Online Codependency therapists in Cottage Lake, Washington WA
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Brittany Rine
Licensed Mental Health Counselor, LMHC
Codependency is the need to be needed. When we are always needed, we can experience exhaustion and resentment. This can be a tricky cycle to find yourself in. My approach when addressing codependency is to help clients uncover who they are, what they like, and what they are good at without listening to any opinion but their own. We will also look at boundaries and how to create healthy ones for the sake of looking out of ourselves. There will be a lot of psycho-education on codependency in an effort to strengthen the client's self-awareness and change undesired behaviors.
6 Years Experience
Online in Cottage Lake, WA
Michelle Bloom, PsyD
Psychologist, PsyD, PsyPact
Setting healthy boundaries is something many of us did not effectively learn in childhood, even in the most well meaning and loving of families. We have, instead, learned to live life to serve others and to prioritize the needs of others, even when doing so harms ourselves. My approach is to help my clients create healthy boundaries, advocate for the self, learn to communicate our needs clearly and directly, and then learn to act upon the needs we have outlined to those we love so we can cultivate healthy and mutually effective relationships. Cutting the ties of codependency is central to this process: staying in one's own lane, letting others solve their own problems, offering compassion and help when asked, letting go of the rescue fantasy, living without an emotional hangover, and learning to accept that there is much we cannot control.
29 Years Experience
Online in Cottage Lake, WA (Online Only)
Family Dynamics Counseling Services, INc
Counselor/Therapist, LMHC, CDPT, CCTP
Over 10 years understanding and reseaching Codependency and it's effects on people
15 Years Experience
Online in Cottage Lake, WA
Ross Kellogg, LMFT
Marriage and Family Therapist, Licensed Individual, Marriage, and Family Therapist (LMFT)
Codependents often report exhaustion and identity fusion (also called fragmentation). I have extensive experience and training to address codependent compulsions and help you find a consistent and confident sense of self.
12 Years Experience
Online in Cottage Lake, WA (Online Only)
Roderic Burks - Integrative Mental Health
Licensed Mental Health Counselor, MS, MS HSc, MA, LMHC, LPC
I help clients navigate codependency through a trauma-informed, parts-based approach. We explore the patterns that drive overgiving, people-pleasing, and difficulty setting boundaries. Together, we build healthier relationships with yourself and others, fostering self-trust and balance.
26 Years Experience
Online in Cottage Lake, WA (Online Only)
Gary D. Alexander
Marriage and Family Therapist, MS, MFT, NCC
Codependency often shows up as a pattern of putting others’ needs ahead of your own, difficulty setting boundaries, or feeling responsible for other people’s emotions. Rather than simply trying to change behaviors, our work focuses on understanding the deeper relational patterns and early experiences that shaped these tendencies. As awareness and self-trust grow, many people begin to develop healthier boundaries and a stronger sense of themselves within relationships.
23 Years Experience
Online in Cottage Lake, WA
Dr. Shelley Sommerfeldt
Psychologist, Psy.D.
Codependency often involves losing yourself in relationships, putting others’ needs above your own, struggling with boundaries, or tying your self-worth to how others feel. I help individuals recognize these patterns, rebuild a strong sense of self, and develop healthier, more balanced relationships. Together, we’ll work to create emotional independence, stronger boundaries, and a deeper sense of confidence and self-respect.
24 Years Experience
Online in Cottage Lake, WA (Online Only)
Dr. Stéphanie Gamache, PhD
Hypnotherapist, PhD
Codependency often reflects early relational patterns in which emotional needs, boundaries, and self-worth became entangled with the needs of others. My work integrates psychoanalytic exploration and somatic awareness to understand how these patterns continue to shape adult relationships. Together, we work toward greater emotional autonomy, clarity, and the capacity to remain connected to oneself while being close to others.
7 Years Experience
Online in Cottage Lake, WA (Online Only)
Lisa Calderwood / New Dawn Counseling, LLC
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW, LICSW
With addiction or family dysfunction come codependence. With over 30 years of experience with addiction and substance abuse, I understand that this creates codependency and work with people on understanding what it means to be codependent and how to change from people pleaser to a more confident person who lives for themselves with others in their lives.
26 Years Experience
Online in Cottage Lake, WA (Online Only)
Tycee Belcastro
Marriage and Family Therapist, M.A., LMFT, CSTIP
Codependency can feel like a tangled mess where you’re not sure who’s responsible for what in your relationships—or even in your own life. It’s that blurry line where you might take on too much, lose sight of your own needs, or struggle to know where you end and someone else begins. That’s why working on codependency is a big part of my relationship therapy. I’ll help you sort out what’s truly yours to carry, set clear boundaries, and figure out what and who you are truly responsible for. This isn’t just about making relationships work—it’s about feeling solid in who you are. In our sessions, we’ll untangle this together in a warm, safe and educational space so you can build stronger connections and a stronger sense of self.
21 Years Experience
Online in Cottage Lake, WA
Nadia Amjoun
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LSWAIC, SUDP
Navigating codependency, people-pleasing, and patterns of overextending themselves in relationships can be difficult to do alone. Therapy focuses on increasing self-awareness, setting healthy boundaries, and strengthening your sense of self.
2 Years Experience
Online in Cottage Lake, WA (Online Only)
Matthew Wolfe
Licensed Mental Health Counselor, LMHC, MHP
Codependency is essentially when one person sacrifices their identity/boundaries/needs to another who sacrifices their empathy, regard, and compassion. It's bad for both but the non-prioritized partner suffers the additional danger of self-alienation or even self-annihilation. We would work to bolster sense of self, personal safety, and accountability-focused healthy communication. Nobody should be chipped away into nothingness for the benefit of someone else.
13 Years Experience
Online in Cottage Lake, WA (Online Only)
Tacoma Wellness Collective
Licensed Clinical Social Worker
If you've spent most of your life making sure everyone else is okay — and quietly losing yourself in the process — you're not broken. You're running a pattern that made sense at some point. It just may not be serving you anymore.
Codependency often looks like being the reliable one, the peacekeeper, the person who holds everything together. It can feel like love. It can feel like strength. But underneath, there's often a deep fear of conflict, rejection, or not being enough.
At TWC, we help adults untangle those patterns — where they came from, how they show up in relationships today, and what it looks like to show up for others without abandoning yourself in the process.
This work takes honesty and time. We think it's some of the most meaningful work there is.
When you're ready, we're here.
13 Years Experience
Online in Cottage Lake, WA
Samantha Kingma
Marriage and Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Have you noticed that you haven’t been feeling quite like yourself? Like something feels off, but you’re not exactly sure why? No matter how hard you work, you always feel behind and can't seem to ever catch up on your to-do list. Maybe you keep thinking that you "should" be doing better and you "shouldn't" be struggling this way. You want to be present, calm, and confident, but you aren’t sure how to get there. It is possible for you to feel like yourself again and I'd love to talk to you about how you can get there.
I help teens, adults, and couples who are feeling stuck and disconnected to find freedom and relief. I'll collaborate with you to notice the themes and patterns occurring in your life that might be causing problems and then work alongside you to find new options and solutions to address those patterns.
Whether you are experiencing anxiety, dealing with past trauma, relationship difficulties, or just think it might be helpful to talk to someone about how you are feeling, I’d love to talk with you about how I can help. Visit my website to schedule a free phone consultation, and we can chat about whether I might be the right therapist for you.
13 Years Experience
Online in Cottage Lake, WA
Bonfire Healing - Bonnie Deopp, MS, LMHC, CN
Licensed Mental Health Counselor, LMHC, CN, EMDR certified, Clinical Supervisor
Welcome, We're so glad you’re here! Bonfire Healing provides outpatient telehealth therapy with focus on complex mental health issues and developmental trauma along with co-occurring eating issues, addictions, chronic health conditions, nuerodiversity, and maladaptive behaviors. Our mission is to promote health equity through increasing access to evidence-based trauma treatment while utilizing insurance benefits so that this care is both high quality and affordable to more people. We view co-dependency as a coping tool to reduce anxiety; "I'm only ok if you're ok" that stems from trauma experiences and difficult experiences in childhood. We take a relational approach and we are in this together. We combine evidenced based modalities to heal these impacts on your nervous system and bring back regulation that decreases anxiety when someone is not ok so that you can be ok regardless. We also emphasize learning how to honor and value your inherent worth.
15 Years Experience
Online in Cottage Lake, WA (Online Only)
Denise Delph
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW-R
Codependency is something that we don't always realize is defining our relationship, if you have already acknowledged that there is codependency then let's see how we can work together on this issue.
18 Years Experience
Online in Cottage Lake, WA
Nicole Waters (Flowing Waters Counseling)
Counselor/Therapist, LMHC
When your sense of worth depends on others’ approval or happiness, it can feel exhausting and you can lose sight of your own needs. Therapy can help you find balance by setting healthy boundaries, develop self-trust, and rediscover your own voice. Together, we’ll work toward relationships that are mutually supportive and emotionally fulfilling.
7 Years Experience
Online in Cottage Lake, WA (Online Only)
Kate Mageau (she/her)
Licensed Mental Health Counselor, LMHC, ADHD-CCSP, NCC, CIMHP, C-DBT
Codependency is a key component of emotional abuse, toxic relationships, and domestic violence. It is often a precursor to all of these, so I help people to understand how codependent relationships form and how they last, how to notice signs of them turning into toxic relationships, and how to choose and keep healthy relationships. If you subscribe to my website, you can get a free handout on codependency! I have a book series, a workbook, and a course on this to help you learn and heal through the methods that work best for you. I currently only have these self-led supports for this.
4 Years Experience
Online in Cottage Lake, WA (Online Only)
Lois Spence
Counselor/Therapist, MS, LMHCA
Let’s find the space to manage and grow your own individual self.
5 Years Experience
Online in Cottage Lake, WA
Amy Look
Psychologist, PhD, LP
Are you feeling overwhelmed by a constant need to please others, often at the expense of your own well-being? Do you struggle with setting boundaries, or making your needs known in relationships? Together, we'll work toward developing healthy boundaries, enhancing your self-esteem, and building fulfilling relationships without losing sight of who you are. If you’re ready to embark on this journey toward your authentic self, reach out now.
7 Years Experience
Online in Cottage Lake, WA (Online Only)
Codependency therapists in Cottage Lake, Washington Statistics
Codependency therapists in Cottage Lake, Washington average 16 years of experience and charge around $194 per session. 100% offer online sessions. The most commonly treated issues are Codependency (100%), Anxiety or Fears (92%), and Depression (85%).
Average years in practice
16 Years Experience
Average cost per session
$194
Gender ID
| 64% |
Female |
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| 30% |
Male |
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| 4% |
Non-Binary |
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| 2% |
Gender Fluid |
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Session Type
| 54% |
Online Only |
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| 46% |
In Person and Online |
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Top Specialties
| 100% | Codependency |
| 92% | Anxiety or Fears |
| 85% | Depression |
| 76% | Self Esteem |
| 72% | Stress |
| 65% | Loss or Grief |
| 65% | Trauma and PTSD |