No one just wakes up one day and decides to end a marriage—especially if there are kids involved. What I see more often in my work is women—especially moms—staying in relationships where they are exhausted, overwhelmed, and emotionally depleted. Burned out beyond belief. Stuck in cycles of hope and heartbreak. They wait. They try. And […]
“I’m just an anxious person, I’ve always been this way.” “I get really anxious, it’s just who I am.” “My anxiety is out of control, there’s nothing I can do about it!” Do any of these phrases sound familiar to you? For many people who experience anxiety, the unsettling sensations and psychological experiences that comes […]
Have you ever found yourself saying, “I know *why* I feel this way, so why can’t I change it?” You might be able to pinpoint the reason for your anxiety, overwhelm, or emotional patterns, yet despite all this insight, things still don’t seem to shift. If this sounds familiar, you’re not alone. It’s common for people intellectualize […]
Living With Anxiety: 2 Easy Strategies for Managing Stress By Monica Pitek-Fugedi, LPC, NCC Anxiety is like a toddler with a megaphone, relentlessly screaming until it gets your attention. If it had a motto it would be why worry tomorrow when you can worry today? Anxiety tells us that we have something to fear. […]
4 Powerful Ways to Lessen Anxiety If we let it, anxiety will fool us into believing that we are incapable of living a well-functioning life. It tells us a story of weakness, and makes us live in a world of “I can’t.” This sounds horrible, right? We all tell ourselves stories about who we are. […]
Ever feel like your brain is buffering? You know there’s something important you should be doing—some next step, some big decision—but it’s like trying to see through fog. Everything feels unclear, overwhelming, and just stuck. You’re not alone. That mental fog? It’s real, and it has a sneaky way of keeping us from moving forward. […]
What is trauma? It isn’t just something that happens to other people. It’s not just about war, disasters, or extreme abuse. Trauma can happen to anyone—and if you’re struggling with overwhelming emotions, constant stress, or difficulty in relationships, you might be dealing with the effects of trauma without even realizing it. What Is Trauma? At […]
If you’ve ever found yourself struggling with self-doubt, feeling emotionally drained in relationships, or constantly worrying about how others perceive you, you might have asked: “Why am I like this?”“Is it just my personality, or is something deeper going on?” What many people don’t realize is that the effects of childhood trauma in adults don’t always look […]
Guarding your boundaries is an important part of living a life that’s not only healthy and happy but meaningful. Imagine an invisible fence set around yourself, with a single gate that is shut and locked, with only you in possession of the key. How does that make you feel? When we have good personal boundaries, […]
When it comes to emotional wellness, one of the most challenging yet transformative actions we can take is setting boundaries, especially within our family dynamics. As a Licensed Professional Counselor specializing in trauma recovery, I’ve witnessed firsthand the profound impact that establishing boundaries can have on one’s journey towards healing and self-discovery. This article delves […]
