Online Anger Management therapists in United Kingdom
Browse online Anger Management therapists in United Kingdom. Compare credentials, specialties and therapeutic approach. Contact a therapist to learn more.
Anna Dafna
Psychologist, MEd, BEd, QTS, GMBPsS, ADHD & Executive Function Coach Accred, Leadership, Somatic & Polyvagal Cert
Anger Management & Emotional Regulation - Complimentary Consultation
Do you find that anger, frustration or emotional overwhelm sometimes take over before you have time to think?
For many people with ADHD and other neurodiversity, emotions can feel intense and immediate, making it harder to pause, regulate reactions and protect important relationships.
Through a neuroscience-informed and strengths-based approach, I coach clients understand the connection between ADHD, impulsivity and emotional regulation, and develop practical ways to respond rather than react.
Together we work on building emotional awareness, steadiness and healthier patterns in communication and relationships.
Book a complimentary consultation to explore whether this approach is the right fit for you.
24 Years Experience
In-Person in London, England W1W 7LT
In-Person in London, England SW8 1DL
Online in Australia, United Arab Emirates, United Kingdom
Kylie Feller
Licensed Professional Counsellor, MA, CCC
Anger isn’t the problem—it’s a messenger.
If you struggle with explosive reactions, simmering resentment, or shutting down out of fear of your own anger, you’re not alone. Anger is often a protective response rooted in deeper pain, unmet needs, or parts of us that never felt safe or heard. Through Internal Family Systems (IFS), I help you explore the parts of you that carry anger and the parts that judge it—so you can understand what’s really underneath and respond with more choice, calm, and clarity. Anger doesn’t have to control you; it can become a powerful guide for healing.
10 Years Experience
Online in United Kingdom,
British Columbia (Online Only)
Dr George Booty. The PsychoTRAUMA Clinic (Convergence College of Psychotherapy)
Registered Psychotherapist, Dr, DPsych, MA Couns, MA Psych, PG Dip Spvn
Anger management is a real issue to today and domestic violence abuse has been significantly on the rise. I am able to identify and help sufferers on both sides with the anger.
31 Years Experience
In-Person in Milton Keynes, England MK14 6LY
In-Person in London, England W1G 9QD
Online in Australia, Spain, United Kingdom
Kamini Wood
Life Coach, FHH, CLC, CPM
Anger is rarely the whole story. It is often a signal that something deeper needs attention, whether that is stress, unmet needs, unresolved hurt, fear, or difficulty expressing emotions in healthy ways. Together, we'll explore what is driving your anger, identify the patterns that keep it going, and develop practical strategies to regulate emotions, communicate more effectively, and respond with greater intention rather than reacting in the moment.
8 Years Experience
Online in United Kingdom, North Carolina,
British Columbia (Online Only)
Benjamin Marr
Counsellor/Therapist, BA MA Relational Psychotherapist/ Birkbeck College - Psychodynamic Counsellor
In many cases, relational psychotherapy can be particularly useful in overcoming anger issues, particularly on the one-to-one basis that I employ in my private practice.
Professionally, I always recognise that when a client acknowledges that s/he has a possible problem with an emotional imbalance and wishes to actively seek assistance to change, then this is a very positive first step towards solving the anger issues.
35 Years Experience
In-Person in London, England SW3
Online in United Kingdom
James Skinner - YouBeYou Therapy
Counsellor/Therapist, Psychotherapist, PACFA, NLP Practitioner
Anger isn’t something to be managed, it’s something to be understood. It’s a signal, not a flaw, and when you learn to work with it, you can make conscious choices instead of reacting on autopilot. Together, we’ll uncover what’s beneath the surface, helping you transform anger into awareness and action. You don’t have to stay stuck in old patterns, let’s create real change. Get in touch today.
6 Years Experience
Online in Australia, New Zealand, United Kingdom
(Online Only)
Peter Dutton
Registered Psychotherapist, Psychotherapist, Life Coach, Sports Performance Psychologist. Registered BACP Member
I will help to understand the causes and triggers, and how to manage
14 Years Experience
In-Person in Chelmsford, England CM2 7PX
Online in United Kingdom
John Castleford
Registered Psychotherapist, MA, MIAEB, FRAI
Anger management often shows itself as frustration with lack of control over external circumstances as well as passing on pressures from others. My go-to on this is coaching based on Stoicism, particularly applying insights from Marcus Aurelius (e.g: "the consequences of anger often exceed the causes of it") and Seneca, who reminds us that emotional responses are rarely rational. We all know anger can stop us thinking clearly.
18 Years Experience
In-Person in Dereham, England
Online in Australia, Ireland, United Kingdom
Gemma Autumn
Counsellor/Therapist, Integrative Adult and Adolescent Counsellor Cert, PgDip, MBACP Accredited
I work with those wishing to explore issues related to anger. Anger can be a particularly hard emotion to work with in our culture and can be accompanied by feelings of shame and often beneath that, sadness. I welcome all of this in our work together.
10 Years Experience
Dr Grenville Major
Therapist, MBchB, MRCpsych, MSc psychological therapies
The goal of therapy is not to remove anger, like a surgical procedure might remove something bad, because you can't do that. Anger is something that is present in all of us. Rather the goal of therapy is to help you learn how to manage your anger so that you can use it productively. I would like to meet with you to see what can be done to help you. This will enable us to get to know each other and see if we can work together. It’s important for you to work with someone you trust and feel safe with.
45 Years Experience
In-Person in Bristol, England BS16 1AD
In-Person in London, England SW19 2RW
Online in United Kingdom
Janine & ComposurePsychology Team
Psychologist, Chartered Clinical Psychologist, HCPC & BPS registered, DClinPsy, CSAccred.(AAC), MPhil (cantab)
All of our Clinical Psychologists at ComposurePsychology are experienced in helping people understand and manage anger.
13 Years Experience
Ashley Horsley
Registered Psychotherapist, BA, MA, Post MA Dip, BACP Accred
Unless it is rightful anger - for example in response to cruelty like seeing someone kicking a dog - then anger is actually a cover-up for deeper more painful feelings of sadness or fear or loss. It feels easy to get angry because we have more control. It is an energetic response rather than a passive, helpless response. It is often, also, learned ie copied behaviour. Let´s look at what is going on for you that makes anger your go-to and how to re-channel this misplaced energy into something more helpful.
24 Years Experience
In-Person in Hastings, England
Online in Spain, Switzerland, United Kingdom
Leonie M Dippenaar
Life Coach, BWRT® Master Coach | Certified Hypnotherapist (CHT) | Ethno Psychology Practitioner (EPP)
I help clients understand what is beneath their anger rather than simply learning to suppress it. We identify the triggers, subconscious patterns, and emotional responses driving the reaction, then develop new ways of responding with greater calm, self-control, and confidence.
18 Years Experience
Online in Netherlands, South Africa, United Kingdom
(Online Only)
Eric C Bettelheim
Registered Psychotherapist, PhD, MSc., J.D., M.A. A.B. Member: BACP, BPC.
My approach to anger management is to identify the sources of anger as a foundation to altering behaviour.
4 Years Experience
In-Person in London, England W8
Online in United Kingdom
Dr Paul Garden
Psychologist, Doctorate in Psychology, DPsych, MSc with Distinction, BSc First Class Honours.
Anger is often a misunderstood and feared emotion, both to feel it within yourself and from others. I specialise in helping a person to understand their anger; why it's there, what it's for, and how they can manage and tolerate it.
11 Years Experience
In-Person in London, England W1W
Online in United Kingdom
Sheelagh Brown
Psychologist, Psychologist, CBT Therapist, Executive Coach
Anger is more often than not an expression of other emotions being overwhelmingly experienced. Find out more about your anger and how to manage it
24 Years Experience
In-Person in Newbury, England
Online in U.S. Virgin Islands, United Arab Emirates, United Kingdom
Sudeva Hawkes
Registered Psychotherapist, Registered Clinical Counsellor, B.Couns., MNCPS Accred. , PACFA Reg.
With extensive experience in addressing anger and its consequences—both for those affected by it and those struggling to control it—I aim to create a judgment-free environment where you can explore its roots and impacts. My method is unique, blending clinical insights with trauma healing and incorporating proven techniques like Steven Stosny's HEALS method. We'll work together using meditation and mindfulness to develop healthier ways of managing anger.
29 Years Experience
Online in Australia, Ireland, United Kingdom
(Online Only)
Sara Aicart-Pendlebury
Art Therapist, Human Givens Practitioner (HG.Dip.P), Member of Human Givens Institute, IFS therapist Levels 1&2, Narm Practitioner
Road rage, plane rage, even art-gallery rage (when an exhibition is too crowded) are becoming all too familiar terms and are just some of the forms that over-the-top anger can take in modern-day life. Excessive anger can have an obvious trigger or else seem to occur out of the blue; and it can ruin lives, as work and relationships suffer. Excessive anger always results from stress and essential emotional needs not being met. That’s why the human givens approach, which focuses on helping people in distress find healthy ways to meet their emotional needs, is so successful.
The ability to get angry is natural. It is part of the ancient ‘fight or flight’ survival mechanism, which evolved to help our long-distant ancestors survive when, faced with attack from wild animals or invading tribes, they either had to stand up for themselves or flee. The pulse races, adrenalin surges, breath gets fast and shallow, blood surges into the muscles of the legs and arms and the body gets flooded with stress hormones, all so that we are ready to take action if we decide to act aggressively to ward off something or someone. Once action has been taken, the feelings subside.
But, today, there are far fewer occasions when threat is as real and physical as just described. If we get frustrated or feel angry with the boss, we may have to keep those feelings to ourselves, which leaves them circulating with no obvious way of being discharged. Or we may become more and more wound up by little annoyances that build up over the day until we reach a point when, over something seemingly trifling, we snap. There are many other circumstances that can lead us to have lower tolerance for irritations – for instance, overtiredness, feeling ill or hungry, hormonal changes, chronic pain or addictive cravings.
Sometimes people have a tendency towards anger because of chronic low self-esteem, which usually stems from abuse or neglect during childhood. As adults, they may never feel good or worthy enough and tend to lash out if they perceive themselves as slighted in any way. Mild brain damage can cause a loss of impulse control and aggression. And people on the autistic spectrum are often more prone to angry outbursts because of their difficulties and frustrations in trying to relate to other people and make sense of the social world.
More often than is realised, aggression is triggered by fear and sometimes it is a long-forgotten fear. For instance, a man who, as a child, was locked in a tiny dark space under the stairs as a punishment, may lash out, seemingly inexplicably, at his wife when she wants him to check the space under their stairs for damp. This is because an ‘alarm system’ in our brain, called the amygdala, accesses our emotional memories and, on the basis of previous experience, alerts us to anything that may represent a risk. Because the stair cupboard experience was so traumatic and frightening, it stays ‘live’, causing the man to experience terror all over again, usually without knowing why. Sometimes, too, repeated and seemingly inexplicable anger outbursts stem from ‘pattern matching’ to a shocking situation in childhood, when anger was felt but, at the time, suppressed.
Fortunately, people can be helped to deal with their anger, whatever its cause. Human givens practitioners will show people how to calm themselves down quickly (this is essential, as high emotional arousal makes us stupid, stopping us from listening to reason); encourage them to take exercise (doing enjoyable physical activity is a great way to discharge accumulated stress); and help them to examine and change their self-talk – having hostile thoughts only harms us – and to look at situations from other people’s perspectives as well as their own.
Simple, effective techniques can be used to resolve anger outbursts arising from incidents in the past, so that these cease to occur in the future.
Finally, human givens practitioners will help people explore what needs are not being met in their lives, which may be fuelling anger – for instance, a lack of a sense of achievement or status or control or connection with others may cause feelings of inferiority and hostility. Experiencing uncontrollable or excessive anger always means that something is not working well in a person’s life. No one is naturally an ‘angry’ person; they are just, temporarily, overcome by anger and can learn how to cease to be its victim.
17 Years Experience
In-Person in Chamonix, France
Online in France, United Kingdom
Dipak Jilka - Psychotherapist & Counsellor
Therapist, Psychotherapy & Counselling Federation of Australia (PACFA) – PACFA Reg. Clinical 26570
Anger is often viewed as a bad and taboo emotion in our society. However, I believe anger is a very useful and important emotion to be explored. Anger is not merely as a symptom to suppress, but as a meaningful, often "daimonic" (inner force, neither good nor evil) reaction to life’s limitations, lack of meaning, or loss of freedom. I invite you to come and explore your unique experience of anger and find the deeper meaning for you. If you are challenged with managing your anger, I will work with you on approaches to regulate you anger and to suppress it.
6 Years Experience
In-Person in Sydney, NSW 2000
Online in Australia, New Zealand, United Kingdom
Chris Chicoteau
Counsellor/Therapist, Master of Counselling, IFS Level 2
Gain a deeper understanding about what is underneath your anger and connect with how this emotion can be regulated.
16 Years Experience
In-Person in Bulimba, QLD 4171
Online in Australia, New Zealand, United Kingdom