Searching for a trauma therapist is a lot to ask of someone who’s already running low. You scroll through bios that all sound the same and try to figure out who might actually be a good fit for the specific, complicated, very human things you’re carrying. One thing worth knowing first: trauma doesn’t always look […]
If you’re a woman who feels constantly overwhelmed, distracted, or “behind” – despite trying hard to stay organized – you’re not alone. Many women with ADHD go years without a diagnosis, often being misunderstood or misdiagnosed along the way. The truth is, ADHD in women can look very different than the stereotypical hyperactive presentation, and […]
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If you have ever sat in a church pew feeling like your world was falling apart, only to have a well-meaning friend tell you to “just pray about it,” you know the unique sting of spiritual bypassing. You may have walked away feeling not only the original weight of your anxiety or grief but […]
When the Healers Need Healing Every day, counsellors, therapists, and health workers across the globe step into rooms filled with pain, trauma, and human suffering. They listen, they empathize, they guide pouring their emotional energy into helping others heal. But who is listening to them? Who holds space for the healers when the weight of […]
Preteens today are navigating increasingly complex emotional landscapes. Anxiety, overwhelm, sensitivity, and self-doubt often begin to emerge during these years, sometimes without the language or tools needed to make sense of what they’re experiencing. For many children, emotions can feel sudden, intense, and confusing. They may not yet have the ability to clearly express what’s […]
Most couples don’t begin marriage expecting their childhood to influence their disagreements. Yet many partners eventually notice that arguments about money, intimacy, communication, or parenting can feel bigger than the issue itself—almost like the relationship is on the line. That’s often because marriage doesn’t just join two people. It brings together two nervous systems, two […]
To the outside world, you are the picture of resilience. You are the high-achieving professional, the reliable community leader, and the person everyone turns to when a problem needs solving. You meet your deadlines, maintain your commitments, and appear to have everything under control. But behind the scenes, there is a different story. For […]
What Do Couples Argue About? www.bastiontherapy.com You may have wondered what other couples argue about. And if you reflect on your own arguments, you may have wondered how your arguments relate to how other couples argue and whether couples therapy might be helpful. First, let’s recognize that disagreements among couples is normal, but that conflict […]
In psychotherapy and couples therapy at Bastion Therapy, we can explore tools that can help with couples conflict and conflict in general. www.bastiontherapy.com Have you ever wondered if the way you and your partner communicate during conflict might not be ideal? One potential tool is changing your opening statement in a conflict discussion. In a […]
