore the survival strategies and early patterns that impact how you relate to others. Whether you are looking to repair the relationship or move forward individually, I help you find a path toward clarity, stability, and genuine emotional healing.
11 Years Experience
Online in Esquimalt, BC (Online Only)
Infidelity
Melinda Freitas
Counsellor/Therapist, MACP, RCC, CCC
Counselling for infidelity can help clients navigate the trauma of betrayal in a safe yet structured environment. My approach focuses on stabilizing emotions, understanding the causes of the breach, and deciding whether to rebuild, heal or detach.
14 Years Experience
Online in Esquimalt, BC
Infidelity
Jonah Fialkow
Counsellor/Therapist, MA, RCC
When working with clients dealing with infidelity, my approach is centered around fostering a safe and supportive environment where all parties involved can express themselves openly and honestly. I understand that infidelity is a complex issue that can elicit a wide range of emotions such as anger, betrayal, guilt, and sadness.
First and foremost, I aim to validate the feelings of all individuals affected by the infidelity, whether they are the betrayed partner or the one who engaged in the infidelity. Each person's experience is unique, and it's crucial to honor their emotions without judgment.
Next, I facilitate open and respectful communication between the individuals involved. This involves helping them understand the underlying factors that may have contributed to the infidelity, such as relationship dissatisfaction, communication issues, or personal vulnerabilities. By exploring these factors in a safe space, clients can gain insight into their own behaviors and the dynamics of their relationship.
I also work with clients to rebuild trust and repair the relationship if that is their goal. This often involves setting clear boundaries, improving communication skills, and addressing underlying issues that may have contributed to the infidelity. Trust-building exercises and techniques for rebuilding intimacy may also be incorporated into therapy sessions.
However, I recognize that not all relationships can or should be salvaged after infidelity. In cases where the clients decide to end the relationship, I support them through the process of healing and moving forward separately. This may involve helping them cope with the grief and loss associated with the end of the relationship, as well as assisting them in developing healthy coping mechanisms and setting goals for the future.
Ultimately, my approach to infidelity is focused on facilitating healing, growth, and understanding for all parties involved, while empowering clients to make decisions that align with their values and well-being.
3 Years Experience
Online in Esquimalt, BC
Infidelity
Michelle Iulianella Counselling & Psychotherapy
Counsellor/Therapist, BEd, MBA, MA, RCC
Infidelity is a breach of trust that occurs when the implicitly or explicitly agreed upon rules in a relationship are broken. Infidelity occurs when one partner engages in any form of intimacy with anyone outside of the bounds of the primary relationship. Is it just about sex? Absolutely not. Betrayals in an intimate partnership can involve emotional, physical, or sexual intimacy with anyone outside of the relationship. Why do people betray their partners? There is never a simple answer to this question. There are factors specific to the individual who has betrayed their partner, and factors specific to the relationship that make a relationship vulnerable to infidelity. This is why it is critical for both partners to talk to Michelle so that the underlying issues can be addressed and trust can be rebuilt. Is this always possible? The answer is unique to each couple. It’s a delicate, complex reality to navigate, which is why allowing Michelle to help you through it is so important.
11 Years Experience
Online in Esquimalt, BC
Infidelity
Maribel Ayala
Registered Psychotherapist, M.A. Counselling Psychology, Registered Psychotherapist, CCC, EMDR Certified Therapist, Clinical Counselling Hypnotherapist
Dealing with the aftermath of infidelity can be challenging, but expert support is available to guide you through it. With years of experience in affairs, trauma, and relationship management, I specialize in helping couples heal and improve their relationships. By integrating EMDR for couples and the Gottman Method, my approach is tailored to meet your specific needs, fostering trust and connection. If you're seeking to rebuild and strengthen your relationship, contact me today for professional and compassionate guidance.
16 Years Experience
Online in Esquimalt, BC
Infidelity
Sagewood Counselling & Consultancy
Registered Social Worker, BSW, MSW, RSW
Infidelity can be such a painful betrayal, that can bring shock, confusion, conflict and pain into our relationship and lives. It can be helpful to have someone who can offer compassionate support and skill to help you walk through this difficult time. Some couples feel they can work through the underlying reasons behind the infidelity and reconcile, while other people feel they cannot. Regardless, individual and / or couples counselling can provide ways to bring clarity, healing and resolution to this challenging time.
22 Years Experience
Online in Esquimalt, BC (Online Only)
Infidelity
Jayne Batten
Counsellor/Therapist, MSc, CT, MPCC, MBACP
I help couples navigate through infidelity by creating a safe place to process the intense emotions, shattered trust and complex dynamics that arise after betrayal. Central to the healing process is honouring the profound PTSD like trauma that can result, validating the betrayed partner's hypervigilance, flashbacks, and emotional overwhelm as natural responses. Therapy focuses on rebuilding safety, fostering honest communication and guiding both partner's through the courageous work of repair, or thoughtful separation, while addressing the deep wounds and underlying patterns that contributed to the rupture.
8 Years Experience
Online in Esquimalt, BC
Infidelity
Matthew Pitts
Registered Psychotherapist, Master of Arts in Counselling Psychology
Healing from and understanding infidelity can be challenging, but you do not need to experience relationship challenges alone. Having previously worked as a family law lawyer, I have a particular lens through which I view and understand relationship conflict. I bring an empathic but analytical style to therapy, and I offer a safe space where you can express yourself. If this resonates with you, reach out for a free Zoom consultation.
2 Years Experience
Online in Esquimalt, BC (Online Only)
Infidelity
Suzanne St. John Smith
Counsellor/Therapist, M.A., M.A. (Psych.) FEA, C.C.C Relationship and Family Therapist; Life Coach
When working with clients who are experiencing infidelity, my focus is on helping them navigate the intense emotions that often arise — shock, grief, anger, confusion, and betrayal — while creating a safe, nonjudgmental space to process what has happened. I work collaboratively to help them understand the dynamics that led to the rupture, clarify their needs and boundaries, and begin rebuilding a sense of trust — whether that means repairing the relationship or healing independently. My approach integrates compassion with honest reflection, guiding clients toward clarity, self-worth, and a deeper understanding of what safety and connection truly mean for them moving forward.
22 Years Experience
Online in Esquimalt, BC
Infidelity
Sandy He
Registered Psychotherapist, Registered Psychotherapist, MACP, CCTP, BA
Have you recently learned of an infidelity that is impacting your ability to trust, or you're unsure of how to move forward with or without your partner? Do you suddenly feel like you're not enough, or like the infidelity is taking up all the space in your mind? Let's talk about that - Get in touch for a free 15-minute consultation today.
4 Years Experience
Online in Esquimalt, BC (Online Only)
Infidelity
Frances Brown
Marriage and Family Therapist, M.Ed, MPCC, MTC
Infidelity
The initial shock of infidelity is shattering to the hurt partner. It feels like a profound loss. It turns your sense of reality upside down. Not only do you feel betrayed, but you begin to question whether you can trust your own perceptions. The world no longer seems to make sense. It feels enormously difficult to recover from. You may feel like you are going crazy but you're not. Whatever you are feeling is a normal response to a traumatizing situation. For the unfaithful partner, you will likely be experiencing a torrent of conflicting feelings ranging from relief that the secret is out to feelings of impatience "I've told you everything and nothing I do or say makes any difference to you", to anxiety and guilt and feeling like no-one is there for you.
Partners are equally responsible for the relationship dynamic the brought them to this point. However each person is accountable for the decision they made, ie., to stray outside of the relationship or to shut down and withdraw.
One of the key questions couples will be faced with once the secret is out is "should I stay or should I go". Counselling can help you sort through the complexities of this question and decide if this person is right for you.
I invite you to book a free 15 minute consultation with me.
18 Years Experience
Online in Esquimalt, BC
Infidelity therapists in Esquimalt, British Columbia, Canada Statistics
Infidelity therapists in Esquimalt, British Columbia, Canada average 11 years of experience and charge around $154 per session. 100% offer online sessions. The most commonly treated issues are Infidelity (100%), Anxiety or Fears (90%), and Self Esteem (83%).
Average years in practice
11 Years Experience
Average cost per session
$154
Gender ID
| 66% |
Female |
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| 29% |
Male |
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| 3% |
Non-Binary |
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| 2% |
Gender Fluid |
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Session Type
| 60% |
In Person and Online |
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| 40% |
Online Only |
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Top Specialties
| 100% | Infidelity |
| 90% | Anxiety or Fears |
| 83% | Self Esteem |
| 82% | Depression |
| 77% | Stress |
| 75% | Divorce |
| 75% | Relationship and Marriage Counseling |