“What do I do? What do I say? How do I say it? How should I look? How do I pull this off? What’s he gonna think of me? I gotta do this for everyone else. I can’t screw up. I’m so freaking anxious.” Sound familiar? These words are like a soundtrack stuck on repeat […]
It’s gut-wrenching to admit that the person you love is breaking your soul and body, piece by piece. The truth is, when you’re caught in a relationship with a narcissistic partner, their hurtful patterns can erode your confidence, self-worth, and emotional well-being over time. It’s tough to face because, deep down, you might feel you […]
Warning Signs of Narcissistic Abuse in Toxic Marriages and Its Impact on Gut Health Navigating a toxic marriage marked by narcissistic abuse can leave deep emotional and physical scars, often manifesting as chronic health issues like gut disease. The pain of narcissistic abuse—gaslighting, emotional manipulation, and neglect—can trap you in a cycle of denial, dissociation, […]
Cognitive Therapy is based on the fact that what we think affects our mood. Thinking negative thoughts can lead to depression, anxiety, guilt, and other unnecessary and uncomfortable emotions such as frustration and embarrassment. Many psychologists have designed elaborate programs of identifying the type of negative thought, looking up a specific antidote thought, and writing […]
A reflection on the deeper mechanics of personal transformation There’s a moment in a person’s journey of self discovery when they realize that knowing what’s right and actually doing what’s right are two entirely different things. You might have experienced this yourself—perhaps you’ve read countless self-help books, attended workshops, or even developed what seemed like […]
I am passionate about resolving my client’s issues, not just helping them to cope with triggers, or to simply manage their addiction or depression. This kind of approach, like many mindfulness and traditional talk therapy techniques, as well as medication, is incomplete, temporary, and a crutch. They do not fix the problem or inspire success. They simply mask the […]
“I don’t offer coping strategies for when you do that thing you shouldn’t do. You’ll never need ‘crutches’ after sessions with me, because I only offer total resolution.” You might think that counselling with me is like seeking help from many other health and well-being practitioners. That we’ll just talk a bit, I’ll write you […]
Sometimes, what you’re carrying isn’t even yours.Invisible loyalties are unconscious bonds we form with family members, often from past generations, out of love, guilt, or survival. Without realizing it, you may repeat a parent’s suffering, block your own abundance, or stay in relationships that mirror ancestral pain. These loyalties are not logical — they’re soul-level […]
Depression is a complex mental health condition characterized by a variety of symptoms, including persistent sadness, loss of interest in activities, and fatigue. However, one lesser-discussed aspect of depression is when feelings of sadness transform into feelings of anger. This shift can be confusing and frightening, but it is not uncommon. Here, we will explore […]
As I have said before, the teenagers in this generation are different from past generations. One way they are different are they question the “norm” and they are setting new standards. One area where they have set new standards is in the area of sexuality. Since June is Gay Pride Month let’s look at teenagers […]
