When Marriage Ends: How to Begin Healing After Divorce Divorce can feel like watching your world crack open. One day you’re part of a story you thought would last forever—and the next, you’re staring at blank pages. But endings can also be beginnings. This isn’t about fixing what broke—it’s about finding who you are now. […]
Halloween is coming up quickly and many children are anxiously counting the hours until Halloween. For children this is a great holiday. They get to wear a costume they like and they get free candy. What more could a child ask for? Many children plan all year about the costume they are going to […]
As a Licensed Professional Counselor, I fully support the American Counseling Association’s reaffirmed stance against conversion therapy. The ACA’s recent statement, issued alongside its participation in Chiles v. Salazar before the U.S. Supreme Court, makes something very clear: efforts to change a person’s sexual orientation or gender identity are not therapy. They are harm disguised as help. […]
You spend hours replaying conversations in your head. You can’t stop worrying. You avoid decisions because you’re afraid of what someone might think or say. You hold back, shrink, or second-guess yourself — just in case you upset someone. It’s exhausting. And it keeps you stuck. There’s a mental shift that can set you free. […]
You’ve read the articles. You’ve watched the reels. “Just say no.” “Use I-statements.” “Visualize your boundary.” It’s tempting to believe there’s a single trick that will make healthy boundaries easy. But if you’ve ever tried to hold a boundary with someone who’s hurt when you don’t give, who guilt-trips, or who simply steamrolls, you know […]
When you’ve been carrying pain for years — or struggling in a relationship that feels stuck — weekly therapy can feel too slow. You show up for 50 minutes, start to open up, then the clock runs out. The next week, you have to pick up where you left off. Real change can happen this […]
It’s 3 AM, and your phone’s too quiet. The glow of the screen feels like a spotlight on your doubts. You sent three texts—maybe four, if you’re being real. One had a heart emoji, another a question, maybe one was practically a love letter. And now? Nothing. Just silence that screams louder than any notification […]
If you are an anxiously attached dater, then you may have heard comments like “you come on too strong,” or that “you are too much too soon” when it comes to dating, and you have likely had people simply stop responding to you via text (maybe it’s happened many times), or ghost you after a […]
Working with teenagers, I often have parents who are concerned about their teenager using marijuana or alcohol. Besides the concern that their teenager may be using drugs or alcohol, they are concerned about their teenager becoming addicted. Besides marijuana and alcohol, parents are concerned about methamphetamines and heroin. Currently there is an epidemic of teenagers […]
Leaving a relationship with a narcissist or emotionally abusive partner is one of the bravest things you can do. Leaving a narcissistic or emotionally abusive relationship is tough. It can feel like someone turned your whole world upside down. And here’s the part no one really tells you: walking away doesn’t instantly make the pain […]
