Online Codependency therapists in Harpenden, England ENG, United Kingdom UK
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Codependency
Samantha Coleman
Therapist, MBACP Prof Dip
Codependency can leave you feeling overly responsible for other people, disconnected from your own needs, and caught in patterns of over-giving, rescuing, people-pleasing, or losing yourself in relationships. Often, these patterns develop for understandable reasons and can stem from attachment wounds, fear of abandonment, or low self-worth. My approach focuses on understanding the deeper patterns underneath these dynamics so that you can develop healthier boundaries, stronger self-trust, and relationships that feel more mutual and secure.
13 Years Experience
Online in Harpenden, ENG
Codependency
Kylie Feller
Licensed Professional Counsellor, MA, CCC
You don’t have to lose yourself to be loved.
If you find yourself overgiving in relationships, struggling to set boundaries, or feeling anxious when you're not needed, you may be dealing with codependent patterns. These often come from early wounds and parts of us that equate love with self-sacrifice or people-pleasing. As someone who specializes in dating and relationships—and is currently writing a book on dating through the lens of Internal Family Systems (IFS)—I help you identify the parts of you that fear being alone, not enough, or too much. Together, we’ll untangle old patterns, heal the underlying wounds, and reconnect you with your True Self—so you can build relationships from a place of wholeness rather than need.
10 Years Experience
Online in Harpenden, ENG (Online Only)
Codependency
Lulu AlRashdi
Life Coach
Codependency is often the attempt to meet, through adult relationships, emotional needs that were not fully met in childhood. The goal is not to become independent from everyone, but to develop relationships based on mutual respect, healthy boundaries, and genuine connection rather than unmet childhood needs.
3 Years Experience
Online in Harpenden, ENG (Online Only)
Codependency
Liz Witzke
Registered Psychotherapist, RPQ, BA, LLB, CSAT, CPTT
An exaggerated sense of responsibility, compulsive need to take care of another, difficulty expressing boundaries, excessive reliance on or emotional ties to a partner or loved-one - these are all expressions of co-dependent relationships. I will help you break it down and understand the how and why in order to strengthen your sense of self. The aim is to find yourself, so that you do not lose yourself in relationship with others.
19 Years Experience
Online in Harpenden, ENG
Codependency
Neil Coburn Relationship Therapy and Counselling
Registered Psychotherapist, BA (Hons), MA (Tavi Rels), MBACP (Accred)
I often work with couples or individuals on challenges they describe as co-dependent. Dependency is a reality of any relationship, but can be imbalanced or seen as destructive or threatening. I try to help people to change these patterns and become more at ease with their need for others in their lives.
11 Years Experience
Online in Harpenden, ENG
Codependency
Ummayah Sidhu
Counsellor/Therapist, Ummayah Sidhu | BACP Accredited Psychotherapist | Identity & Heritage Specialist
If you find yourself constantly 'fixing' others at the expense of your own needs, we can work together to establish healthy boundaries. We’ll focus on rediscovering your own identity and building balanced, mutual relationships.
10 Years Experience
Online in Harpenden, ENG (Online Only)
Codependency
Valentina Olper
Therapist, MSc
Reclaim your self-contained power. Codependency is often a seeking of the source outside oneself. We nurture the parts of you that feel tender and in need of attention, rebuilding your boundaries so you can model wholeness and love without compromising your inner peace.
10 Years Experience
Online in Harpenden, ENG
Codependency
James Hitchen - I Am James Therapy & Coaching
Therapist, Psychotherapeutic counselling (level 5), MBACP, AdV member Addiction Professionals, MNCPS accred. National Centre For Eating Disorders
I am member of the International Stress Management Association, am and advanced member of Addiction Professionals registration body and am a member of the Complex Trauma Institute. I am an addictions and eating disorder specialist as well as working with other issues such as anxiety, depression, trauma, ADHA, self harm, self esteem, loneliness and other disorders. I offer a range of services from 1:1 and group counselling/coaching sessions. I trained at Richmond College and am strongly informed by 12 step philosophy as well as helping clients to look after their mental, physical, spiritual and emotional health to thrive in life.
9 Years Experience
Online in Harpenden, ENG
Codependency
Kat Pachana-Pereira
Registered Psychotherapist, Integrative Therapist (CBT), Couples Therapist, EMDR Therapist
We will work on understanding causes of codependency and strengthening a sense of of self
9 Years Experience
Online in Harpenden, ENG
Codependency
Jade at We Tackle Trauma
Counsellor/Therapist, MAASW, MSW, QTS, BSc (Hons)
Hey there, I combine lived experience with professional knowledge to help you unpick how codependency is impacted your life and how to address this. Whether you are seeking to explore the impacts of your early relationships and how these may have impacted you, or you are aiming to set clearer boundaries in your adult relationships, or just to select better relationships; I am here and happy to help.
I also have the skillset to explore with you, how embodied trauma may contribute to codependency, and how to move the body through trauma; through the use of somatic practices. Consults are free and instantly bookable on the We Tackle Trauma website, I look forward to meeting you- Jade Evelyn Gayle
20 Years Experience
Online in Harpenden, ENG
Codependency
Donna Collins
Registered Psychotherapist, BSc (hons), PGDip, SupervisionDip
Codependency is something that many people struggle with in relationships. This can promote feelings of helplessness and fear. It is possible to move from this experience to one of inner strength and independence within a relationship and I am able to support you in your journey towards this.
11 Years Experience
Online in Harpenden, ENG
Codependency
Dr. Amanda Roberts
Psychologist, PhD Clinical Psychology, Masters in Marriage Family Therapy
Dr Roberts worked in the codependency-family program at Stanford drug and alcohol clinic on an inpatient and outpatient basis through all phases of recovery. She has a thorough understanding of the 12-step program and addictions and has helped hundreds of individuals in early, middle and late stages of recovery stay clean and sober.
41 Years Experience
Online in Harpenden, ENG (Online Only)
Codependency
Leonie M Dippenaar
Counsellor/Therapist, (BWRT) Master Coach, (CHT )Certified Hypnotherapist (EPP) Ethno Psychology Practitioner
Let go of the root cause of codependency and find your way back to your own power
18 Years Experience
Online in Harpenden, ENG (Online Only)
Codependency
Karine Flynn
Psychologist, MSc, GMBPS
Codependency is fundamentally a nervous system pattern - a deep-rooted orientation toward others' emotional states that developed as a survival strategy and never got updated. Understanding this intellectually rarely shifts it. The work happens at the level of the body: learning to locate your own internal experience, to stay with it under relational pressure, and to build the felt sense of self that makes genuine boundaries possible.
23 Years Experience
Online in Harpenden, ENG
Codependency
Jessica Ryan-Zeman
Registered Psychotherapist, MCAP, BA (Psych)
Codependency is often at the core of most. of issues so learning. to identity and express your own needs and feelings and set healthy bolundaies in relationships is vital within any recovery process and within couples therapy.
16 Years Experience
Online in Harpenden, ENG
Codependency
Rachel Bates
Registered Psychotherapist, M Phil - Counselling & Psychotherapy; M A Psychology
Codependance is basically a dependance (sometimes for reasons beyond one's control) on someone, often family member or members who is or are dysfunctional, leaving the co-dependant with a dminshed sense of self.
21 Years Experience
Online in Harpenden, ENG
Codependency
Salvadore Coaching LLC
Life Coach, Holistic Life Coach, Certified Breathwork Instructor, Certified Hypnotist
Codependency often begins as care, loyalty, or sensitivity—but over time it can become self-abandonment. And when you abandon yourself, you don’t actually protect the relationship—you weaken it.
Oftentimes, many people find themselves over-functioning, people-pleasing, managing another’s emotions, or staying in relationships that require them to shrink their needs in order to keep connection. The result is often a combination of anxiety, resentment, exhaustion, and a loss of clarity about what they actually want.
In our work together, we aim to de-escalate these patterns and explore what they’ve been protecting: perhaps a fear of conflict, abandonment, guilt, or the belief that love must be earned through sacrifice. We build practical skills for boundaries, self-trust, and direct communication, so you can stay connected without losing yourself. The goal is not to become “less caring,” but to create relationships that include you—relationships where care and reciprocity can coexist.
14 Years Experience
Online in Harpenden, ENG
Codependency
Dr George Booty. The PsychoTRAUMA Clinic (Convergence College of Psychotherapy)
Registered Psychotherapist, Dr, DPsych, MA Couns, MA Psych, PG Dip Spvn
I deal with Codependency especially to help sufferers to stop rescuing unnecessarily and to uncover Love Avoidant Addicts and Love Seeker Addicts to gain a healthier lifestyle and to enjoy fuller healthier relationships with others.
31 Years Experience
Online in Harpenden, ENG
Codependency
Sudeva Hawkes
Registered Psychotherapist, Registered Clinical Counsellor, B.Couns., MNCPS Accred. , PACFA Reg.
Together we'll create a safe space to explore the patterns of codependency and revitalise your sense of self. My approach combines clinical expertience with trauma-informed techniques, incorporating mindfulness to help you establish healthy boundaries and cultivate self-worth. We'll work together on breaking free from unhealthy dynamics, fostering independence and emotional resilience. My goal is to empower you to find balance and strength, and to assist in realising and expressing your true potential.
29 Years Experience
Online in Harpenden, ENG (Online Only)
Codependency
Louise Perry
Registered Psychotherapist, IFS UKCP HCCP BAAT
I work with adults who struggle with patterns often described as codependence, including over-responsibility for others, people-pleasing, difficulty setting boundaries, and a sense of self that becomes organised around relationships. These patterns are usually adaptive responses developed over time, rather than personal failings.
My work draws on Integrative Art Psychotherapy and Internal Family Systems (IFS), offering ways to understand how these relational strategies developed and what they may be protecting. Sessions focus on increasing clarity about needs, limits, and patterns of attachment, allowing different ways of relating to emerge. We may work through conversation, creative exploration, or a combination of both, depending on what feels most useful.
8 Years Experience
Online in Harpenden, ENG
Codependency therapists in Harpenden, England, United Kingdom Statistics
Codependency therapists in Harpenden, England, United Kingdom average 16 years of experience and charge around ¤131 per session. 100% offer online sessions. The most commonly treated issues are Codependency (100%), Anxiety or Fears (83%), and Depression (81%).
Average years in practice
16 Years Experience
Average cost per session
¤131
Gender ID
| 75% |
Female |
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| 23% |
Male |
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| 2% |
Non-Binary |
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Session Type
| 69% |
In Person and Online |
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| 31% |
Online Only |
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Top Specialties
| 100% | Codependency |
| 83% | Anxiety or Fears |
| 81% | Depression |
| 75% | Stress |
| 73% | Self Esteem |
| 60% | Loss or Grief |
| 60% | Social Anxiety |