I refer to emotional abuse as ‘hidden’ because it is given far less recognition than other forms of abuse, such as physical or sexual. The victim is often blamed. They are “oversensitive” and basically not able to “take it, like other people do”. What is Emotional Abuse Emotional abuse is an emotional attack on another […]
In my years as a therapist I have heard the above statement many times. What does it actually mean? Many people dealing with, for example, depression symptoms have put themselves inside a little box marked “Depressed Person”. They will go to therapy for depression but can never emerge from the box because. “That’s who I […]
Therapy is about developing mental fitness rather than focusing on mental illness. Over the years I have become aware that one of the biggest problems I face as a Toronto therapist is the negative attitude of people towards emotional and psychological health. Compare it to the attitude towards physical health. The attitude towards physical health has […]
Forgiveness is a subject that has been endlessly discussed. There are pros and cons. Some people insist it is necessary in order ‘to move on’. Others say forgiveness is forced and artificial. Whatever side you’re on it is agreed that we need to let go of past hurts. Many of my clients suffer from past […]
In my Toronto therapy practice I have heard many people say this. Change can be very difficult and frightening. I speak to them about real change as opposed to cosmetic change. Real Change Happens on a Deep Level – Many people come to me to make a change in their lives. For example they look at […]
“I’m just an anxious person, I’ve always been this way.” “I get really anxious, it’s just who I am.” “My anxiety is out of control, there’s nothing I can do about it!” Do any of these phrases sound familiar to you? For many people who experience anxiety, the unsettling sensations and psychological experiences that comes […]
Have you ever found yourself saying, “I know *why* I feel this way, so why can’t I change it?” You might be able to pinpoint the reason for your anxiety, overwhelm, or emotional patterns, yet despite all this insight, things still don’t seem to shift. If this sounds familiar, you’re not alone. It’s common for people intellectualize […]
What is trauma? It isn’t just something that happens to other people. It’s not just about war, disasters, or extreme abuse. Trauma can happen to anyone—and if you’re struggling with overwhelming emotions, constant stress, or difficulty in relationships, you might be dealing with the effects of trauma without even realizing it. What Is Trauma? At […]
If you’ve ever found yourself struggling with self-doubt, feeling emotionally drained in relationships, or constantly worrying about how others perceive you, you might have asked: “Why am I like this?”“Is it just my personality, or is something deeper going on?” What many people don’t realize is that the effects of childhood trauma in adults don’t always look […]
Do painful memories keep resurfacing, leaving you feeling stuck? If past experiences continue to affect your present, you’re not alone. Many people struggle with overwhelming emotions, intrusive thoughts, or distressing flashbacks that just won’t go away. The good news? You don’t have to stay trapped in the past. Accelerated Resolution Therapy (ART) is a powerful, evidence-based approach that helps […]
