Online Codependency therapists in California
We are proud to feature top rated online Codependency therapists in California. We encourage you to review each profile to find your best match.
Victoria Miller
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW
You're trying to make a loved one's life better but nothing seems to change. You're trying to have lasting friendships and relationships but things always seem off balance and a struggle. Without healthy boundaries eventually these relationships can go off the rails leaving you devastated and wondering "what did I do wrong?" I will help you understand how codependent patterns develop and how these patterns have transferred to other relationships. I will help you explore what it means to have healthy boundaries and help your relationships grow stronger, be more balanced, eventually helping you to feel less anxiety and stress.
20 Years Experience
In-Person in Walnut Creek, CA 94598
Online in California, Oregon
Patricia Anna Martucci
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT, SEP, EMDR Certified Therapist, RYT-200
I help individuals and couples in their relationships with themselves andw each other.
16 Years Experience
In-Person in Manhattan, NY 10036
In-Person in Old Tappan, NJ 07675
Online in California, New Jersey, New York
Susana Scotti, Journey Psychotherapy
Psychologist, PhD
Struggling with codependency can leave you feeling emotionally exhausted, stuck in unhealthy relationship patterns, and unsure of your own needs or boundaries. You may find yourself prioritizing others at the expense of your well-being, feeling responsible for fixing or rescuing those around you, or experiencing guilt when you try to put yourself first. As a licensed psychologist with expertise in trauma, addiction, and mood disorders, I understand how codependent patterns often develop as a way to cope with past experiences and relational wounds. In therapy, we work together to uncover these underlying dynamics, build self-awareness, and strengthen your sense of identity and self-worth.
My approach is compassionate, collaborative, and grounded in evidence-based practices. I help clients develop healthier boundaries, improve communication, and learn how to engage in relationships from a place of balance rather than obligation or fear. Whether codependency is connected to past trauma, substance use, or ongoing anxiety or depression, our work will focus on helping you create more fulfilling, stable, and authentic connections, starting with the relationship you have with yourself.
13 Years Experience
Online in California, New York
(Online Only)
Charis Khoury
Marriage and Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
For those that were trained to self-abandon, returning "home" and learning to derive self worth from more reliable (internal) sources is one of the most rewarding achievements.
16 Years Experience
In-Person in Oakland, CA 94618
Online in California
Lisa Abrams-Misbeek
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
If you find yourself with over responsibility and difficulty setting boundaries, therapy can help explore the issues underlying these patterns. We will work on developing the tools to cultivate stronger sense of self, build healthier relationships and prioritize your own well-being.
15 Years Experience
Online in California
(Online Only)
Stuart Kaplowitz / Serene Pathways Counseling
Counselor/Therapist, MFT
Taking care of others can be a wonderful thing. If, however, we are sacrificing you in the process, we need to address your needs and you wishes too.
33 Years Experience
In-Person in Chino, CA 91710
Online in California
Wildflower Therapy Group
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW, C-IAYT
At Wildflower Therapy Group, we help clients explore codependency patterns with compassion and without judgment. Therapy can support clients in understanding relational wounds, building healthier boundaries, reconnecting with their own needs, and developing a stronger sense of self within relationships.
6 Years Experience
In-Person in Charlotte, NC 28226
Online in Multiple States
California, New Mexico, New York, North Carolina
Stephanie Brumfield
Therapist, LCSW
In my therapeutic practice, I address codependency as a complex interplay of emotional dynamics that often stems from deep-seated needs for approval, validation, and love. This pattern of behavior, while initially developed as a survival strategy in response to challenging relational environments, can lead to a loss of self-identity, boundary issues, and an overarching sense of dissatisfaction in one's relationships and personal life. Recognizing codependency as a sign of the soul's longing for genuine connection and self-realization, I offer a compassionate space for individuals to explore and understand these patterns, fostering a journey towards healing and autonomy.
The focus of our work together is on unraveling the layers of codependency, identifying its roots in past experiences, and understanding its impact on current relationships and self-perception. By cultivating self-awareness and self-compassion, clients are guided towards reclaiming their independence, establishing healthier boundaries, and developing a stronger sense of self-worth. This transformative process not only improves relationships with others but also deepens the connection to oneself, enabling a life lived with more authenticity and fulfillment.
Emphasizing the importance of personal growth and empowerment, my approach seeks to empower individuals to break free from the cycles of codependency, leading to a life marked by healthier relationships, emotional resilience, and a profound sense of inner freedom. Together, we work to create a future where one can engage in relationships not out of neediness or fear, but from a place of strength, wholeness, and genuine love.
8 Years Experience
Online in California
(Online Only)
Melissa Quinn Pollock
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW
Codependent relationships may look harmonious, but often feel anything but peaceful to be partnered in. If you are struggling with codependent feelings, and want to understand them more from a holistic standpoint as well as bbut needy toward your own life, I can help.
13 Years Experience
Online in California
(Online Only)
Emily Echeverria
Marriage and Family Therapist, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, MS
People-pleasing, conflict avoidance, difficulty setting boundaries, caretaking at the expense of oneself, and intense anxiety in relationships can often be signs of codependency. Many people don't feel like they can be okay unless everyone they love is okay. This can appear of loving but often feels exhausting. I work with clients to help them understand where their codependent behaviors originated and how they currently impact their life so that client's can process unconscious fears and become more independent, confident, and healthier in relationships.
6 Years Experience
Layla Ashley Psychotherapy
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
Codependent patterns often develop from learning to prioritize others’ needs while losing connection with your own. Therapy can help you reclaim healthy boundaries, self-trust, and more balanced relationships.
23 Years Experience
In-Person in Valley Village, CA 91607
Online in California, Florida, Oregon
Matthew Kijak, LCSW
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW
Codependency can be like a heavy burden, pulling us down and clouding our vision. But, together, we can learn to navigate our relationships and find balance. As a therapist, my goal is to be a compassionate guide on your journey towards understanding and transcending patterns of codependency. Together, we will explore the underlying causes of your behaviors, and develop effective strategies for healthy communication and boundaries. We'll use mindfulness and cognitive-behavioral therapy techniques to help you understand the impact of your actions on others, and work towards advocating for your own needs in social situations. My guidance will be gentle and understanding, as we work towards a brighter future, with healthier and more fulfilling relationships. Let's start this journey together, and take the first step towards inner peace and self-discovery.
8 Years Experience
Hannah Nyznyk Christian
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT #133278
We help clients recognize patterns of over-giving, people-pleasing, and blurred boundaries. Therapy focuses on developing healthy relationships rooted in self-worth and balance.
7 Years Experience
In-Person in Encinitas, CA 92007
Online in California, Oregon
Julien Moe
Hypnotherapist, Diploma in Clinical and Applied Hypnosis, Diploma in Life Coaching
Patients with this disorder are getting resilient in no time. I get their habit disorder treated by my Dicit hyptherapy and clinical hypnosis. How Hypnotherapy Treats Codependency: Hypnotherapy works to change underlying, often subconscious, beliefs such as "I am only valuable if I am helping others" or "I must fix my partner's problems".Setting Boundaries: It helps individuals establish healthy emotional boundaries and gain the confidence to say "no" without guilt. Addressing Root Causes: By relaxing the mind, therapists can access memories or traumas that triggered the codependent behavior to foster emotional healing. Building Self-Esteem: Hypnotherapy helps individuals reconnect with their own needs, interests, and identity outside of the relationship.
10 Years Experience
In-Person in Queens, NY 11374
Online in Multiple States
Alabama, Alaska, Arizona, Arkansas, California, Colorado, Connecticut, Delaware, Florida, Georgia, Hawaii, Idaho, Illinois, Indiana, Iowa, Kansas, Kentucky, Louisiana, Maine, Maryland, Massachusetts, Michigan, Minnesota, Mississippi, Missouri, Montana, Nebraska, Nevada, New Hampshire, New Jersey, New Mexico, New York, North Carolina, North Dakota, Northern Mariana Islands, Ohio, Oklahoma, Oregon, Pennsylvania, Rhode Island, South Carolina, South Dakota, Tennessee, Texas, Utah, Vermont, Virginia, Washington, Washington, D.C., West Virginia, Wisconsin, Wyoming
Nes Pinar Psychotherapy
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
I help clients untangle patterns of codependency by slowing down, getting curious, and reconnecting with their own needs, boundaries, and inner wisdom. Together, we explore the stories and survival strategies that once kept you safe but now keep you stuck, making space for more choice, agency, and self‑trust. My approach is warm, relational, and steady—supporting you as you practice new ways of relating that feel authentic, mutual, and sustainable.
15 Years Experience
In-Person in Lafayette, CA 94549
Online in California
Whole Wellness Therapy
Marriage and Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Codependency is a tough habit to break. It is typically paired with a desire to help others, but we can become so consumed with someone elses life that we completely lose sight of our own. This can impact our ability to care for ourselves. This can impact our relationships with others. Getting help from a trained professional can offer some tools and self-insight that will help to break off the unhealthy parts of this habit, while still maintaining the parts of helping and supporting others that our clients enjoy.
8 Years Experience
In-Person in San Diego, CA 92108
Online in California
Brooke Taylor
Pre-Licensed Professional, MA, AMFT
Codependency often shows up as putting others' needs before your own, struggling with boundaries, and losing yourself in relationships. If you find yourself constantly trying to please others, feeling responsible for their emotions, or staying in unhealthy dynamics, you may be experiencing codependency. In our work together, I’ll help you recognize patterns of codependency, explore their origins, and develop healthier ways to relate to others. My goal is to support you in reclaiming your sense of self, establishing strong boundaries, and building fulfilling, balanced relationships. You deserve to love and care for yourself as much as you do for others.
5 Years Experience
Online in California
(Online Only)
Annalisa Barrett
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT
When we liberate ourselves from the grips of codependency, we learn to choose ourselves and stop letting others run our lives. This involves boundary work as well as exploring rehearsed patterns of self abandonment.
7 Years Experience
In-Person in Encino, CA
Online in California
Robin Bates-Pualuan
Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT, LPCC
Do you find it difficult to say no? Do you always put the needs of others ahead of your own? Do you feel selfish when you take care of yourself? While many people who answer yes to these questions have a generous heart, they can end up feeling used up, taken advantage of, and burned out. Therapy can be a great place to learn to understand the importance of your own needs and how to meet them in a way that's self-nourishing, not selfish.
14 Years Experience
In-Person in Campbell, CA 95008
Online in California
Patricia Fahmy
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPCC
Codependent patterns often develop as adaptations to earlier relationships and environments where love, approval, or emotional safety felt uncertain. You may find yourself prioritizing others' needs, struggling to set boundaries, feeling responsible for other people's emotions, or losing touch with your own needs. I help you understand the origins of these patterns, build healthier boundaries, strengthen your sense of self, and create relationships that feel more balanced, secure, and fulfilling.
7 Years Experience
Online in Arizona, California
(Online Only)