Warning Signs of Narcissistic Abuse in Toxic Marriages and Its Impact on Gut Health Navigating a toxic marriage marked by narcissistic abuse can leave deep emotional and physical scars, often manifesting as chronic health issues like gut disease. The pain of narcissistic abuse—gaslighting, emotional manipulation, and neglect—can trap you in a cycle of denial, dissociation, […]
Cognitive Therapy is based on the fact that what we think affects our mood. Thinking negative thoughts can lead to depression, anxiety, guilt, and other unnecessary and uncomfortable emotions such as frustration and embarrassment. Many psychologists have designed elaborate programs of identifying the type of negative thought, looking up a specific antidote thought, and writing […]
In our society there are many issues that we tend to ignore or pretend that they do not exist. Mental health is one of the issues that we tend to ignore or pretend that it doesn’t exist, in our society. It’s the “dirty little secret” people whisper about and will talk about behind someone’s back. […]
A reflection on the deeper mechanics of personal transformation There’s a moment in a person’s journey of self discovery when they realize that knowing what’s right and actually doing what’s right are two entirely different things. You might have experienced this yourself—perhaps you’ve read countless self-help books, attended workshops, or even developed what seemed like […]
I am passionate about resolving my client’s issues, not just helping them to cope with triggers, or to simply manage their addiction or depression. This kind of approach, like many mindfulness and traditional talk therapy techniques, as well as medication, is incomplete, temporary, and a crutch. They do not fix the problem or inspire success. They simply mask the […]
We have all heard very often how important a mother is to a child especially a young child. Mother’s Day is one of our biggest holidays. While this is true Dads are just as important to children and young children. I say Dad because any man can father a child, but it takes work to […]
No one is perfect and no parent is perfect. Additionally, being a parent is not a popularity contest and at times a parent must make unpopular decisions. Therefore, parents are going to make mistakes and make unpopular decisions as they are raising their children. There is no reason to make a big issue about […]
Todays world is very complex and confusing. This is exactly a time when parents and teenagers need to have open, honest communication. However, many teenagers report feeling frustrated with their parents because they feel that their parents do not listen to them. As a result, many teenagers decide not to listen to their parents. They […]
Working with children and adolescents I have had many parents ask about 504 plans and Individual Educational Plans (IEP). Parents tend to focus on the assistance their child may need in elementary or high school due to a learning disability or mental health issues. Working over 25 years as a psychotherapist, what I have observed […]
Parents worry about their teenagers starting High School, however, they also worry a great deal about their teen going off to college. When a teen starts high school a parent can still watch what is going on and help out if they feel they need to. However, with college their teenager is on their own. […]
