Burnout doesn’t always look like exhaustion. Many people experiencing burnout are still showing up for work, caring for others, and getting through their day. On the outside, they seem fine. Underneath, they may feel anxious, emotionally exhausted, disconnected from themselves, or unable to truly relax. Common signs of burnout can include: • Feeling constantly “on” […]
Hai aspettato anni. Anni in cui ti sei detta: quando avrò imparato la lingua, trovato la routine, smesso di sentirmi straniera al lavoro, starò meglio. Quando avrò il contratto a tempo indeterminato, starò meglio. Quando avrò lo scatto di carriera, starò meglio. Quando avrò sistemato l’affitto, starò meglio. Quando avrò comprato una casa più grande, […]
I was on a podcast recently (Airdrie Inside, if you want to track it down) and the host asked me to explain EMDR. I reached for the metaphor I always reach for, because it works: think of the way your mind processes experience like a paper shredder quietly running in the background. Most of […]
How the “Feeling Broken” Trend Can Hold Us Back Rethinking the Story We Tell Ourselves Introduction Let’s be real: everywhere you look these days, people are talking about how “broken” they feel. Whether it’s in conversations, social media posts, movies, or even song lyrics, the idea that we’re all somehow messed up has kind of […]
Many people come to therapy saying, “I have anger issues.” What often follows is a story of feeling misunderstood, values undermined, boundaries pushed, overwhelmed, dismissed, hurt, exhausted, or pushed beyond their limits. The truth is that anger is one of the most misunderstood emotions. We are often taught that anger is bad, dangerous, disrespectful, or […]
Sometimes we know that a belief is no longer helping us—and still cannot seem to let it go. It may sound like: “I have to handle everything myself.” “If I make a mistake, people will think I am incapable.” “If I set a boundary, they will leave.” “I need to know exactly what will happen […]
Why Setting Boundaries Feels Guilty for High Achievers (and How to Shift It) | Amority Health Published June 14, 2026 Austin, TX Written By: Rachel Cooper, MS, LPC Associate Supervised by Dr. Amber Quaranta Leech, LPC-S For high-achieving adults, saying “no” can feel uncomfortable, even impossible. Boundaries are often mistaken for […]
She described her morning the way a lot of my clients do, as evidence that she was handling it. This was a typical morning with six decisions before 10am. A complicated email from a colleague, managed. A question about a project deadline, answered. Two back-to-back meetings, covered. She was responsive, competent, and visibly on top […]
Why High Achievers Struggle With Rest: Understanding Burnout, Guilt, and Overfunctioning | Amority Health June 7, 2026 Austin, TX Written By: Rachel Cooper, MS, LPC Associate Supervised by Dr. Amber Quaranta Leech, LPC-S Why Rest Feels So Hard for High Achievers For many high-achieving adults, rest doesn’t feel restorative, it […]
Is It Introversion or Avoidance? How to Tell the Difference | Shifting Perceptions | Amority Health Written By: Rachel Cooper, MS, LPC Associate Supervised by Dr. Amber Quaranta Leech, LPC-S Is It Introversion or Avoidance? We all say no sometimes; skip plans, leave early, or prefer quiet time. But how do you […]
