Be Curious. Get to know your friend, it takes time to learn about another person. Don’t be so quick to assume or jump to conclusions. Avoid Attacking or Judging others. Listen and Validate. Friends want to be heard and understood by you. Listen to what the other person is saying. Use those empathy skills to […]
MANAGING TIME-A LIFE SKILL WORTH LEARNING As parents prepare their youth for adulthood they focus on over 25 life skills that their child needs to learn and practice at a mastery level prior to entering into their adult years. Why a mastery level? Because if we allow mediocre work at home and in school and […]
Engulfed by a Storm Those who have never been in a domestic violence situation are often perplexed as to how intelligent people become trapped and why they remain with someone who is abusive. In an effort to help provide clarity let us consider the dynamics of the following story: Imagine as if you are […]
PARENTING ADULT-LIKE CHILDREN An article to share: With some of my own insights. Parents are often overwhelmed as their children become adults in chronological age yet still have the maturity and judgment of a 15 year old – less. Adult children should be equipped with life skills and motivated to take on adult responsibilities like […]
Positive parenting is a construct that we Marriage and Family Therapists, and Professional Counselors seek to educate and to coach our parents as to the dynamics of such parenting. Parents come with multiple complaints of how their little ones are oppositional and defiant. With a nutrition background of 17 years, connections with a local Nature-path, […]
Over the course of my ten years as a Licensed Therapist I have been able to recognize certain patterns in people and relationships which have become normalized in today’s society. As I sat pondering the relationship between healthy attachments and emotions, I thought “emotions are the key to having the desired relationships we yearn for.” […]
From a Counselor view: The topic of Abortion normally derives two sides: The side of the baby’ right to life as the baby thrives within a natural environment which is healthy and nurturing; although a separate entity. OR The side of the woman, who’s body is doing a very natural thing; is healthy (normally) […]
It is important to be able to reflect mindfulness in our communication and have the ability to speak to issues of conflict appropriately. This is most beneficial. With these skills then we can incorporate them into every walk of life and discover that relationships at work and at home will become much more pleasant and […]
If you want to have a fantastic relationship with your partner, empathy is paramount. It’s what’s lacking in many couples that I’ve helped. First let’s define exactly what empathy is. It’s likened to getting inside someone’s head and understand what they’re thinking and feeling in THEIR world, not yours. It doesn’t mean you have to […]
Anger is a common and universal emotion, which is often referred to as a secondary emotion, because it serves to protect us from other vulnerable feelings. Clinicians and researchers believe that anger covers a primary emotion such as sadness, fear, or anxiety. Our behavioral therapists also believe that children and adolescents with anger issues are […]
