Online Codependency therapists in Lake Monticello, Virginia VA
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Amy Look
Psychologist, PhD, LP
Are you feeling overwhelmed by a constant need to please others, often at the expense of your own well-being? Do you struggle with setting boundaries, or making your needs known in relationships? Together, we'll work toward developing healthy boundaries, enhancing your self-esteem, and building fulfilling relationships without losing sight of who you are. If you’re ready to embark on this journey toward your authentic self, reach out now.
7 Years Experience
Online in Lake Monticello, VA (Online Only)
Allison Bernardo
Pre-Licensed Professional, Resident in Counseling
Do you find yourself putting everyone else’s needs before your own? Together we’ll explore patterns of people-pleasing, difficulty setting boundaries, and seeking validation from others while helping you develop healthier relationships built on mutual respect and self-worth.
1 Years Experience
Online in Lake Monticello, VA
Charles R. Davenport, Psy.D.
Psychologist, Licensed Psychologist
Dr. Charles R. Davenport provides specialized therapy for individuals struggling with codependency. Codependency often involves prioritizing the needs of others over one’s own, leading to unhealthy relationship dynamics and a loss of personal identity. Dr. Davenport utilizes evidence-based therapeutic techniques to help clients recognize and break free from these patterns.
Through cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT) and psychodynamic approaches, Dr. Davenport assists clients in understanding the root causes of their codependent behaviors. He helps them develop healthier boundaries, improve self-esteem, and foster more balanced and fulfilling relationships. Mindfulness techniques are also incorporated to enhance self-awareness and emotional regulation.
Dr. Davenport’s compassionate and supportive approach ensures that clients feel safe to explore their behaviors and make meaningful changes. By offering telehealth services in over 40 states, he makes it convenient for clients to access the care they need, regardless of their location. Dr. Davenport is dedicated to empowering individuals to reclaim their independence and build healthier, more satisfying relationships.
21 Years Experience
Online in Lake Monticello, VA
Dr. Olivia Blandford
Psychologist, Ph.D.
Difficult relationship dynamics are my bread and butter. I can help you understand the origins of your patterns and why you might be doing what you are doing. We can work together to find more balanced, effective boundaries and learn how to deliver them effectively.
6 Years Experience
Online in Lake Monticello, VA
Elisha S Lee
Counselor/Therapist, NCCA CTCC CPC
Our counseling services for codependency are designed to address and heal the patterns of behavior that lead individuals to form or maintain one-sided, emotionally destructive, and often abusive relationships. Understanding that codependency stems from deep-seated needs and often begins in one's family of origin, we provide a supportive environment that promotes self-awareness, independence, and healthier relational dynamics.
Empowering Self-Sufficiency and Healthier Relationships
* Identifying Patterns: We help clients identify patterns of codependent behavior and understand the underlying psychological factors that contribute to these patterns, such as low self-esteem, fear of abandonment, or an excessive need for approval.
* Establishing Boundaries: A key focus of counseling is teaching clients how to establish and maintain healthy boundaries in relationships. This includes learning to say no, recognizing one's own needs and desires, and understanding the distinction between helping and enabling.
* Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy (CBT): CBT is utilized to challenge and change unhelpful beliefs and behaviors that perpetuate codependency, fostering a healthier, more autonomous sense of self.
* Building Self-Esteem: Counseling sessions are geared toward boosting self-esteem and self-worth, empowering clients to feel confident in standing alone and valuing their own well-being as much as they value the well-being of others.
* Encouraging Interdependence: We focus on transitioning from codependency to interdependence, where healthy, mutual give-and-take relationships are the norm.
Goals of Counseling for Codependency
Our therapy for codependency aims to:
* Promote Self-Reliance: Encourage a stronger, more independent self-identity separate from one’s relationships.
* Healthy Relationship Dynamics: Facilitate the development of relationships characterized by mutual respect, balance, and emotional honesty.
* Enhanced Emotional Regulation: Equip clients with skills to manage their emotions effectively, reducing the tendency to use relationships as a way to soothe or suppress these feelings.
* Increased Awareness: Heighten self-awareness regarding the origins and triggers of codependent behaviors, enabling proactive changes.
* Lifestyle Adjustments: Support clients in making practical changes to their lifestyles that reinforce healthy interpersonal behaviors and thought patterns.
Codependency can overshadow your sense of self and disrupt your ability to maintain balanced, fulfilling relationships. With our support, you can uncover the roots of your codependent behaviors, develop a healthier approach to relationships, and embrace a more self-directed life. Reach out today to start your journey toward lasting change and relational health.
9 Years Experience
Online in Lake Monticello, VA
Jordan Johnson, Creating Connection PLC
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC(WI), LPC(VA), LPCC(MN)
I bring a research-backed attachment theory framework to codependent relationship dynamics to help those who are struggling with feeling that their relationship is toxic or unhealthy.
15 Years Experience
Online in Lake Monticello, VA (Online Only)
Andrea Miller
Counselor/Therapist, NCC
In my practice, I integrate elements of Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) to help clients with codependency develop mindfulness skills and cultivate self-compassion while committing to actions that align with their values and autonomy. Additionally, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) techniques assist clients in identifying and challenging maladaptive thought patterns and behaviors associated with codependency, promoting healthier boundaries and self-esteem. Incorporating Person-Centered Therapy principles, I provide a supportive and empathetic environment for clients to explore their emotions and experiences, empowering them to reconnect with their authentic selves and build healthier relationships.
5 Years Experience
Online in Lake Monticello, VA
Tracey Knows
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC
I help individuals struggling with codependency and anxious attachment break free from unhealthy relationship patterns and build a stronger sense of self. If you find yourself over-giving, fearing abandonment, or struggling to set boundaries, you’re not alone. My approach focuses on healing attachment wounds, developing self-trust, and creating secure, fulfilling connections. Through mindfulness, inner work, and evidence-based strategies, I help clients shift from people-pleasing and anxiety-driven relationships to ones rooted in mutual respect and emotional balance. You deserve relationships where you feel valued and at ease.
10 Years Experience
Online in Lake Monticello, VA (Online Only)
Mind Body Connections
Counselor/Therapist
As an underlying issue that so many individuals struggle with, education around this is imperative followed by psychoeducation around how to set healthy boundaries with others.
28 Years Experience
Online in Lake Monticello, VA
Amazing Grace Psychiatric Services, PLLC
Psychiatric Nurse Practitioner, PMHNP, CNM, PMH-C
Your happiness and success is not dependent on others. Let's learn why you have learned to become co-dependent and begin to gain your autonomy back!
6 Years Experience
Online in Lake Monticello, VA
Karen Queller
Art Therapist, M.A Expressive Arts Therapy
I can guide and support individuals dealing with codependency by facilitating creative processes that encourage self-exploration, fostering self-awareness, and empowering them to establish healthy boundaries and cultivate self-care practices.
7 Years Experience
Online in Lake Monticello, VA
Clear Path Counseling and Wellness Center
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA. LPC
I work with clients who struggle with Codependency issues. During our sessions, we will collaborate to create a plan for addressing them that helps you resolve such issues in a meaningful manner to restore functioning enabling and empowering you to move beyond your past. I practice from a Holistic perspective and commonly employ EMDR and other effective modalities with helping clients achieve balance and purpose in their lives and creative solutions to their problems. This includes exploring past issues and trauma that may be a factor presently. Our goal is to make lasting and desired changes to promote healthy relationships and positive interactions.
28 Years Experience
Online in Lake Monticello, VA (Online Only)
Forest Williams
Life Coach, ICF
Take the charge out of giving and receiving boundaries. What if boundaries weren't barriers, but bridges for connection?
7 Years Experience
Online in Lake Monticello, VA (Online Only)
Nancy Burns
Counselor/Therapist, JD, LMHC, LPC, MA, EMDR Certified
Do you have trouble setting boundaries with others? Do you find yourself taking care of everyone, leaving no time or energy left to care for yourself? Does your opinion of yourself shift based on what others think of you? I can help. Using a variety of mind - body approaches, we will non-judgmentally and with much compassion explore your patterns and help you build confidence in yourself, which will ultimately lead to you living an authentic life and better, more fulfilling relationships. - - - "Often a problem is like a knot with many strands, and looking at those strands can make the problem seem different." Fred Rogers
6 Years Experience
Online in Lake Monticello, VA (Online Only)
Rebecca Castle-Waller
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW
How did I get here? In some ways, it feels like I just woke up one day to find out I was taking care of everyone around me; it also feels true that I've always been taking care of others and that I've always needed others to take care of me.
Welcome, I have training in both trauma and relationships so I love to help folks unravel the puzzle of codependency versus interdependency. It's not unhealthy to need people, that's part of being a person! But where does it go too far? How can you tell, how can you set boundaries to make sure? I'm happy to work with you to help you build these skills and more as we're working on examining this pattern in your life!
7 Years Experience
Online in Lake Monticello, VA (Online Only)
Michelle Bloom, PsyD
Psychologist, PsyD, PsyPact
Setting healthy boundaries is something many of us did not effectively learn in childhood, even in the most well meaning and loving of families. We have, instead, learned to live life to serve others and to prioritize the needs of others, even when doing so harms ourselves. My approach is to help my clients create healthy boundaries, advocate for the self, learn to communicate our needs clearly and directly, and then learn to act upon the needs we have outlined to those we love so we can cultivate healthy and mutually effective relationships. Cutting the ties of codependency is central to this process: staying in one's own lane, letting others solve their own problems, offering compassion and help when asked, letting go of the rescue fantasy, living without an emotional hangover, and learning to accept that there is much we cannot control.
29 Years Experience
Online in Lake Monticello, VA (Online Only)
Dionysica Stewart
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, LCPC
I support clients in breaking free from the patterns of codependency that can leave them feeling drained, unseen, or overly responsible for others. Drawing from Melody Beattie’s Codependent No More workbook, I guide clients through practical steps to set healthy boundaries, reconnect with their own needs, and build self-worth. Together, we’ll create space for healthier relationships and a stronger, more empowered sense of self.
10 Years Experience
Online in Lake Monticello, VA (Online Only)
Candace Plattor
Drug and Alcohol Counselor, M.A. in Counselling Psychology from Adler University
When we keep trying to put other people's needs ahead of our own, we lose ourselves in terms of our self-care and our self-respect. Often families do this with the addicts they love - and it creates a lose-lose situation for everyone concerned,
35 Years Experience
Online in Lake Monticello, VA (Online Only)
Soma Aloia, SoulWork Somatics & Somatic Counseling
Counselor/Therapist, MS, LCST, HES
Many people learn early in life to care for others before caring for themselves. Therapy can help you understand your attachment style so you may strengthen healthy boundaries, reconnect with your own needs, make confident decisions, and build relationships that feel mutual rather than exhausting. You will learn how to resource yourself with embodying and self-care practices. Learning to love all the parts of you.
31 Years Experience
Online in Lake Monticello, VA
Kaylie Groenhout
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, NCC, EMDRIA Certified Therapist
It's easy to lose the map to your own needs when you're constantly focused on the well-being of others. Healing from codependency involves Self recovery, that central part of yourself that knows your worth is not tied to your productivity or your sacrifices. We work to establish healthy boundaries and rebuild a relationship with yourself that feels balanced and restorative.
4 Years Experience
Online in Lake Monticello, VA
Codependency therapists in Lake Monticello, Virginia Statistics
Codependency therapists in Lake Monticello, Virginia average 16 years of experience and charge around $196 per session. 100% offer online sessions. The most commonly treated issues are Codependency (100%), Anxiety or Fears (88%), and Depression (84%).
Average years in practice
16 Years Experience
Average cost per session
$196
Gender ID
| 63% |
Female |
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| 28% |
Male |
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| 5% |
Non-Binary |
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| 4% |
Gender Fluid |
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Session Type
| 56% |
In Person and Online |
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| 44% |
Online Only |
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Top Specialties
| 100% | Codependency |
| 88% | Anxiety or Fears |
| 84% | Depression |
| 71% | Stress |
| 71% | Self Esteem |
| 70% | Trauma and PTSD |
| 68% | Loss or Grief |