Tag: Codependency

For many high-achieving, capable people, emotional abuse doesn’t look like the stereotypes. From the outside things can seem quiet, civilized and calm. There are no dramatic scenes or obvious cruelty. But you notice yourself : In constant self-doubt and second-guessing yourself Apologizing even when you didn’t do anything wrong Feeling responsible for someone else’s moods […]

If you’ve ever said yes when you meant no, stayed silent when something bothered you, or bent over backwards to avoid disappointing someone, you’re not alone. People-pleasing is one of the most common patterns I see in my practice, especially among high achievers, perfectionists, and people who’ve learned that their value comes from making others […]

Growing up too fast can mean taking on responsibilities and emotional awareness before you were ready. As an adult, this may show up as over-responsibility, perfectionism, or disconnection from your needs. Healing is possible. You can reconnect with the parts of you that carried these burdens and find compassion, balance, and safety. The Hidden Impacts […]

Let’s clear something up right away: therapy isn’t just for people in crisis. You don’t need to be “struggling enough” to reach out, you don’t need to wait until everything falls apart, and you definitely don’t need to prove that your situation is “bad enough” to deserve help. If you’ve been wondering whether therapy might […]

The holidays are supposed to be about connection, joy, and celebration. But for many people, family gatherings come with a complicated layer of stress. Especially when alcohol is involved. Maybe you love your family and look forward to seeing them, but somewhere between the first drink and the third (or fifth), the energy in the […]

If you’ve been thinking about starting therapy but haven’t taken the leap yet, you’re not alone. Many people hesitate because of misconceptions about what therapy is actually like. Maybe you’ve heard stories that scared you, or you’re worried about what might happen if you open up to a therapist. The truth? Most of what people […]

There’s a fine line between being a supportive partner, friend, or family member and slipping into codependency. Both come from a place of care, but they both impact your relationships and your well-being differently. If you’ve ever wondered, “Am I just being helpful, or is this codependency?” you’re not alone. Understanding the difference is the […]

Children don’t heal through long conversations—they heal through stories, movement, imagination, and connection. In my practice, I use art therapy, play-based interventions, and experiential activities to help children express feelings that are too big or too confusing for words. Therapy becomes a safe, creative space where they can explore emotions, learn coping skills, and build […]

Imagine you are you working out with a new trainer at the gym. You don’t know one another well yet, and the trainer is still trying to get to know what your body can and can’t do. She tells you to get down onto all fours for some bird dogs. Now, you know that your […]

  LIVING WELL WITH LAUREN was your brain wired to fear rest? if you’ve ever wondered: “Why can’t I just relax like everyone else?”   LIVING WELL WITH LAUREN DEC 02, 2025 Have you ever caught yourself hustling, performing, or trying to prove yourself… even when you know you’re exhausted? Same. Same. Today I read […]