Many adults are only diagnosed with ADHD later in life because their symptoms were misunderstood or overlooked during childhood. Some individuals learned to mask their struggles, while others were labeled as “disorganized,” “lazy,” or “anxious” instead of receiving proper support. In adults, ADHD symptoms often appear differently than they do in children, making diagnosis more […]
Supporting a partner who has experienced sexual trauma can be both a deeply compassionate and challenging journey. You may feel a strong desire to help them heal, yet find yourself unsure of the best way to provide comfort and understanding. The truth is, navigating this path requires patience, empathy, emotional attunement, and a willingness to […]
Healing Deep Wounds with Faith and Evidence-Based Care What Is Complex Trauma? Complex trauma—often referred to in clinical settings as Complex PTSD—develops from prolonged or repeated exposure to emotionally painful or unsafe experiences, often in early life. Unlike single-incident trauma, complex trauma is relational. It can stem from neglect, chronic stress, abandonment, or unstable caregiving. […]
I recently read a newly published book by Galit Atlas called Emotional Inheritance. Galit writes about the trauma that is unprocessed by the generations that precede us (our parents, grandparents, great grandparents), and how that trauma manifests in our lives. She calls it “the legacy of trauma,” something we inherit. It is also called the […]
Accountability in Relationships Is Hard Saying “I’m sorry” is really hard.Not getting defensive when someone points out how you hurt them? Also really fucking hard. Because it’s not just about the moment: it hits something deeper. It pokes at your identity. Your intentions. The version of yourself you believe you are. And when those don’t […]
In therapy, I often hear frustration from people who feel their partner is overly controlling or stifling, preventing them from being their true selves. Lately, the buzzword seems to be “narcissist,” but relationship dynamics are rarely that simple. Healthy relationships rely on mutual respect and balance. Many of us unknowingly carry patterns from our […]
It is one of the most common things couples bring into my office, and one of the most quietly painful: one partner reaches for connection and the other pulls back. Over time, what started as a mismatch in timing or mood can harden into something that feels much bigger — rejection on one side, pressure […]
Have you noticed that no matter how hard you try, there is a voice in your head that continues to prove that others are better than you. At times, when other people praise you, compliment on your efforts, achievements or looks; the joy is short-lived. The inner voice returns loud and clear to tell […]
A recent study from Sentio University found that nearly half of people experiencing mental health challenges are turning to AI chatbots, such as ChatGPT, for support. AI can be helpful for structured interventions like Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), psychoeducation, and self-regulation strategies. Apps that guide breathing exercises, track moods, or even offer scripted relationship advice can provide useful tools […]
We love the idea of newness. A fresh start. A clean slate. A sudden burst of motivation that finally makes everything in our lives line up. In faith spaces, “newness” can sound even more immediate—like once you pray the right prayer, choose the right habits, or “let it go,” you should feel different right away. […]
