I often hear parents tell me their kids are doing fine with their divorce. However, when I ask the child how they are doing, they often say they are stuck in the middle of war. I also have many parents who are thinking about divorce ask me, “how will this affect my child?” This is […]
Do you ever find yourself caught in a whirlwind of “what if” thoughts? You know, those anxious phrases playing on repeat in your mind: “What if something terrible happens?” or “What if I can’t handle it?” This pattern of worst-case-scenario thinking, often called catastrophizing, can weigh heavily on your mental health and rob you […]
The Recovery Tripod A Framework for Couples Think of this framework like a tripod holding up a camera. Each leg represents one of the three healing pillars. If one leg is weak or missing, the whole structure tips over — the image (a restored life and relationship) cannot be held steady. The Betrayal Trauma Leg provides grounding and […]
The Myth of the Midlife Crisis We’ve all heard the clichés: the sports car, the sudden career pivot, the restless search for meaning. But behind those images lies something much more human. A midlife crisis isn’t about impulsivity or vanity; it’s often a deeply personal reckoning between who we’ve been and who we still hope […]
LIVING WELL WITH LAUREN was your brain wired to fear rest? if you’ve ever wondered: “Why can’t I just relax like everyone else?” LIVING WELL WITH LAUREN DEC 02, 2025 Have you ever caught yourself hustling, performing, or trying to prove yourself… even when you know you’re exhausted? Same. Same. Today I read […]
We Can’t Control Our Thoughts — But We Can Choose Where to Focus Have you ever noticed how your mind keeps talking, even when you wish it would stop?You might be sitting quietly, and suddenly an old memory pops up, or a voice in your head starts whispering, “You should have done better…” or “What if this goes […]
Since technology has advanced so rapidly, many of our lives have become more complicated. One result I have observed is that we are having difficulties maintaining family connections and traditions. As a result of our fast pace world and chaotic lives we sometimes forget the importance of passing on family traditions from generation to […]
Accelerated Resolution Therapy (ART) is a trauma-focused approach that uses guided eye movements and imagery techniques to help the brain reduce the emotional impact of painful memories. One thing people appreciate about ART is that you don’t have to retell the details of the trauma in order for it to work. The process is structured, […]
Strategies to Handle Small Talk, Crowded Events, and the Pressure of the Holiday Season for Socially Anxious Adults The holiday season is often portrayed as a time of joy, celebration, and connection. However, for adults who experience social anxiety, the festive period can also bring a significant amount of stress and overwhelm. Crowded holiday […]
By: Rachel Cooper, MS, LPC-Associate Supervised by Amber Quaranta Leech, PHD, LPC-S Amority Health – Blog – Shifting Perceptions The holidays can feel overwhelming, even for those used to managing everything with precision. If you’re a high-achieving adult, it’s easy to get caught in the cycle of “I have to do it all” […]
