Content note: This post discusses suicidal thoughts in a faith context. If you are in immediate crisis, please call or text 988. This piece is pastoral, not a substitute for emergency or licensed clinical care. If you have ever sat with the thought I do not want to be here anymore — I am not […]
Burnout can show up under the surface at first: irritability, exhaustion, trouble focusing, emotional distance, or the sense that you are carrying too much for too long. Counselling can offer a grounded place to slow down, understand what is happening, and begin rebuilding steadier ways of working, relating, and recovering. Sometimes burnout looks like getting […]
Toronto’s senior population continues to grow rapidly, with adults over 65 now representing a significant part of the city’s population. As seniors live longer, there is also increasing awareness about the emotional, cognitive, and social challenges that can come with aging, including loneliness, memory loss, anxiety, depression, Parkinson’s disease, and Alzheimer’s-related conditions. Research shows that […]
Many people equate boundaries with being harsh, selfish, or “closing people out.” But healthy boundaries aren’t walls—they’re wise limits that protect love, dignity, and connection. Without boundaries, relationships often slide into resentment, burnout, and confusion. With boundaries, you can be generous without being depleted, honest without being cruel, and loving without losing yourself. If you’ve […]
Emotions are the paints to life’s blank canvas, in my opinion. When you discover a new one, you’ve discovered a new color. Similarly to paints, there is a basic emotional palette, and then endless variations and combinations. In the art of contemplative psychotherapy, we practice meeting each emotional experience with present awareness and compassionate witnessing, […]
We love the idea of newness. A fresh start. A clean slate. A sudden burst of motivation that finally makes everything in our lives line up. In faith spaces, “newness” can sound even more immediate—like once you pray the right prayer, choose the right habits, or “let it go,” you should feel different right away. […]
If you’re a woman who feels constantly overwhelmed, distracted, or “behind” – despite trying hard to stay organized – you’re not alone. Many women with ADHD go years without a diagnosis, often being misunderstood or misdiagnosed along the way. The truth is, ADHD in women can look very different than the stereotypical hyperactive presentation, and […]
If the idea of sitting across from a therapist in a quiet office makes you want to reschedule approximately forever, you’re not alone. For a lot of people, the traditional therapy setup creates more anxiety than it relieves. The eye contact. The tissues on the table. The sense that you’re supposed to say something profound […]
As a man, does asking for help feel foreign or ‘wrong’ somehow? It may be that many traditionally male tenets may be useful or adaptative in certain environments. However, at least some of them might come at a significant cost in other areas. A relatively recent study shows that at least for some men, believing […]
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