ABCs of Self-Care “Self-care is not self-indulgence, it is self-preservation.” – Audre Lorde Oftentimes, we treat self-care as an afterthought. We wait until we reach our lowest, the point at which we realize something needs to change and hence, we turn to self-care. However, this positions self-care as a band-aid, a temporary fix. It is…

Not everyone connects with their inner child or even have the desire to. What made you want to explore this concept? Well I had to realize that all my adult ways weren’t working. I tried therapy, I tried to handle the here and now, I tried to mask, I drank, I tried to handle each…

I’m your resource. What do you want to know about fear? I’m afraid. I don’t like it What don’t you like about it? It makes me panicky and on edge. What does panicky and on edge feel like? A tightness on my chest, I can’t think straight. What does that feeling make you want to…

This is a follow-on to the previous week’s post (available here) in which we explored Sankalpa as sacred commitment aligning actions with a profound sense of purpose to positively impact one’s leadership skills. 1. Personalized Learning for Leadership Development.In a post-Covid era when the dinner table became the conference room, leadership from home transformed to propel…

In the quest for mental wellness and personal development, the digital world offers a new frontier of possibilities. With the advent of innovative technologies and the rise of virtual platforms, there’s an expanding universe of resources that can complement traditional therapy and coaching. For those on a journey of self-improvement, digital tools not only bring…

Trauma can have a profound impact on a person’s life, not only in terms of their immediate physical and emotional reactions, but also in terms of the long-term beliefs and attitudes they develop about themselves and the world. These beliefs, often referred to as “core beliefs,” can significantly impact a person’s mental health and overall…

Unraveling the Chains: How Negative Core Beliefs Shape Our Lives Introduction: In the complex tapestry of human experience, our beliefs serve as the invisible threads that weave together the fabric of our reality. These beliefs, often formed in the crucible of our early experiences, can either propel us toward success and fulfillment or shackle us…

Finding Happiness in the Face of Life’s Uncertainties An incident from my early childhood on my parents’ small farm left a lasting impression on me about the fragility and preciousness of life. A family friend, in a moment of recklessness or curiosity, fired a .22 rifle, narrowly missing me, a mere 6-month-old baby sleeping peacefully…

  Many fear waking up in old age filled with regret, especially regarding their relationships. They dread the thought of not having done enough to save their marriage, the impact of a divorce on their children, or not acting sooner before it was too late. This fear of regret is a powerful motivator to take…

  Dispelling 5 Myths About Saving Your Marriage” Working as a marriage counselor, mentor, and coach, I’ve encountered numerous myths about saving marriages. These misconceptions can be misleading and detrimental. This post aims to clear up these myths and shed light on the realities that can help save your marriage. Myth 1: Both Partners Must…