Do you ever feel like you’re carrying the weight of everyone else’s emotions, leaving you completely exhausted? If you’re an empath, that drained feeling might be all too familiar, and you might not even realize why your energy keeps slipping away. I’ve been there, pouring myself out without understanding how my openness was tied to […]
You know that feeling when you’ve been driving through thick fog… You can see the road right in front of you, but nothing beyond it. Every turn feels uncertain. Every mile feels longer than it should. That’s how life can feel sometimes. You’re moving, but you’re not sure where you’re headed or if you’re even […]
Why It’s So Hard to Be Kind to Yourself (And How to Start) It’s easy to be kind to everyone except yourself. You hold space for your friends. You offer forgiveness to family. You cheer for strangers online. But when it comes to your own inner voice, it’s a different story. Instead of compassion, you […]
Everyday demands can bring on stress and anxiety, from work, to school, or showing up for others. Feeling overwhelmed with deadlines, pressure, or worry can take a toll on mood, self-esteem, focus, and mental or physical wellbeing. Some stressors may be unavoidable, but developing a stress reduction plan can make it more manageable. Mindfulness is […]
Trapped in Survival and Silence You know, I spent so much of my life stuck in survival mode, always afraid, always trying to keep the peace around men’s anger and criticism. Growing up, it was like walking on eggshells, scared I’d get screamed at or berated for any little thing, like I could never just […]
It is common to feel nervous or stressed in sports. However, when nervousness intensifies beyond a window of tolerance to heightened anxiety, athletic performance can decline. Anxiety An anxiety disorder requires a clinical diagnosis and is different from ordinary feelings of nervousness. Symptoms are often defined as “excessive” and “persistent”. Anxiety disorders often consist of […]
“What do I do? What do I say? How do I say it? How should I look? How do I pull this off? What’s he gonna think of me? I gotta do this for everyone else. I can’t screw up. I’m so freaking anxious.” Sound familiar? These words are like a soundtrack stuck on repeat […]
Warning Signs of Narcissistic Abuse in Toxic Marriages and Its Impact on Gut Health Navigating a toxic marriage marked by narcissistic abuse can leave deep emotional and physical scars, often manifesting as chronic health issues like gut disease. The pain of narcissistic abuse—gaslighting, emotional manipulation, and neglect—can trap you in a cycle of denial, dissociation, […]
Cognitive Therapy is based on the fact that what we think affects our mood. Thinking negative thoughts can lead to depression, anxiety, guilt, and other unnecessary and uncomfortable emotions such as frustration and embarrassment. Many psychologists have designed elaborate programs of identifying the type of negative thought, looking up a specific antidote thought, and writing […]
I am passionate about resolving my client’s issues, not just helping them to cope with triggers, or to simply manage their addiction or depression. This kind of approach, like many mindfulness and traditional talk therapy techniques, as well as medication, is incomplete, temporary, and a crutch. They do not fix the problem or inspire success. They simply mask the […]
