Online Codependency therapists in Bend, Oregon OR
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Dr. Stéphanie Gamache, PhD
Hypnotherapist, PhD
Codependency often reflects early relational patterns in which emotional needs, boundaries, and self-worth became entangled with the needs of others. My work integrates psychoanalytic exploration and somatic awareness to understand how these patterns continue to shape adult relationships. Together, we work toward greater emotional autonomy, clarity, and the capacity to remain connected to oneself while being close to others.
7 Years Experience
Online in Bend, OR (Online Only)
GRIS ALVES
Counselor/Therapist, Compassionate Inquiry, Trauma Informed Mindfulness Teacher
I help clients struggling with codependency understand how early attachment experiences and relational patterns shape overgiving, people-pleasing, and boundary challenges. Using a trauma-informed, compassionate approach, we work to build self-awareness, emotional autonomy, and healthier, more balanced relationships. Therapy provides a safe space to break old patterns and reconnect with your authentic self.
11 Years Experience
Online in Bend, OR
Dr. Michael Marossy
Psychologist, Ph.D.
Codependency often develops when a person becomes overly focused on the emotional needs, approval, behaviors, or wellbeing of others while losing connection with their own needs, identity, and emotional boundaries. Many individuals struggling with codependent patterns experience chronic guilt, people-pleasing, fear of rejection, difficulty setting boundaries, emotional exhaustion, or repeated involvement in unhealthy or one-sided relationships.
I help clients better understand the relational and emotional patterns underlying codependency while developing greater self-awareness, emotional autonomy, assertiveness, and healthier interpersonal boundaries. Therapy focuses on helping clients build more balanced and authentic relationships without losing their sense of self in the process.
8 Years Experience
Online in Bend, OR
Hannah Nyznyk Christian
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT #133278
We help clients recognize patterns of over-giving, people-pleasing, and blurred boundaries. Therapy focuses on developing healthy relationships rooted in self-worth and balance.
7 Years Experience
Online in Bend, OR
Julien Moe
Hypnotherapist, Diploma in Clinical and Applied Hypnosis, Diploma in Life Coaching
Patients with this disorder are getting resilient in no time. I get their habit disorder treated by my Dicit hyptherapy and clinical hypnosis. How Hypnotherapy Treats Codependency: Hypnotherapy works to change underlying, often subconscious, beliefs such as "I am only valuable if I am helping others" or "I must fix my partner's problems".Setting Boundaries: It helps individuals establish healthy emotional boundaries and gain the confidence to say "no" without guilt. Addressing Root Causes: By relaxing the mind, therapists can access memories or traumas that triggered the codependent behavior to foster emotional healing. Building Self-Esteem: Hypnotherapy helps individuals reconnect with their own needs, interests, and identity outside of the relationship.
10 Years Experience
Online in Bend, OR
Karen Queller
Art Therapist, M.A Expressive Arts Therapy
I can guide and support individuals dealing with codependency by facilitating creative processes that encourage self-exploration, fostering self-awareness, and empowering them to establish healthy boundaries and cultivate self-care practices.
7 Years Experience
Online in Bend, OR
Lesley Lacny
Licensed Professional Counselor, M.A, Psych.R, C.Psych, LPC
Codependency can show up as over-focusing on others’ needs, difficulty setting boundaries, people-pleasing, or feeling responsible for other people’s emotions and choices. It often leads to exhaustion, resentment, and a loss of connection to your own needs and identity.
I offer therapy for codependency to help you understand the deeper emotional patterns that keep you stuck in these dynamics. Together, we’ll explore how these patterns developed, how they show up in your relationships, and what’s happening beneath the urge to over-give or over-function.
The work focuses on building healthier boundaries, strengthening self-trust, and developing a more balanced and grounded sense of self in relationships.
20 Years Experience
Online in Bend, OR (Online Only)
Layla Ashley Psychotherapy
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
Codependent patterns often develop from learning to prioritize others’ needs while losing connection with your own. Therapy can help you reclaim healthy boundaries, self-trust, and more balanced relationships.
23 Years Experience
Online in Bend, OR
Donna M Torbico - HEAL & GROW for ACoAs
Counselor/Therapist, Recovery Therapist in Private Practice 40 years
Co-dependency is an expression of the False Self developed in a narcissistic &/or alcoholic home. It's the compulsion to find one's identity through the eyes of other people, instead of from inside oneself. (Blog : 2017)
40 Years Experience
Online in Bend, OR (Online Only)
XaHara A. MeGod
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LCPC, R-DMT, CPT
Codependency often shows up as overgiving, people-pleasing, or losing yourself in others’ needs. I gently guide you back to yourself—your desires, boundaries, and worth. Using relational and somatic tools, we’ll heal the patterns that keep you stuck in caregiving at your own expense, and practice what it means to love without losing yourself.
8 Years Experience
Online in Bend, OR (Online Only)
Sonya M Jones
Licensed Mental Health Counselor, Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC
Loving someone who has an active or prior dependency, obsession, or addiction can be physically, emotionally, mentally and spiritually exhausting! With Codependency comes anxiety, stress, and often depression. Your expectations are often broken which can effect your self worth and peace of mind. We will work on your identified goals for our time together. This may include identifying thinking patterns and behaviors and how to reshape things in a positive way. Learning Self-compassion and tools and skills to address the anxiety and other emotions and thoughts that accompany codependency will be a part of our work. You might benefit from processing the root concerns, triggers and any trauma that may be informing your codependency.
19 Years Experience
Online in Bend, OR
Benné Gulick, MA LPC
Licensed Professional Counselor, Licensed Professional Counselor
Many of my clients have experienced feelings of codependency. Some of the same regulation tools that are useful for stress and anxiety can help here.
7 Years Experience
Online in Bend, OR (Online Only)
Victoria Miller
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW
You're trying to make a loved one's life better but nothing seems to change. You're trying to have lasting friendships and relationships but things always seem off balance and a struggle. Without healthy boundaries eventually these relationships can go off the rails leaving you devastated and wondering "what did I do wrong?" I will help you understand how codependent patterns develop and how these patterns have transferred to other relationships. I will help you explore what it means to have healthy boundaries and help your relationships grow stronger, be more balanced, eventually helping you to feel less anxiety and stress.
20 Years Experience
Online in Bend, OR
Kaijah Bjorklund
Counselor/Therapist, LPC, LMHC
Codependency often develops as a brilliant survival strategy — if you focus on everyone else's needs, you stay safe, loved, or needed. But over time it can leave you feeling invisible, resentful, and unsure who you even are outside of taking care of others. In our work together, we use IFS to gently explore the parts of you that learned to over-give, and we begin rebuilding your relationship with your own needs, voice, and sense of self — so you can love others without losing yourself in the process.
12 Years Experience
Online in Bend, OR (Online Only)
Ever After Individual and Family Therapy
Marriage and Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
When relationships become imbalanced, codependency can lead to emotional exhaustion and loss of self-identity. We help clients set healthy boundaries, build self-worth, and develop relationships based on mutual respect and independence.
17 Years Experience
Online in Bend, OR (Online Only)
Kelli Hall
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW
I work with individuals who find themselves over-functioning or over-accommodating in relationships.
This often includes difficulty saying no, feeling responsible for others, or prioritizing others’ needs over your own.
Together, we focus on developing boundaries, clarifying needs, and building more balanced, authentic relationships.
13 Years Experience
Online in Bend, OR (Online Only)
Tycee Belcastro
Marriage and Family Therapist, M.A., LMFT, CSTIP
Codependency can feel like a tangled mess where you’re not sure who’s responsible for what in your relationships—or even in your own life. It’s that blurry line where you might take on too much, lose sight of your own needs, or struggle to know where you end and someone else begins. That’s why working on codependency is a big part of my relationship therapy. I’ll help you sort out what’s truly yours to carry, set clear boundaries, and figure out what and who you are truly responsible for. This isn’t just about making relationships work—it’s about feeling solid in who you are. In our sessions, we’ll untangle this together in a warm, safe and educational space so you can build stronger connections and a stronger sense of self.
21 Years Experience
Online in Bend, OR
Chuck Chapman
Counselor/Therapist, LPC
Many men don’t realize they are struggling with codependency because it doesn’t look like the stereotypical picture. You might be the responsible one, the dependable one, the one who tries to avoid conflict and keep the peace. You care deeply, you try hard, and you want the people you love to be happy. But somewhere along the way, your relationships may have become built around managing other people’s feelings instead of expressing your own. You may say yes when you mean no, suppress your frustration to avoid an argument, or carry the emotional load of the relationship in silence. Over time, this leads to resentment, exhaustion, emotional disconnect, and the quiet belief that your needs don’t matter—or worse, that having needs makes you selfish.
This is what I call Nice Guy Syndrome. It’s not about being kind; kindness is good. It’s about abandoning yourself in the hope of earning love, approval, or peace. The irony is that the more you try to be “the good guy,” the more distant, frustrated, or shut down the relationship can become. You lose your voice, your leadership, and your sense of self.
My work with Nice Guys is about helping you come back to yourself. We learn to identify your needs, set boundaries that protect connection rather than threaten it, and speak with clarity instead of walking on eggshells. We explore where these patterns came from and how they’ve shaped your relationships. This isn’t about becoming a jerk or swinging to the opposite extreme. It’s about becoming a Confident Husband—a man who leads with presence, stands in integrity, expresses himself honestly, and loves from a grounded, open heart. You don’t need to earn love. You need to show up as the man you actually are.
16 Years Experience
Online in Bend, OR (Online Only)
Meghan Hanes
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW
Codependency often develops when we learn to prioritize the needs, emotions, or expectations of others above our own. You may find yourself struggling with boundaries, feeling responsible for other people's happiness, or losing sight of your own needs and identity. Therapy can help you develop healthier relationships, stronger boundaries, and a deeper connection with yourself.
9 Years Experience
Online in Bend, OR (Online Only)
Angelica Amaya
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW,LICSW
I specialize in helping clients understand and heal patterns of codependency that can keep them feeling stuck, anxious, or disconnected from their authentic selves. Together, we work to build healthier boundaries, strengthen self-worth, and create more balanced, fulfilling relationships. My approach is compassionate, trauma-informed, and focused on helping you develop the confidence to meet your own needs without guilt or fear.
21 Years Experience
Online in Bend, OR (Online Only)
Codependency therapists in Bend, Oregon Statistics
Codependency therapists in Bend, Oregon average 16 years of experience and charge around $193 per session. 100% offer online sessions. The most commonly treated issues are Codependency (100%), Anxiety or Fears (87%), and Depression (79%).
Average years in practice
16 Years Experience
Average cost per session
$193
Gender ID
| 62% |
Female |
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| 27% |
Male |
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| 9% |
Gender Fluid |
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| 2% |
Non-Binary |
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Session Type
| 54% |
Online Only |
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| 46% |
In Person and Online |
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Top Specialties
| 100% | Codependency |
| 87% | Anxiety or Fears |
| 79% | Depression |
| 74% | Self Esteem |
| 69% | Trauma and PTSD |
| 69% | Stress |
| 64% | Loss or Grief |