Online Infidelity therapists in North Carolina
Browse online Infidelity therapists in North Carolina. Compare credentials, specialties and therapeutic approach. Contact a therapist to learn more.
Rising Phoenix Therapy - Dempsey Young, Psy.D.
Psychologist, Licensed Psychologist
As a part of my specialty in couples and relationship therapy work, infidelity is sometimes and issue for couples. This is hard. But I strive to help partners work through this issue, re-establish trust and emotional safety and intimacy that can be broken by this issue.
12 Years Experience
Online in
PSYPACT states
Alabama, Arizona, Arkansas, CNMI, Colorado, Connecticut, Delaware, Florida, Georgia, Idaho, Illinois, Indiana, Kansas, Kentucky, Maine, Maryland, Michigan, Minnesota, Mississippi, Missouri, Montana, Nebraska, Nevada, New Hampshire, New Jersey, North Carolina, North Dakota, Ohio, Oklahoma, Pennsylvania, Rhode Island, South Carolina, South Dakota, Tennessee, Texas, Utah, Vermont, Virginia, Washington, Washington, D.C., West Virginia, Wisconsin, Wyoming
(Online Only)
Congruence Counseling Group
Counselor/Therapist, MSW, LCSW, M.Ed. LCMHC, LMFT
Congruence Counseling Group can help individuals and couples navigate the emotional impact of infidelity by providing a safe space to process hurt, rebuild trust, and improve communication. Clients can explore underlying issues, develop healthier relationship patterns, and work toward healing, clarity, and stronger emotional connection moving forward.
20 Years Experience
In-Person in Carrboro, NC 27510
Online in North Carolina
Kari Carter
Life Coach, APSATS certified, ACC, CPC, ADOH
Infidelity is more than a breach of trust - it is often experienced as trauma. Discovery can trigger shock, hypervigilance, intrusive thoughts, and a deep loss of safety. I specialize in working with individuals impacted by affairs, and relational deception using a partner-sensitive, trauma-informed approach. Rather than minimizing the harm or rushing toward forgiveness, my work prioritizes stabilization, validation, and clarity.
Whether you are seeking answers, rebuilding trust, or discerning the future of your relationship, I provide structured support to help you regulate your nervous system, establish boundaries, and reclaim your voice. Healing from infidelity requires more than communication tools - it requires safety, truth, and steady guidance.
3 Years Experience
Online in Multiple States
Alabama, Alaska, Arizona, Arkansas, California, Colorado, Connecticut, Delaware, Florida, Georgia, Hawaii, Idaho, Illinois, Indiana, Iowa, Kansas, Kentucky, Louisiana, Maine, Maryland, Massachusetts, Michigan, Minnesota, Mississippi, Missouri, Montana, Nebraska, Nevada, New Hampshire, New Jersey, New Mexico, New York, North Carolina, North Dakota, Northern Mariana Islands, Ohio, Oklahoma, Oregon, Pennsylvania, Rhode Island, South Carolina, South Dakota, Tennessee, Texas, Utah, Vermont, Virginia, Washington, Washington, D.C., West Virginia, Wisconsin, Wyoming
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Ontario (Online Only)
Debbie Allen, A Safe Place To Share
Therapist, Betrayal Trauma Therapist & Coach, Sex & Porn Addiction Therapist & Coach. Visit my website 👇
Discovering an affair or infidelity can create intense emotional distress, confusion, anger, grief, and loss of trust. I specialize in infidelity recovery and helping betrayed partners process what has happened, establish healthy boundaries, rebuild self-trust, and gain clarity about their relationship and future. Support is also available for individuals working to understand and change patterns of infidelity.
I also provide individual affair and infidelity coaching for people who are currently involved in an affair and feel uncertain about how to move forward. If you are torn between your marriage or committed relationship and an affair relationship, individual support for infidelity offers a confidential, nonjudgmental space to slow down, sort through your emotions, and gain clarity about what you truly want.
Discernment for individuals engaged in affairs can help you explore the complex emotions, relationship needs, motivations, values, and consequences involved in an affair. Whether you are questioning your marriage, your affair relationship, or the future of both, A Safe Place To Share can help you make a thoughtful and informed decision rather than continuing to feel stuck between two relationships. The goal is not to judge or tell you what decision to make, but to help you develop greater clarity and determine how you want to move forward. Let me hold space for you.
16 Years Experience
Online in Multiple States
Alaska, Arizona, California, Colorado, Connecticut, Delaware, Florida, Georgia, Idaho, Illinois, Indiana, Iowa, Kentucky, Louisiana, Maine, Maryland, Massachusetts, Michigan, Minnesota, Mississippi, Missouri, Montana, Nebraska, Nevada, New Hampshire, New Jersey, New Mexico, New York, North Carolina, North Dakota, Ohio, Oregon, Pennsylvania, Rhode Island, South Carolina, South Dakota, Tennessee, Texas, Utah, Vermont, Virginia, Washington, Washington, D.C., West Virginia, Wisconsin, Wyoming
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Multiple Canadian Provinces
British Columbia, Manitoba, New Brunswick, Newfoundland And Labrador, Nova Scotia, Ontario, Prince Edward Island, Quebec, Saskatchewan, Yukon
(Online Only)
Aiki Relationship Institute
Psychologist, Licensed Clinical Psychologist
Infidelity can be one of the most painful issues couples deal with and one of the most relationship disrupting things they will experience. Over the years, I have developed a model for working with couples dealing with infidelity that is quite helpful. It requires work understanding what happened in the affair and growing beyond that, dealing with fissures in the relationship, and specific work on healing the emotional damage left by the affair. I'll be honest. It is not easy work, but those who buckle down and push through it tend to get to a good place. It is very rewarding to hear people say we are happier with our relationship than we ever have been, even if we wish we didn't have to go through this to get here.
35 Years Experience
In-Person in Oak Brook, IL 60523
Online in
PSYPACT states
Alabama, Arizona, Arkansas, CNMI, Colorado, Connecticut, Delaware, Florida, Georgia, Idaho, Illinois, Indiana, Kansas, Kentucky, Maine, Maryland, Michigan, Minnesota, Mississippi, Missouri, Montana, Nebraska, Nevada, New Hampshire, New Jersey, North Carolina, North Dakota, Ohio, Oklahoma, Pennsylvania, Rhode Island, South Carolina, South Dakota, Tennessee, Texas, Utah, Vermont, Virginia, Washington, Washington, D.C., West Virginia, Wisconsin, Wyoming
Dr. Jillian Mahatha
Licensed Mental Health Counselor, Ph.D., LCMHC, NCC, ACS, CCTP
specialize in supporting children, adolescents, and adults as they navigate the emotional impact of infidelity and relationship challenges. I provide a compassionate, nonjudgmental space to help clients process feelings of hurt, betrayal, grief, and uncertainty while developing healthy coping strategies and moving toward healing, growth, and restored trust.
14 Years Experience
Online in North Carolina, Texas
(Online Only)
Insight Therapeutic and Wellness Solutions, PLLC
Licensed Mental Health Counselor, LCMHCS, NCC, ACS
We have a licensed marriage and family therapist available to help you and your loved one with infidelity.
12 Years Experience
In-Person in Burlington, NC 27215
Online in North Carolina
Taylor's Touch Of Clarity Mental Health Counseling
Licensed Mental Health Counselor, LPC, LCMHC
We support individuals and couples navigating infidelity by providing a safe, non-judgmental space to process emotions, rebuild trust, and gain clarity on next steps. Our approach focuses on understanding the underlying factors that contributed to the breach, improving communication, and addressing feelings such as hurt, anger, and uncertainty. We work on establishing healthy boundaries, rebuilding emotional safety, and strengthening connection when appropriate. Through personalized support and practical tools, clients are empowered to make informed decisions and move forward with clarity and confidence.
8 Years Experience
Online in Georgia, North Carolina, Texas
(Online Only)
Groves Counseling Center
Counselor/Therapist, LCMHC-S, LCMHC, LCAS, MDIV
Infidelity is not a death sentence to a marriage but it must be dealt with in a way where the individual who has been hurt processes their hurt and accepts the other spouses repentance. To the spouse who has caused the infidelity, true repentance is required which does not mean "moving on!" but working through the pain.
10 Years Experience
In-Person in Gastonia, NC 28054
Online in North Carolina
Seaford Counseling Services
Counselor/Therapist, M.Ed, LCMHC
Infidelity does not have to spell the end of marriage. In fact, I have seen it become the impetus for making your marriage stronger, richer, and more satisfying than you ever thought possible. I’ve had specialized training through The Gottman Institute for how to help couples through infidelity of all kinds, and I would love to show you how this can be done.
26 Years Experience
In-Person in Matthews, NC 28105
Online in North Carolina
Haven Psychology Group
Psychologist
Infidelity can disrupt trust, safety, identity, and the assumptions a couple has made about their relationship. Our psychologists work with couples and individuals navigating betrayal, helping them understand what happened, communicate more honestly, manage intense emotions, and determine whether and how trust and the relationship can be rebuilt.
3 Years Experience
Online in Oregon,
PSYPACT states
Alabama, Arizona, Arkansas, CNMI, Colorado, Connecticut, Delaware, Florida, Georgia, Idaho, Illinois, Indiana, Kansas, Kentucky, Maine, Maryland, Michigan, Minnesota, Mississippi, Missouri, Montana, Nebraska, Nevada, New Hampshire, New Jersey, North Carolina, North Dakota, Ohio, Oklahoma, Pennsylvania, Rhode Island, South Carolina, South Dakota, Tennessee, Texas, Utah, Vermont, Virginia, Washington, Washington, D.C., West Virginia, Wisconsin, Wyoming
(Online Only)
Bobby Newell
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW, SEP
I specialize in supporting individuals navigating the impact of infidelity, whether you’re processing betrayal or trying to make sense of your own choices. Infidelity can bring up intense emotions—hurt, anger, confusion, and uncertainty about what comes next. Together, we focus on creating clarity, stabilizing emotions, and helping you move forward in a way that aligns with your values. Whether that means rebuilding trust, setting boundaries, or deciding what’s right for your future, my approach is grounded, nonjudgmental, and focused on helping you feel more clear, steady, and in control during a difficult time.
27 Years Experience
In-Person in Durham, NC 27713
In-Person in Raleigh, NC 27615
Online in North Carolina, South Carolina, Washington
Asher Lipner
Psychologist, Ph.D., SRT
Infidelity and broken trust can leave both partners feeling devastated, confused, angry, and emotionally disconnected. I work with individuals and couples dealing with the aftermath of secrecy, pornography use, affairs, compulsive sexual behavior, and betrayal trauma. My approach focuses on helping people move beyond defensiveness, shame, and blame toward greater honesty, emotional understanding, accountability, and rebuilding trust in a realistic and grounded way.
25 Years Experience
In-Person in Jackson, NJ 08527
Online in
PSYPACT states
Alabama, Arizona, Arkansas, CNMI, Colorado, Connecticut, Delaware, Florida, Georgia, Idaho, Illinois, Indiana, Kansas, Kentucky, Maine, Maryland, Michigan, Minnesota, Mississippi, Missouri, Montana, Nebraska, Nevada, New Hampshire, New Jersey, North Carolina, North Dakota, Ohio, Oklahoma, Pennsylvania, Rhode Island, South Carolina, South Dakota, Tennessee, Texas, Utah, Vermont, Virginia, Washington, Washington, D.C., West Virginia, Wisconsin, Wyoming
Patricia Tuohy
Counselor/Therapist, M.S. LCMHC Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor and EMDR Certified Therapist
Infidelities can be absolutely devastating and be made worse by triggering earlier memories. We will work together to put one foot in front of the other to find healing , so you can make the best decision for you moving forward.
24 Years Experience
Online in North Carolina
(Online Only)
Elite Therapeutic Solutions, LLC
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
Infidelity feels like the ultimate betrayal. We help you to learn how to repair insecure and unstable relationships.
16 Years Experience
Online in Indiana, North Carolina
(Online Only)
Vanessa Roddenberry
Psychologist, Ph.D.
I provide evidence-based therapy for couples or individuals who want to address infidelity in their relationships. It's possible to reconnect and foster intimacy, build communication skills, recover from infidelity, and put a spark back in your relationship. Therapy can also be helpful if the experience of infidelity has been emotionally traumatic for you or your partner. I provide a safe, calm space in which to process your feelings about this experience. I offer concrete skills and techniques to help you and your partner reach your relationship goals.
14 Years Experience
In-Person in Raleigh, NC 27615
Online in North Carolina
Grace in the Shadows
Licensed Professional Counselor, PhD, MDiv, MA, NCMHC, ALMHC, VALMHC, SCMHC, FLMHC, KYMHC, IDMHC
I address infidelity with a compassionate and faith-centered approach, recognizing the profound emotional and spiritual impact it has on individuals and relationships. Integrating psychological expertise with Christian principles, I create a safe space for individuals to explore the complexities of infidelity while drawing upon biblical teachings on forgiveness, redemption, and restoration. The therapeutic process involves addressing the emotional wounds caused by betrayal, encouraging honest communication, and exploring the possibility of rebuilding trust through faith-based principles. I incorporate prayer, scriptural reflection, and discussions on repentance and grace to guide individuals and couples through the healing journey. By integrating Christian values into the therapeutic process, the counselor aims to support individuals in finding forgiveness, navigating the path towards reconciliation, and fostering a renewed commitment to their faith within the context of addressing infidelity.
11 Years Experience
Online in Multiple States
Alabama, Florida, Idaho, Kentucky, North Carolina, South Carolina, Virginia
(Online Only)
Dr. Tracy Mallett
Psychologist, Psy.D., L.M.F.T., Licensed Psychologist
Infidelity can be one of the most painful and destabilizing experiences a couple can face. The discovery of an affair often brings intense emotions—shock, anger, sadness, guilt, confusion—and leaves both partners questioning what is real, what went wrong, and whether repair is possible.
I specialize in helping individuals and couples navigate the emotional aftermath of infidelity with honesty, compassion, and structure. Therapy provides a safe space to slow down the chaos, understand the deeper dynamics that contributed to the rupture, and begin to rebuild a sense of safety and clarity.
For couples seeking reconciliation, our work may include establishing emotional transparency, rebuilding trust through consistent and verifiable actions, and learning new ways to communicate about pain and vulnerability without escalating conflict. For those uncertain about the future of their relationship, therapy can help clarify each partner’s needs and boundaries, and support respectful decision-making about next steps.
For individuals recovering from infidelity—whether betrayed or betraying—therapy focuses on understanding emotional patterns, rebuilding self-worth, and making sense of the experience in a way that fosters growth rather than lasting shame or resentment.
My approach integrates cognitive-behavioral and attachment-based strategies to address both the emotional and practical aspects of recovery. Together, we work toward healing, accountability, and—when possible—renewed trust and intimacy built on a stronger foundation than before.
22 Years Experience
Online in California, Iowa,
PSYPACT states
Alabama, Arizona, Arkansas, CNMI, Colorado, Connecticut, Delaware, Florida, Georgia, Idaho, Illinois, Indiana, Kansas, Kentucky, Maine, Maryland, Michigan, Minnesota, Mississippi, Missouri, Montana, Nebraska, Nevada, New Hampshire, New Jersey, North Carolina, North Dakota, Ohio, Oklahoma, Pennsylvania, Rhode Island, South Carolina, South Dakota, Tennessee, Texas, Utah, Vermont, Virginia, Washington, Washington, D.C., West Virginia, Wisconsin, Wyoming
(Online Only)
Janice Cuaresma
Licensed Mental Health Counselor, MA, LCMHCA, NCC
I am trained in the Gottman Method's approach to working through infidelity and building a new relationship. The framework consists of three main phases: 1) Atone, 2) Attune, and 3) Attach. This necessitates the extramarital affair being over so the two partners can be 100% focused on their current connection. Couples gain techniques to improve communication and connection. Moreover, they dismantle their old relationship and co-create a new, strong one.
4 Years Experience
In-Person in Raleigh, NC 27601
Online in North Carolina
Nour Counseling
Counselor/Therapist
Infidelity is often reduced to a single moment—but for most people, it’s an earthquake that shakes everything: trust, identity, history, and your sense of reality in the relationship. Whether you were the one betrayed or the one who stepped outside the relationship, the impact is real and complex. There’s often a mix of anger, grief, confusion, guilt, and a constant loop of questions that don’t have easy answers. And while people around you may push for quick decisions—leave, stay, forgive, move on—the truth is, it’s rarely that simple.
At Nour Counseling, we don’t take a one-size-fits-all stance on infidelity. We’re not here to tell you what you should do—we’re here to help you get clear on what actually makes sense for you. We work with you to unpack what happened, understand the dynamics that led up to it, and process the emotional impact without minimizing or rushing it. This includes rebuilding trust (if that’s the direction you choose), setting clear boundaries, navigating communication, and addressing the deeper patterns in the relationship. We also make space for the cultural and relational expectations that shape how infidelity is understood and responded to—because those pressures are real. This is honest, grounded work focused on helping you move forward with clarity, not just reaction.
9 Years Experience
Online in North Carolina, South Carolina
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