“What do I do? What do I say? How do I say it? How should I look? How do I pull this off? What’s he gonna think of me? I gotta do this for everyone else. I can’t screw up. I’m so freaking anxious.” Sound familiar? These words are like a soundtrack stuck on repeat […]
Behavioral Methods in Couples Therapy All behavior has a purpose and couples therapy is no different (Besharat, 2003). Behavioral therapists will manipulate family systems, even a change in one partner can manipulate the couple dynamic (Munichin, 1974). The couple tends to follow rules to keep the system in homeostasis (Barsharat, 2003). By breaking the […]
It’s gut-wrenching to admit that the person you love is breaking your soul and body, piece by piece. The truth is, when you’re caught in a relationship with a narcissistic partner, their hurtful patterns can erode your confidence, self-worth, and emotional well-being over time. It’s tough to face because, deep down, you might feel you […]
Warning Signs of Narcissistic Abuse in Toxic Marriages and Its Impact on Gut Health Navigating a toxic marriage marked by narcissistic abuse can leave deep emotional and physical scars, often manifesting as chronic health issues like gut disease. The pain of narcissistic abuse—gaslighting, emotional manipulation, and neglect—can trap you in a cycle of denial, dissociation, […]
Relationships thrive on love, support, and mutual respect. But when one partner struggles with low self-esteem, it can create an emotional barrier that affects the health of the relationship. A supportive partner can play a vital role in fostering self-confidence and helping to nurture a sense of self-worth. In this article, we’ll explore practical and […]
There are a lot of factors to consider when choosing a therapist. Of course, their expertise and/or knowledge in the area in which you are struggling is certainly very important. But do not overlook the power of connection and rapport. Establishing connection with your therapist is extremely important to the overall success in counseling, regardless […]
I am passionate about resolving my client’s issues, not just helping them to cope with triggers, or to simply manage their addiction or depression. This kind of approach, like many mindfulness and traditional talk therapy techniques, as well as medication, is incomplete, temporary, and a crutch. They do not fix the problem or inspire success. They simply mask the […]
The term “re-parenting” is frequently used to describe the process of turning inward and providing our younger selves with the care and love we may have lacked in early childhood. This internal work is crucial because when our younger parts don’t receive the nurturing they need, we can develop various symptoms—many psychological diagnoses are linked […]
In my previous post, I discussed the movement concept of “yielding” (both physically and psychologically) and its relationship with trust in the development of a secure attachment to the primary caregiver. If you haven’t read it, I encourage you to check it out.This post will focus on the “push” that comes immediately after the yield. […]
Belonging is more than just being part of a group—it’s the deep feeling of being accepted, valued, and understood. It often forms through shared experiences, interests, backgrounds, or identities, such as age, culture, faith, or sexuality. For many, it’s where we feel most at home with ourselves and others. Why is it so important? Because […]
