Everyday demands can bring on stress and anxiety, from work, to school, or showing up for others. Feeling overwhelmed with deadlines, pressure, or worry can take a toll on mood, self-esteem, focus, and mental or physical wellbeing. Some stressors may be unavoidable, but developing a stress reduction plan can make it more manageable. Mindfulness is […]
Letting go of a narcissist you love hurts like hell. Love is how you navigate life, how you feel your way through the world. But if you were wired to love people who hurt you—people who demanded you sacrifice yourself, manage their emotions, and abandon your own needs while being treated in ways you didn’t […]
In a world that’s always pushing us to perform, to do, to measure up, it’s so easy to lose ourselves. When you add narcissistic abuse—whether from parents, partners, or family—it’s like a wrecking ball to your freedom. You’re told your feelings don’t matter, your ideas aren’t valid, and your autonomy? Forget about it. That kind […]
Nestled in the vibrant heart of Fitzroy at 35 Rose Street, Clarity Health Care’s Fitzroy clinic brings together a full team of highly qualified Fitzroy psychologists—clinical psychologists, general psychologists, psychiatrists, social workers, and occupational therapists—all working collaboratively under one roof. This multidisciplinary setup ensures you receive seamless, evidence-based care in a calm and welcoming environment. […]
It’s gut-wrenching to admit that the person you love is breaking your soul and body, piece by piece. The truth is, when you’re caught in a relationship with a narcissistic partner, their hurtful patterns can erode your confidence, self-worth, and emotional well-being over time. It’s tough to face because, deep down, you might feel you […]
Warning Signs of Narcissistic Abuse in Toxic Marriages and Its Impact on Gut Health Navigating a toxic marriage marked by narcissistic abuse can leave deep emotional and physical scars, often manifesting as chronic health issues like gut disease. The pain of narcissistic abuse—gaslighting, emotional manipulation, and neglect—can trap you in a cycle of denial, dissociation, […]
Ever feel like you’re running on a hamster wheel? You know, that sensation where you’re constantly moving but never actually getting anywhere? That’s what happens when we rely on mental quick fixes instead of truly resolving our issues. The Coping Carousel Let’s be honest – we live in a world obsessed with quick fixes. Feeling […]
A reflection on the deeper mechanics of personal transformation There’s a moment in a person’s journey of self discovery when they realize that knowing what’s right and actually doing what’s right are two entirely different things. You might have experienced this yourself—perhaps you’ve read countless self-help books, attended workshops, or even developed what seemed like […]
The term “re-parenting” is frequently used to describe the process of turning inward and providing our younger selves with the care and love we may have lacked in early childhood. This internal work is crucial because when our younger parts don’t receive the nurturing they need, we can develop various symptoms—many psychological diagnoses are linked […]
“The Work” is a term I’ve coined. Drawing from the reference Leonard Cohen used to describe his entire body of work as a poet and songwriter, I view the work as also being deeply connected to the inner work we must all undertake. The Work is a choice. The Work is an inevitable experience […]
